Debra H. Bolder

HOW DOES A FAMILY SAY GOOD-BYE

How does a family say goodbye to a sister and daughter they loved so dear?
You no longer live here among us; only sadness and memories are left here.
Your beautiful face matched your inner spirit; you made the whole world smile.
Sisters and brother have now lost a sister and a father his own precious child.

How do we go on with the living, when you can no longer share in the love?
You and we have always fit together...

Jay,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Continue to trust in God to be a comforter and he will see you through.

Mr. Bolder,
You are in my thoughts at this difficult time. I'm very sorry to hear about Mrs. Bolder. She was always so beautiful & kind to your band students!

Jay Bolder and Brittany:
I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of one of the sweetest friend I have ever known. I really enjoyed her spirit and her smile could never make me be mad at her too long. She was a true classmate and friend at Wingate. Her spirit will live forever in my heart, Jay!

Mr. Bolder & Brittany,
I learned of Ms. Bolder's passing last night at a party. I was in total disbelief, I am deeply saddend for you loss. What I will miss the most is the way that Debra could make anybody smile and relax. It was hard to be upset with her around. As you begin to move on with your lives, take pride in the love she was able to show everyone. I will always appreciate the way Debra could settle Jon down when he was having troubles at GCHS, just by spending a few...

I was shocked to read about Debra's death this past Sunday in Fayetteville Observer. This is so hard to believe. Debra was the most gracious and affirming and flexible and good natured school receptionist to have ever lived! susan caddell

We thank all of Debbie's extended family and friends for all your love, support and kind words. We will all miss her very much, but she will forever live in our hearts and memories.

Angela Hough Walker, Lil Sister Pageland SC

I have been so blessed to have met Mrs. Bolder. She always greeted me with a smile. She was not only a beautiful person on the outside but inside as well. May God be with all of her family. Remember to keep your hands in Gods hands.

Mr. Bolder and Family our thoughts and prayers are with you and will give you strength in this difficult time in your life. Cherish Debra's memories and we were all blessed to have known such a wonderful woman. God Bless you.
South View Marching Band 2001/2002