BORN

February 4, 1940

DIED

November 17, 2018

AGE

LOCATION

Windsor Locks, Connecticut

Arlene Regina (Monde) McCarthy, born February 4, 1940 passed away at age 78 on November 17, 2018 in Windsor Locks, CT. Arlene was the beloved wife of Fred McCarthy. She is survived by daughters, Kathleen, Mary, and Eileen; brothers, Bill and Kenny; grandchildren, Michael, Kayla, Joshua, and Rebecca; and great-grandson, Zachary. Arlene loved being a nurse, mom, grandma, sister, daughter, friend to many, but of all the roles she played she was a rock-star nurse and grandma ("Gram") to several generations. No one in need was ever turned away. That quality is instilled in her family. She was loved and will be deeply missed by an extended family (too many to list). She did not want a service, but a gathering will be planned for next spring (her favorite season). The best way to honor Arlene ("Gram") is to be kind to one another and do radical acts of kindness where you can.

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Although I didn't know Arlene, I know her wonderful daughter, Mary. I had the privileged of working with Mary for several years. She is so smart, hard working, energetic, kind and creative. After reading about her mother's wonderful life, I realize where Mary got her winning ways. To Mary and her family, I send my most heartfelt condolences. It is so difficult to lose such a wonderful person and their unconditional love. Take care all.

Pam Townsend

November 23, 2018 | Tucson, AZ | Friend

I feel so blessed to be one of Arlene's daughters. It was a privilege and an honor to be her daughter, she taught us all so much. May God Bless you and keep you in his light forever, I will miss you so much Mom. I love you forever, thank you for being my Mom and gracing our family and special thanks to both of my sisters. I would not be able to make it through this without you both.

Eileen McCarthy

November 23, 2018 | Somers, CT | Daughter

Mom, through you I learned life is rarely easy, but then again "easy" was a promise never made by this world. I've learned to be resilient, compassionate, fiercely independent, and to have an open mind and heart. Thanks for that. I'm grateful. You are loved and dearly missed.

Mary McCarthy

November 23, 2018 | Easthampton, MA | Daughter

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