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May 21, 2014
I will always miss you coach cooley.I knew you my whole life and i will miss you so much but i know you are safe in heaven
The Stoetzel's
October 15, 2013
We were in such a shock upon hearing the news of Gary's Passing. Our daughter Katey Stoetzel played soccer with Courtney in LSSA. He was her coach for a few years in soccer, and I was Courtney's Coach for one session in Basketball with Katey. I always enjoyed seeing Gary at all of those events. Our thoughts and Prayers go to the family. The Stoetzel Family.. Sharon, Tony, Katey and Abbey.
Danette (Dee Dee) Dhillo (Sifuentes)
September 23, 2013
I'm so sorry and sad to hear about Gary, he was one of the sweetest guys I knew. My prayers are with all of you. I'm sorry that I did not get to make it to the funeral but my thoughts were with all of you!
Debbie Farley
September 18, 2013
Although I only knew Gary for a short time through work, my first impression was, "wow what a terrific person". Later his sctions only confirmed what a unique, caring, smart and terrific guy he really was. He left an imprint on my heart and he will be missed tremendously. You are truly an Angel Gary. What a gift god has received, unfortunately it is a huge loss for those that must carry on without you close by.
the wiley family
September 18, 2013
This should never happen to someone so young. Thinking about all of you.
September 18, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Abby Mueller
Venessa Huskey
September 18, 2013
Jason I know this is a difficult time. I am lifting you and your family in prayer. God loves you and I do too!
Georgia Hoskins
September 18, 2013
Thinking and praying for all the family today. May God extend his grace to each of you to be able to endure your loss. He will be dearly missed!
amanda sharp
September 18, 2013
Gary you were an amazing friend and a very good police officer you will be greatly missed we love you
The sharp family
Kate Sanz
September 18, 2013
My memories of Gary or as I called him GC go back to his days as a clerk at EPD. I thought he should get a degree and then consider the police department....obviously he thought otherwise. Mores the better for me though, I had the opportunity to know a wonderful person. My prayers and thoughts are with John, Jason and all of GC's family.
Kate Sanz
September 17, 2013
I will forever remember Gary as a kind, spiritual man. May he rest in peace until Jesus comes again. With our deepest sympathy, Bernadette Cook and Julia A. Price.
September 17, 2013
Bernadette Cook,4014 Paseo Boulevard, Kansas City, Missouri, 64110
Tana Drake
September 17, 2013
So very sorry for your family's loss. May you find peace in knowing that Heaven has gained an amazing angel.
Karen Almond
September 17, 2013
What an amazing man, he will be greatly missed by the department and the community.
Wallace Davis
September 17, 2013
HE WILL BE FOREVER MISSED. HE WAS A GREAT MAN WITH A STRONG BELIEF IN GOD. MAY HIS FAMILY FIND PEACE KNOWING THAT HE IS NOW RESTING IN THE ARMS OF GOD..........
Tom and Mary Burtchett
September 17, 2013
We are so shocked to hear about Gary. There is no greater loss than of a child . Our hearts go out to you John and Carole and to Jason and Johnny and all of Gary's family. A parent should not have to bury a child and at such a young age. May God wrap His arms around all of you and bring you peace knowing that Gary is with his Heavenly Father and is at peace, free from all the sufferings of this world. Know that we are thinking about you and praying for you.
Laurie Clark
September 17, 2013
Praying that all the happy memories you have with Gary sustain you all until you meet again in Heaven.
I will miss his smiling face and gentle heart.
Les Howard
September 17, 2013
Wow, I was his Sunday school teacher at Souls Harbour A/G..sorry to hear this.God bless and comfort the family.
Leslie (Les)Howard
September 17, 2013
RIP, Gary!
September 17, 2013
To Dare Officer, Jason Cooley & Family. I was deeply saddened to read about the death of your beloved brother, SGT. Gary Cooley. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. May God comfort you and give you peace during your time of bereavement.
Pat Hester (Retired Teacher, C. A. Franklin School)
September 17, 2013
To Dare Officer ,Jason Cooley & Family.
I was deeply saddened to read of the death of your brother, SGT. Gary Cooley. You and your family have my heartfelt sympathy. May God comfort you and give you peace during your time of bereavement.
Pat Hester (C. A. Franklin School)
Gary Habelitz
September 16, 2013
I cannot believe that this happened to Gary at such a young age. I remember Gary as a civilian employee at EPD and Detention and after he graduated from the Academy. He was a fine young man who always seemed to love his job. My prayers go out to John and the rest of his family!
John Dawson
September 16, 2013
I worked with Gary when he was just a teenage young man at EPD when he was civilian employee. He will truly be missed......
September 16, 2013
Your P&P family only had you for such a short while, but you touched our hearts in so may ways. Your dedication to your work and family was so apparent. God bless you and your family. Your contribution to your work and family will not be forgotton.
Cindy Holmberg Plante
September 16, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Gary's entire family, especially his parents, Carol and John, and his children. God called him home for a reason, we'll never know why, but we know he will continue to do great work in heaven.
George Norman
September 16, 2013
We would like to thank the Cooley family for loaning us Sgt. Cooley to help us in the work of restoring lives. Stg. Cooley was a regular participant with the KC Subtsnace Abuse Coalition. His belief to help those struggling with substance abuse will continue to ring in our ears.
Carolyn Merino
September 15, 2013
My sincere condolences to the Cooley family. Gary will be remembered as a kind, thoughtful friend. I never saw him without that wonderful smile. Rest in peace Gary.
September 15, 2013
Gary will forever be remembered as a great person and friend to the community. Jana, I'll always remember how his face lit up with excitement when he told me he was going to propose to you. He loved you very much. God bless all of you !
Robin Schultz Cook
September 15, 2013
Gary, God Bless You and your family, the good Lord has big plans for you. You will ever been remembered for your smile and kind words.
September 15, 2013
Thank you for your dedication in protecting our safety and our live's for all those years. You will be missed officer.
Barry Mayer
September 15, 2013
I'm going to miss you my friend. We are all going to miss you. All our love to your family. Barry
Steve Staffer
September 15, 2013
I met Gary when he worked at East Patrol in 1988. His smile (which never seemed to leave his face) was infectious. His dad always beamed when he talked about his boy, and both of them impressed me with their strong Christian beliefs that guided them in their daily lives.
May God bless the family as they deal with the loss of an such an extraordinary human being.
This life seems so unfair when we lose such special people. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and his many friends.
Ceci Derks
September 15, 2013
SGT. Welcome home, Job well done, May you find everlasting peace, and rest in our Lord's arms. Thank You for your service. May God Bless your family and be with them in their time of need.
Claudia Stephens
September 14, 2013
Gary was a wonderful neighbor and friend. We were looking forward to spending more time with he and Janna. My prayers go to all the family, especially the kids. I am confident he is in heaven and am glad for that. May God give you all HIS peace that surpasses all understanding.
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