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for Gregory Kirwin
Gregory and Patrick at the fork in the road
John Kirwin
September 18, 2012
Greg's 8th birthday mom's cake and dad's tie
John Kirwin
September 4, 2012
Amethyst and Belle 2008
John Kirwin
September 4, 2012
Brochures and newsletters with posters from Catholic Charities
John Kirwin
September 2, 2012
Catholic Charities leadership group
John Kirwin
September 2, 2012
Greg's coworkers at Holy Rosary luncheon
John Kirwin
September 2, 2012
Mike and Jason from Catholic Charities at luncheon
John Kirwin
September 2, 2012
Sisters Dorie and Rosie above Marengo Reservation
John Kirwin
September 1, 2012
Bella and Amethyst at Holy Rosary luncheon
John Kirwin
September 1, 2012
Mei with family pictures and wreaths in Greg's memory
John Kirwin
September 1, 2012
Momorial Luncheon with Ken Sawa and John Kirwin
John Kirwin
September 1, 2012
Robert Johnson and Mei with flowers at Memorail Luncheon
John Kirwin
September 1, 2012
Catholic Charities with Greg's work at Memorial Luncheon
John Kirwin
September 1, 2012
Sister Angelica from Dioceses and Sister Joan from Grand Terrace
John Kirwin
September 1, 2012
Greg, Belle and Amethyst at Wapatki indian ruins
John Kirwin
August 25, 2012
Amethyst and Belle enjoy earth's bounty
John Kirwin
August 25, 2012
Greg waves at Walnut Canyon Arizona with Belle and Amethyst
John Kirwin
August 25, 2012
Belle and Greg at Walnut Canyon Arizona
John Kirwin
August 25, 2012
Belle and Amy at Wapatka ruins, Arizona
John Kirwin
August 25, 2012
Clayton, Amethyst, Grace and Belle
John Kirwin
August 24, 2012
Dorie, Rosie and Renny contemplate Greg's beautiful flowers in Banning
John Kirwin
August 22, 2012
Belle has perfect attendance for 2011 school year
John Kirwin
August 22, 2012
Dorie Kirwin, Rose Anne Cleary and Maureen Myers at Holy Rosary Luncheon
John Kirwin
August 22, 2012
Maureen Kirwin Myers with Jennifer Gleb at Luncheon
John Kirwin
August 22, 2012
John Kirwin
August 21, 2012
My sisters were elightened by the many testimonials by Gregory's co-workers and friends at the memorial services and luncheons in Banning and San Bernardino.
Michael KIRWIN
August 19, 2012
Michael KIRWIN
August 19, 2012
Michael KIRWIN
August 19, 2012
Michael KIRWIN
August 19, 2012
Michael KIRWIN
August 19, 2012
Michael KIRWIN
August 19, 2012
Ruth Wilt
August 17, 2012
I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.Though I haven't seen Greg in many years the very thought of him has always brought a smile to my face. Reading this guest book I see that Greg continued to spread his endearing light everywhere he went in life. You're all in my prayers.
Jim Lynch
August 17, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are extended to the family, friends and acquaintances of my friend and someone I called my brother. We are all better by knowing such a good man and will all carry a piece of him with us throughout the rest of our lives. His role as father, christian and friend made this world a better place and we should rejoice we were blessed with his humor, love and kindness. Although we are all stuggling with his passing, it's comforting to know he will be reunited with his parents and brother. It is our mission to carry on what he has started and relish the memories we all shared with him. None of us will ever forget his infectious grin and hearty handshake and it's comforting to know he loved all of us as much as we loved him. God bless you Greg!
Valorie Worthy
August 17, 2012
Gregory's ebullience was inspiring to all of us who knew and loved him. A more genuine, enthusiastic and friendly soul has never existed. I had the pleasure of Gregory's friendship his entire adult life and know his greatest joy to have resided in his daughters. I extend my love to all of the Kirwins who welcomed me into their family so warmly over the years and for whom I have profound sympathy upon this, their enormous loss. Gregory hovers around us and has now become our muse. We must honor him by living the most generous lives we can. Valorie Worthy, Athens, Ohio
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Chris Schaller
August 17, 2012
Greg was one of a kind. What an incredible personality has been stolen from us. I'll remember him for his love of the 'doors', his lovable quirky mannerism and his genuine innocence. I am proud to have called him my friend and I will miss him greatly. My God keep and protect your daughters.
Bill Kloss
August 16, 2012
I am at a complete loss for meaningful words. I would rush to a poetry anthology for something to fill my verbal loss if this were not so neat to you and me. That would be a cop out. I cannot, absolutely cannot imagine the devastation that the loss of a brother brings. Greg was a man of energy and caring, of imagining and trying out. Like all of the Kirwins who I had the privilege of meeting, a person of spirit. This unthinkable tragedy has brought grief to all of us. And it underscores the fragility of every day of our lives.
Gina Gradias-Penman
August 14, 2012
My prayers to the Kirwin family! I had the pleasure of knowing Greg and spending many lunches with him talking about him becoming a father (being a father). We had a baby shower for him and Mei at the Pastoral Center and he was just beside himself! He couldn't imagine they made little things...He was proud being a father. When I would see him, I would ask about how his daughters were doing, and his face would just light up and he would smile from ear to ear and tell me they are doing great! He will be missed!
Jo-Ann Tiranno
August 14, 2012
I've been blessed to call Maggie Kirwin my close friend,and further blessed by extension to get to know and call Greg a friend. Maggie and her brother Greg have always been close and spoke every night, He was her best friend. How many of us can say that we grew up with our best friend? It was especially admirable the way he bore up so wonderfully under the stress of raising two small girls alone. He was the constant in their lives. After the accident,what was left of the oatmeal and orange juice he had put out for breakfast was still on the table.
Like all of us, Greg had to deal with the stresses of the everyday, raising his girls,working full time,maintaining family relationships. At the same time,he was a visionary. He knew that things might not be what they seem. He wasn't content to buy into the illusion. Most of us believe our sense..what we see,hear,taste or smell reveals the truth. He was the rare individual who had an extrasensory perception.
Our senses give us only limited clues. Like the proverbial caterpillar,Greg metamorphisized in this lifetime, into a higher vibration and ascended out of the cocoon while still on earth.
The baby brother in a very large family,Greg was kind and funny,with a personality infused with soul. As the head of his own family,he raised his daughters with conviction.
Greg was always speaking in metaphors. So this is for you Greg: " I'ts a strange ,strange world we live in Master Jack...I thank you very much and though you've been kind I'd better move along before you change my mind" Bless your little heart Greg
Sydney Joseph
August 14, 2012
My sister Carol and I extend our condolences to the Kirwin family on the passing of their great son Gregory,he was a man of the soil. We first met him thru his sister Maggie,many summers ago while he was visiting her. Greg's love for his sister inspired us on how to stay close as a family.We truly love him and will never forget his pleasant ways. To those lovely girls,his kids,we will miss your father, I know he is in the arms of the Lord,for he believed in the Lord. Sleep on Gregory,one day we meet again. Rest in peace.
Sydney Joseph and Caroline Hercules( Port of Spain, Trinidad)
Sandy Idle
August 13, 2012
I just found out about Greg and I am deeply saddened to hear this news. I met Greg two years ago while interning for CC and I was moved by his incredible love for his daughters and his humble spirit. He will defineatly be missed by those he worked with but even more by his daughters and family. To his daughters and family my prayers go out to you.
August 13, 2012
To the Kerwin Family,
I will keep both Grag and you, his family, in my prayers. He was a person of great energy ans exuberance.
Sister Cathy White,
Diocese of San Bernardino
Jody Hoelle
August 13, 2012
Greg, What happened? I couldn't believe it when Mae called me. You were one of the best artists I have ever personally known and a terrific writer too. Your creativity will be greatly missed. You were also a great dad. God's speed be with you my dear friend.
August 13, 2012
Dear Kirwins, I am writing to tell you how sorry I am for the tragic loss of Gregory. I met Gregory only once. It was at the funeral for our nephew Daniel McCabe Kirwin. That was actually the first time I met the Kirwins. What an incredible group of people they are. I was so glad to see that my sister Mary, would be surrounded and supported by such true caring and comforting kinship. I knew that the Kirwin's compassion was so encompassing they even had room for my family(the Woolsey's). I hope that at this time or anywhere in the future you know that my family would be honored to help in any manner. May time and love give you comfort and may prayers give you some peace. You're in my thoughts, heart and prayers. Love, Molly (Woolsey)
Angelica Alba
August 13, 2012
Greg was a great human being and good friend. He always saw the good in people and knew just the right thing to say. I know he lived life to the fullest and enjoyed being a father, brother, husband and friend. He will be missed! In the many lunches we shared while he worked at the diocese I got to see his creative side and caricatures. I thank God for having met him. May he rest in peace.
Tamar Brinkerhoff
August 13, 2012
I will always remember Greg as a man of humble dignity and he had a smile for me each time I greeted him. His daughters had an awesome Dad and we will miss him very much. God's love and grace to his daughters and Gregs family whom will embrace them into their lives. Tamar Brinkerhoff/Catholic Mutual Group
Helen Doerring
August 12, 2012
As third daughter of Lot Smith, I offer condolences representing his family. The Kirwin's were good people. My father loved the boys that came to work for him. Always reliable and hard working. The ones I remember were Robbie, Michael, and David. I'm sorry for your loss which is the oldest, Robbie (much loved by Smith) and now the youngest, Greg. Kindest regards to you all.
Suzy Dawson
August 12, 2012
I first met Greg when I was 5 and we were in Mrs. Kramer's kindergarten class at Edwards Elementary, a few years later we became neighbors. We had so much fun over the years. I am honored to have known him. He was by far the funniest person I ever met and that, I will keep with me always. Love you Greg.
Amehtyst on the locaomatove
John Kirwin
August 12, 2012
Thanks for planning and sharing intersting vacations Greg.
John Kirwin
August 12, 2012
John Kirwin
August 12, 2012
We are grateful for the assistance of Ken Sawa of the Catholic Charities and the testimonials of Beverly, Robert, Shirley and Jason Keck at the Mountain Avenue Baptist Church. Richard Szydlowski and Jennifer Gleb honored Greg with a memorial service and luncheon with a video collage by Wiefels and Sons. We are grateful to the Diocesan Office for the memorial mass and luncheon scheduled for noon Monday at Holy Rosary church on Arrowhead St east of Highland St. Thank you Micheal Kovack of Mt View Mortuary for posting Greg's obituary and this guest book. Many comments enlightened my sisters Maureen, Rose Anne and Dorie visiting in Banning.
Beal Lowe
August 12, 2012
The first time I ever saw Greg he was 10 years old and he came excitedly running around from the back of the Kirwin house, closely followed by Patrick, as they chased some kind of "rocket" they had launched in the back yard. I came to know and love the trait he had for both creating excitement and exuberantly enjoying it. I had a great trip with him when he went to college in Texas. I always thought there would be more. I will miss those future times with you, Greg. Go with God.
Evelyn Burke
August 12, 2012
Rest in peace, Greg. Your daughters and the Kirwin family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Clare Colella
August 12, 2012
During the years that I knew Greg through work at the Diocesan Pastoral Center, I remember a delightful, dedicated and refreshing man who loved his family, was creative, and was able to inspire me and others with his insights and faith. Our prayers continue for the family and all loved ones who have treasured Greg during his life and who now carry on his legacy of compassion, playfulness and faith.
Jason Keck
August 11, 2012
The absolute sense of sorrow, emptiness, and disbelief that I am haunted by due to the sudden loss of Greg may seem disproportionate to the limited time that I knew and worked with him, but I suppose at the end of the day that is indeed a perfect and unavoidable testament to the magical person that he was. Greg was the quintessential, well-rounded Renaissance man in every way. He was sophisticated in regard to technology, but ‘down to earth' in the way he treated others. He was a poet, an athlete, an artist, a modern day bohemian, a character, a skeptic, a scholar, an advocate, a revolutionary, an adventurer, a storyteller, a humanitarian. He was a friend to the vulnerable, the exploited, the invisible, and disregarded. He was also a gift from God. Greg was a citizen of the world, and sometimes it felt as if he took its burdens upon his shoulders, but he seemed to do so with the greatest of ease and most positive of attitudes. Greg and I shared many classic, unforgettable conversations about the sad state of affairs in our society, but instead of getting down and discouraged by the harsh realities and challenges in existence, to the contrary it inspired him to be more vigilant about seeking truth, embracing and promoting understanding, and working even harder for a better tomorrow. Greg was interested in everything, and passionate about all he did, and nowhere was that more apparent than in his two little girls that were his entire life. The energy, attention, safety, enthusiasm, devotion, warmth, support, commitment, morality, sacrifice, example, memories, and uncompromising love that he provided his daughters will, without a doubt, ensure that they will grow to have beautiful, special, and meaningful lives. Greg, you encapsulated all that is good in this world – love, faith, equality, peace, and justice – and for that you made it a better place. You are irreplaceable to Catholic Charities on a professional level, and even more irreplaceable as a friend. You were a brother in the most genuine sense of the word. A brother to your family, a brother to your friends and colleagues, a brother to the stranger on the street. I will forever miss the funniest person with the straightest face that I have ever known. See you where the grass is greener, my friend.
Bryan Fail
August 11, 2012
When a very good friend from your past leaves this world and you feel a true sense of loss, that person made an everlasting impression on you. Greg was a source of inspiration for me at Groveport. I had the honor of playing along side of Kiwi on the football field and ran track with him. I can still see him chasing down quarterbacks from behind and smoking the field in the 110m high hurdles. Every memory I have brings a smile because of his unique personality. May God grant your family peace given your sudden passing.
Suzanne Kasavage Fickes.
August 11, 2012
RIP you truly had a unique perspective on life and the world in general. I'll always remember you from high school and your humor and how you were thr "stork" our class will be less now that you are gone we will so miss you. Much comfort to your family during this trying time. Much love to your loved ones.
Greg is first row second from right. The whole family is in this picture
Michael KIRWIN
August 11, 2012
August 11, 2012
To Gregs wonderful girls....We are praying for you and would love for you to come over one day soon. We love you both and please don't ever hesitate to call us if you ever need anything. 909-499-4908 Amy's cell (Johnny and Analese's mom). And to the rest of the family, including the girls, We didn't know Greg that long, but we were very blessed by him in the short time that we did know him. He was a great man, full of energy and joy, and the best father to his beautiful girls. We are keeping you in our prayers.
Love,
The Lara's
Patrick Kirwin
August 10, 2012
Dear Greg, You literally are my brother, but you were also part of me. Part of me is lost forever. I have known you since you were born and we spent a lot of time together and have so many stories and adventures. Every time with you was special somehow. You embodied a philosophical and humorous sensibility that was genius. Your death was the most shocking, horrible experience of my life. A seismic shift has occurred in my life and I will never be the same. But I am the better for having been your brother. I am gladdened seeing that some of the old friends have written - Kovaks, Lloyd!, Karn - thanks to all of you who shared your memories and experiences of my brother - it means so much to hear how he touched so many people.
Lena Bradley
August 10, 2012
Greg was always so kind to all those he came in contact with. He wanted to know and talk to people, share in an experience, and let people know he cared. He is truly missed.
Belinda Marquez
August 10, 2012
Greg's love for his daughters was apparent always. His dedication to the work of Catholic Charities will be missed by all. You created many memories for all us, my family and I will remember you with fondness. May God watch over your girls now and always.
Maria Garnett
August 10, 2012
Our brother,we will hold on to what we remember and enjoyed, we won't lose that, it stays with us until we meet again.
August 10, 2012
Dear Family of Greg,
My deepest and most heartfelt condolences go out to the wife and two young daugters of Greg, the Great Man that I knew. I worked with him at the Diocesan Pastoral Center and afterwards in other ministry settings. Greg's BIG smile and friendship will always remain in my heart... Please know that you all are in my prayers. May Greg rest in the eternal Peace and Love of his Creator God+ God bless you+
Kathy Cho
Director
Ministry with Youth Office
Diocese of San Bernardino
MaryRose Wallace
August 10, 2012
Greg's kind and gentle nature will be missed as much as his zest for life and quirky sense of humor. He loved his daughters and was proud of the work he did for Catholic Charities. Peace be with you Greg and may God bless your family.
Ursula Hinkson
August 10, 2012
Many of us looked forward to Greg's presentations at our Town Hall Meetings here at the Pastoral Center of the Diocese of San Bernardino. He brought such humor and his good spirit. He inspired me to learn how to speak to a large group. He loved his family and may his light shine on them with Love and God's Grace.
Norma V
August 10, 2012
I will always remember the great laughs that Greg and I shared during our lunch hour, while he worked at the Diocesan Pastoral Center. I will never forget the joy and excitement he had to learn that Mei was expecting their first daughter Amethyst. My heart aches for Greg's daughters as they will no longer be able to hug their daddy and see how proud he was of them. My prayers are with your family. Blessings to you all.
Sister Linda Nicholson, CSJ
August 10, 2012
Greg was a giving and generous man who worked hard for the San Bernardino Catholic Schools during his time as Development Director. He was so proud of his daughters and had such great hope for their future -- may God embrace Greg for all eternity, and may God give his daughters comfort and healing as they miss their Daddy. Rest peacefully Greg. You are with God - God is with you.
Ted Furlow
August 10, 2012
Greg was always a man well met, big handshake, booming "hello", with humor and a bit of goofiness that lit up the room. We never encounter one another that I did not move on with a smile on my face. God Bless you.
Marcela Ruiz
August 10, 2012
I worked with Greg at the Diocesan Pastoral Center in San BErnardino and truly admired his kind and friendly spirit. I also loved the artist in him. He wlll be greatly missed. Prayers to his family and children.
Kristine Staros
August 10, 2012
In loving memory of Gregory Kirwin.
Michael Shackel
August 10, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Greg almost every day for the past year. He was like no one else I've ever known, and I will never forget him. His wisdom and humor are still ringing in my ears. He gave everything for the people around him. He cared so deeply for his daughters and loved them more than life itself. Gregorio, may you rest in peace.
Jo Ann Wilkes
August 10, 2012
Greg you were so humorous, and just a day before your departure you made me laugh about your coming to see me preach. Your humor brought a lot of light, and you will be missed.
Gary McMane
August 10, 2012
Greg was a brother to me. I loved our conversations, always provocative, full of laughter, and often "deep" in philosophical or political discourse. Greg and i first got to know each other on a trip to New Orleans with Catholic Charities after the devastation of the 9th ward. Of course the New Orleans night life brought us into another world of constant celebration, brotherhood with whom ever is next to you, and realization about life that "you make your moments". It is moments that measure our relationships, and create memories. I will remember many moments with Greg....talking about fatherhood,.... how different the world is from when we grew up,......how we have to be "militant" in our missions to wake up American policy makers,....and those giant salads matched with his gallon of water he would have for lunch...Greg was "Mr. Healthy" sportin' a purple shirt and orange tie....Greg rocked!
Greg was a big thinker and a talented learner. He was constantly having to learn new things to keep up with the technological needs of the agency. Through his talents, he brought Catholic Charities "on line" in a more significant way than ever before. He was a true-blue team member who would get the job done if took all night to do it.
To my brother's family: You have done well by this one. Thank you for your love and care in his upbringing and in his departure. Bless his darling daughters with all the love and attention they need. God Bless
Gary M
Joyce Leon
August 10, 2012
I was blessed to have worked with Greg for the past 5 years. He had a wonderful sense of humor! We often shared stories of our children and their sports events. We had lots of fun making a commercial about participating with Catholic Charities at a fundraising Baseball game. We alsolaughed about Greg's love of strong, thick coffee! He will be missed...
Thomas Snowden
August 10, 2012
He will be missed by all his class mates from ths class of 82, rest in peace Greg.
MaryRose Wallace
August 10, 2012
I loved Greg's offbeat sense of humor. He always had a warm smile and happy greeting for everyone. He loved his family. Rest in peace Greg. My thoughts and prayers are with his sweet little daughters.
james nester
August 10, 2012
I have great memories of Greg from high school and the football field, My prayers and thoughts are with the family, time will heal your pain and the memories will last forever...RIP my friend!
Quentin Myers
August 10, 2012
Greg and I were classmates in high school and we created many memories together that I will not forget. We connected over facebook during the past year and I was planning to connect with him this year on my next trip, very sad that I missed that opportunity. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Valerie Daniel
August 10, 2012
My thoughts and prayers to Greg's daughters and family. A life taken too soon. Greg was a classmate of mine at GMHS he will surely be missed by all thoses lives of whom Greg had touched.
August 10, 2012
With heartfelt sympathy to all of Greg's family...You will be missed more than you know, may the Lord keep you in his arms as we keep you in our hearts.
Deneen Barber-Wendling
Clara Maddox
August 10, 2012
Greg was my neighbor for 3 years and throughout these years his lovely daughters played with my children: climbed on trees, swam together' rode bikes together and visited one another. greg's daughters' meant the world to him. And now that he is in heaven, I am sure he is Amie's and Bella's Guarding Angel! You will be missed Greg. God Bless You
Joyce Poling
August 9, 2012
My thoughts, prayers and sympathy to Greg's daughters and the entire Kirwin Family.
Al Velasquez
August 9, 2012
One of the nicest persons I have ever known and worked with. I am truely shocked and my heart aches terribly for his passing. May his daughters stay warm wiht God's comfort, and may his soul rest in peace.
Ron Karn
August 9, 2012
Gregory, Thanks for the countless philosophical and mildly-late evenings. You were a loyal and true high-school companion. You will be missed.
Cathy Tritschler-Hall
August 9, 2012
I am terribly saddened by the news about Greg. I send love and prayers to Greg's daughters and all of my Kirwin cousins wishing I could do more! He was a remarkable person.
Rosie Perez
August 9, 2012
At Young Scholar Education Center he was well liked and respected. His girls could not wait to see him. He was a devoted father and a great parent role model. His girls were always number one. He will be greatly missed.
Mike McCann
August 9, 2012
Greg was a classmate, a teammate, and a friend while attending Groveport. He always had a passion for whatever he was invovled in. His quick wit and sense of humor was second to none. He was a talented athlete, artist, and student. I lost touch with Greg when he moved to California. I am sure he was a wonderful, caring father. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
August 9, 2012
I knew you since we were children-we lived in the same neighborhood and we both came from big families. My heart breaks knowing you are not here with us anymore and for your daughters. I feel blessed just knowing that you were my friend and neighbor. Heaven is a better place with you there. R.I.P. Greg and my heartfelt respects to all of your family for this tragic loss. You will surely be missed.
God Bless your family
Libby Ginnetti
Thomas Lloyd
August 9, 2012
Greg was a good friend of mine. We spent a lot of time as teenagers getting into and out of lots hair raising situations. He was one of my best pals and I'll never forget him.
Veronica Bermudez
August 9, 2012
A wonderful father to his little girls and a great asset to our community. He will be sadly missed.
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