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Ruth Cates Obituary

PARSIPPANY â€" Ruth Ann Cates, 57, of Parsippany, died Monday, July 29, 2013, at home.

Ruth Ann was born in Franklin and grew up in Sussex County. Ruth Ann was an EKG tech at Newton Medical Center.

The daughter of the late George T. and Lulu (Crowell) VanSickle, she also was predeceased by her brother, George VanSickle.

Ruth Ann is survived by four children, Devin Cates, of Parsippany; Alena Cates, of Pennsauken; Logan Cates, of Parsippany; and Katie Schwarz, of Pasippany; Laura Zalewski (adopted heart), of Parsippany; Margaret Smith, (adopted mother), of Great Meadows; and her companion, George Schwarz; six sisters, Pat Decker, Georgia Hendershot, Rose Davis, Justina Sanchez, Joyce VanSickle and Luann Poyer; three brothers, Henry Sanchez, Seeley Titsworth and Lee Smith.

Services are private and under the direction of Smith-McCracken Funeral Home, 63 High St., Newton.

Memorial donations may be made to American Cancer Society, 7 Ridgedale Ave., Suite 103, Cedar Knolls, NJ 07927. Online condolences may be offered at www.smithmccrackenfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The New Jersey Herald on Jul. 31, 2013.

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James John Bianco

July 25, 2024

Hey Ruth ! Yep ! Still thinking of you ! and still using the blanket you gave me ! Hope your having a beautiful time with friends, and family in Heaven, and I hope you, and my Linda Lee get to talk now, and then. She always thought you were cool ! Always in thought, and heart. <3

James Bianco

July 26, 2021

One of the most beautiful, and amazing Ladies, that my wife, and I ever met. Ruth, gave me a heavy blanket that she knitted as a gift. I have used it, since the day she gave it to me, and always thank her, before going to sleep. It's something I shall always treasure from Ruth, as I treasure our friendship, the memories, and great times we shared. Ruth was indeed, a very special gift from God. My wife Linda Lee, and I will never know what we did, to deserve such a beautiful gift, but we thank God, for having known her. Always in our prayers, and in our hearts, with love. <3 James n Linda Lee Bianco. SC.

James John Bianco

July 25, 2020

Ruth was truly an amazing Lady. Friendly, warm, and beautiful, and we considered Ruth our family. Ruth made me a very special blanket, to use on cold night's, which is my favorite blanket., and I always thank her, whenever I use it. She still is, and always will be, in my thoughts, my prayers, and my heart. Ruth will always be missed, and I think of her often. She shall always remain in my thoughts, my prayers, and in my heart always, until we meet once again.

Betsy Spangenberg

August 6, 2013

My Friend Ruth Ann, you will be missed by many family and family of friends. I met you at Newton Hospital over 30 years ago,when my children were small. We finally reconnected after many years.I will treasure your friendship, forever. Alena, Devin, and Logan,Katie. if you ever need to talk, or if I can help you in anyway, please feel free to call me. Ruth Ann is now a beautiful Angel keeping watch over her family and friends. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Judy Schaefer

August 5, 2013

My prayers are with you Ruth Anne's Family. Your at peace with no more pain now. May you all find peace in knowing that your mom is now your gaurdian angel.

Ron Boyer

August 1, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Ruth's Family. Ruth, I will never forget you and the good times we had together. You surely will be missed, Ruth.

James and Vickie Laing

July 31, 2013

We met you and your mom years ago in jersey, about 10 years ago, we remember giving you kids a ride on our motorcycle, We can only hope your mom found her peace now. Our prayers are with you all . Talk to your mom often it is my belief that she hears you. Alena congratulations on your baby. I just wish we had been able to get together again. But you all will be forever in our hearts and prayers.

Karen Vivian

July 31, 2013

Our prayers and condolences to Ruth Ann's family. She was a terrific lady with a huge heart. She will be greatly missed by myself and staff. With deepest sympathy from all of us at Canine Clips by Karen.

July 31, 2013

u will always be miss love you always your sister pat

James John Bianco

July 31, 2013

Ruth Ann thank you for the greatest gift you gave me, your friendship. We were meant to meet, and you were one of God's greatest gifts. Your a very special Lady, and you'll always be a very special friend, I will always miss you dearly, until we meet again, you will remain in my heart. My deepest sympathy to your beautiful family. James John James John

James John & Linda Lee Bianco

July 31, 2013

We would like to express our condolence's and prayer's to the family for your loss..Just know,there is now " ONE SPECIAL GUARDIAN ANGEL, THAT WILL LOOK DOWN UPON HER FAMILY AND PROTECT & GUIDE YOU ALWAY'S." May You R.I.P. RuthAnn,and you too shall alway's be loved & never forgotten our friend. James John & Linda Lee Bianco

Chris Leavitt

July 31, 2013

Thoughts n prayers to all of you!! She will be greatly n sadly missed.. She was a great lady.. Love n miss u always Roffie Doof

Peggy Pluymers

July 31, 2013

God needed another angel.RIP Ruth Ann

linda&jack elston

July 31, 2013

Remembering your great love story today and always.

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