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In Loving Memory John Peyton Mossy, 22 RANCHO SANTA FE -- John Peyton Mossy, beloved son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin and friend to all, passed away at the age of 22, on Sunday, December 11, 2011. He is survived by his parents, Peter and Sandy Mossy; and siblings, Travis (25), Blake (18), and Charlie (10). He is also survived by his grandparents, Lyle and Evelyn Meyer and Wiley Mossy; uncles and aunts, Phil and Julie Mossy, David and Lisa Mossy, Jim and Beth Watt, Skipper and Carol York, Tom and Karla Meyer, David and Julie Meyer, and James Meyer; as well as dozens of cousins who loved him dearly. John Mossy was born at Scripps Hospital in La Jolla on September 28, 1989. He attended Santa Fe Christian Schools in Solana Beach from kindergarten through his senior year of high school -and received a "Lifer" award at his high school graduation in 2008. He began wrestling in junior high, and by the time he reached high school, he was one of the best wrestlers in his weight class. He was named 2004 Santa Fe Christian's Wrestler of the Year. He was an all American wrestler and made it to the State Championships twice. John had a passion for all things athletic. Whether he was playing lacrosse, football or wrestling, his enthusiasm inspired his friends, family and teammates. His awards, titles, and trophies made his family proud. Following high school graduation, he attended Southern Methodist University. John had an amazing ability to make anyone smile with his infectious laugh and spontaneity. He made friends everywhere and with everyone. John was humble and didn't seek the spotlight, but his humor, wisdom, smile, and charisma made people gravitate to him. He spent time serving on mission trips in Haiti, Jamaica, and Mexico. John's gentle, sensitive spirit gave him the genuine quality of being an angel. His family and his friends will remember him for his smile, laugh, passion for life, his faith, his love for his family and his desire to serve the Lord. A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m.,on Friday, December 16, at the Church of the Nativity, 6309 El Apajo Road in Rancho Santa Fe, Calif. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made to two ministries that John loved and deeply cared about- Global Church Partners: globalchurchpartners.com and the Fellowship of Christian Athletes: www.fca.org. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

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Published by North County Times on Dec. 15, 2011.

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MUWULIZE EDWIN ENOCK

August 28, 2025

Dear Peter and Sandra,

Though many years have passed since the loss of your beloved child in 2011, I want to let you know that my heart is still with you. At that time, I was still very young, in primary four, but as I have grown older, I have come to understand more deeply the weight of such a loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences even now, for the pain of losing a child never truly leaves.

I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and I sincerely hope that one day I may see you and your family again. May God´s comfort and peace always be with you.

With love and sympathy,
MUWULIZE EDWIN ENOCK

trey magee

December 10, 2023

God bless you and the entire Mossy family!

Jonathan Head

July 17, 2023

AN amazing boy when I knew him and what and athlete! I am so sad to hear that John is gone and I saw him as a leader with so many gifts. I will never forget John Mossey

Franklin Jay Bachman

December 9, 2022

Continued prayers, for both John and family.

J M

December 9, 2020

It takes a courageous heart to face the anniversary of the loss of a loved one with grace. I know you will have the strength persevere and GOD will be there always for you in the time of need. May he lift you and your family up. And guide you in this time of sorrow.

October 4, 2012

Sandy,

I was looking for you on line and came across the obituary for your son John. My heart goes out to you, Peter and family for the loss of John. I hope to reconnect with you when I am in So CA this winter. In my thoughts. Stephanie ( Keate) Cavoto

Bryan Cimicata

September 28, 2012

Happy Birthday Brother. We are all thinking about you today

Hiam and David Baum

January 14, 2012

Dear Sandy, Peter and the Mossy Family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you as you go through this tough time. May John's memories and the love he brought into your family be with you forever. May his soul rest in peace. Our condolences and sympathy to all.

January 12, 2012

John is gone from this earth...but remains in the hearts of all who knew him forever.
I pray God's peace over you Peter, Sandy and family.

Karen Calvert

January 10, 2012

To the entire Mossy family we are thinking and praying for you daily. Please know we hold you and your family in our prayers forever. Beth has been my beacon and I am forever grateful for her and the beautiful family she adores.
With our since sympathy and continued heartfelt thoughts and prayers
Karen , Monte and Justin Calvert

Darin / U.P.S. Moynihan

December 29, 2011

I'm am so sorry to hear about John. I will keep you all in prayer.

December 29, 2011

John, I only met you once but I know many people that loved you and I know they miss you dearly. I hope your pain is gone and that you know how loved you are.

sarah pollard

December 28, 2011

Jhon was always so positive and loving. he had the ability to make people smile even when they were in the worst of moods. Jhon will forever be loved and missed.

Kamal Abifaker

December 26, 2011

My family and I express our deepest condolences for the loss of your charming son John. It was an honor knowing and working beside such a wonderful soul. God Bless.

December 25, 2011

Danielle

Vilen

December 22, 2011

Mossy family -- we are so sorry for your loss. I have prayed so much since hearing about this -- that the Holy Spirit would comfort and heal you. Brad, Debbie & Gabrielle Vilen & Michael Fargo

Matthew Nachbar

December 22, 2011

John, the happiness and joy you brought to my life in the midst of one of my darkest times is a debt I can never repay. Your loyalty, sense of humor, and wisdom impacted me more than you could possibly know. You are one of the kindest, most radiant people I have ever had the honor of calling a friend.

With all my love,

Matt

Sable Levy

December 22, 2011

John, I am proud to have known you and that we were friends. We were a great sources of support for each other during a very difficult time and my depressing gloomy memories of Idaho are made brighter when I think of you and your blond hair, your wry humor, your intelligence. Thank you for everything. You will always be in my heart and my memories.

Sincerely yours,
Sable

Vickie and Jeff Alexander

December 21, 2011

Dear Sandy, Peter and the extended Mossy family, we can only offer sympathy and prayers for your comfort and healing in this difficult time. John and all the Mossy family are an important part of our family. We hear so many wonderful stories of the times you share with my sister, Val Zirpolo, and her family. Your family must be very proud of John's accomplishments and the joy he brought to so many.
With condolences, love and prayers,

trey magee

December 20, 2011

Peter and Sandy,,
i am so sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. God Bless
Trey Magee

Jillian Marsh

December 20, 2011

My dear Sandy and Peter, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss...my prayers and thoughts are with you always! Jillian Marsh

Carolyn & Jeremy Sykes

December 20, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May John rest in peace as he prepares to take flight into his new journey.

John Thomas

December 20, 2011

God bless John and the entire Mossy family and please know that you have many friends that will be prying for all of you during this very tough time.

December 20, 2011

Dear Peter and Sandy,
My heart breaks at the loss of John. Jeff and I have such fond memories of pre-school play dates with John and rivalry wrestlung matches. Our prayers are with you and your entire family.
Abrams family

Nancy & Craig Berge

December 20, 2011

To Peter, Sandy and the entire Mossy family our sincere condolences and prayers.

Elyse Christenson

December 19, 2011

Thoughts and healing prayers to all for your loss of this dear boy

michele kalla

December 19, 2011

sandy and peter~ i am so broken hearted to hear this tragic news. i am so very sorry for your loss. alec is the same age as john and i worked with you when you were pregnant with charlie and i was with my daughter. so many shared stories of our children. remember them coming to a shoot or two. my heart goes out to all of you and you are in my thoughts and prayers. god bless and look over all of you at the incredibly sad time.

December 19, 2011

Dear Peter & Sandy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love, Phil Curry

Karen and Monte Calvert

December 19, 2011

To the entire Mossy family, and extended family and friends our hearts and prayers are with you daily. Beth is a best friend, hence you are friends too and we have been praying for you all and sending you peace. What an amazing young man to have accomplished so much. God needs his angels close and John will now be watching over you all in peace. Our heart and prayers are always with you.
Monte, Karen and Justin Calvert

Leslie & Gabby Weber

December 19, 2011

We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved, John. May our Lord give you comfort and the peace that surpasses understanding during this time of deep sorrow. Your family is in our hearts and prayers.

Lisa Harris

December 18, 2011

The Mossy family is in our hearts and prayers . May God's love comfort the family .

December 17, 2011

Peter and Sandy,

We are so very sorry for your great loss. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers. With Love, Watt Family (San Clemente)

Alicia Previn

December 17, 2011

My son Max O'Reilly was in his class for two years and they were only 4 days apart in age. I met you when I came over to work on your garden with Mr. Sacher. May the Lord give you the peace that passes all understanding, and comfort you for the rest of your lives.

Steve Marcks

December 17, 2011

Peter and Sandy...
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.
We look back in gratitude for the memories and look forward in prayer for strength.
The Marcks Family

December 17, 2011

Eventhough we've only known your wonderful family from afar, this hurts all of us who are parents. May time, faith and the Lord's grace help you through this difficult time.

You are in our prayers daily.

With love,

The Wuthrich Family

Allison Cooper

December 17, 2011

To Peter, Sandy & all the Mossy family:
A profound sadness moves through me as I extend to you my love, my prayers and my most heartfelt sympathy during this very difficult time.

December 17, 2011

We are extremely sorry for the untimely loss of such a gifted and loved young man. May God be with you. Condolences from the Deetman Family

janey losse

December 16, 2011

how did john die

Deborah Farrell

December 16, 2011

My family is deeply grieved by the passing of your son, John. We enjoyed watching him grow up while our boys were at SFC. We send our prayers your way during this difficult time, and hope the Lord sends His comfort. We love you. The Farrells

December 16, 2011

To Peter, Sandy and all the Mossy family, Our heartfelt sympathy to all of you. You are in our prayers. Jack and Bobbi Lucas

Kenny Lehmer

December 16, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Constance Gravitt

December 16, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Jennifer Cuff

December 16, 2011

Many prayers and love to your family, I lost a brother, 5 years ago, to similar circumstances. I empathize with your pain and grief and will continue to pray for all of you. Remember all the amazing smiles and laughter that John brought to everyone he knew/met...Although I did not have the privilege of knowing him, the beautiful memorial today left me with a 'knowing' that he was
incredibly loved by his friends and family.....the love he received and gave is the legacy everyone will remember, as our struggles do not define us.

Continued prayers,
Cuff Family

Dan Roberts

December 16, 2011

Sending your family LOVE! Dan & Kathy Roberts

Claudia and Lindsey Grubbs

December 16, 2011

Love and prayers for this tragic loss. With hope,

Marc Lamkin

December 16, 2011

To Peter, Sandy and the extended Mossy family, I can only offer offer my sympathy and prayers for your comfort and healing in this difficult time. I didn't know John, but Peter, if he was anything like you, he must have been quite a guy. The obituary says that well and through the sadness, your family must be very proud of his accomplishments.
With condolences, love and prayers,

Frank & Gina Bachman

December 16, 2011

Dear Peter,
You and your family are in our prayers.

Adrienne Baravetto

December 16, 2011

My HEART goes out to the Mossy family. I will always cherish the wonderful childhood moments i shared baby-sitting the kids growing up. Sending you all prayers, strength and love.

Joshua McBride

December 16, 2011

Our Families hearts go out to you and your's. May you find comfort in the tender mercies of the Lord. Psalms 31:7

Joe and Ilana Gold

December 16, 2011

Dear Sandy, Peter, and the entire Mossy family our deepest sympathy during these difficult times. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

December 16, 2011

Praying for peace, love and unity in your family that only the love and grace of God can provide. Constant prayers for you all.

December 16, 2011

Dear Sandy, Peter and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your son, John. My thoughts and love with be with you during this very difficult time. Love,Shelly Picarelli

Shelly Picarelli

December 16, 2011

Dear Sandy, Peter and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your son, John. My thoughts and love with be with you during this very difficult time. Love,Shelly Picarelli

The Boudreau Family

December 16, 2011

May the grace and peace of our Lord carry you thru this terrible tragedy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa and John Majewski

December 16, 2011

Peter, Sandy, and Family,
May God provide you enough strength to face these difficult times, although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.

Al Menconi

December 16, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express our sorrow. Our prayers are with you and your family. Al and Jan Menconi

December 16, 2011

To the entire Mossy family, my thoughts and prayers with a heavy heart are with you - Maria McRoberts

Nora Hanson

December 16, 2011

To the Mossy family my deepest sympathy in your time of loss, my prayers are with you.

Laurie Knodle

December 16, 2011

John will temain in our hearts forever, you are also in our hearts and prayers. Family Knodle

Ron Houston and Family

December 16, 2011

Peter, Sandy, and Family. We are sorry for your loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you during your journey

Christian Hjorth

December 16, 2011

With our deepest sympathies and prayers at this time of your profound loss. Blessed be.

Gregg Webber

December 16, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you, sending my condolances.

December 16, 2011

Peter, Sandy and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you, John and your family. May your memories help you heal. Love, Allison and Dennis Alters

Marc Gagne

December 16, 2011

Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of your family.

jason moniz

December 16, 2011

To the Mossy Family I send my condolences, My thoughts prayers are with you Jason Moniz.

Sheryl Beyersdorfer

December 16, 2011

Peter, Sandy and Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending you strength and love.
May you find comfort in the arms of your friends,family and God.

December 16, 2011

Lord our God, may you carry this family in Your mighty grip through these hard and trying days, weeks months, and years. I pray a shower of blessings be poured over their hearts and minds that will give them that ultimate peace that passes all understanding. My deepest prayers and condolence are with you all...

Lynda Clerke

December 15, 2011

May God lift you up, hold you close and comfort you and your family during this very difficult time. Know that your friends are here for you, the angels are beside you and that God is always with you. Praying for all of you. Much Love, The Clerke Family

Janey Losse

December 15, 2011

Im very sorry for your loss! Your in my thoughts and prayers Mossy Family. what happend to john though?

December 15, 2011

To all John's family and friends. As a former coach in San Diego I was always impressed with John and his wrestling ability but i was more impressed with his work ethic and dedication. He traveled far and wide to wrestle the best. He was fierce competitor but then firendly off the mat. He was an ambassador for the sport and more importantly an ambassador for Christ. My orayer go out to his family and friends during this difficult time. God Bless, Dale Hanover

Mary Fredericks

December 15, 2011

Words cannot express the pain we all feel for your loss. This is our opportunity to express our love for you.
God still sits on the Throne and John sits at his feet.
We love you, the Fredericks' family

Ross Cutshaw

December 15, 2011

Dear Mossy Family.

Our hearts are breaking for you and your entire family. As parents of two 22 year olds, who also greatly admired your son, we can only imagine the pain in your hearts. Please know you are all in our prayers as I am sure everyone else from Santa Fe Christian. Our family will dedicate a special prayer for John this Christmas.

May God bless. The Cutshaw Family.

Terry Rumford

December 15, 2011

Peter, Sandy and the entire Mossy family, my prayers are with you. I am so sorry.

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. From a Headstone in Ireland

Martha Neilson

December 15, 2011

Please know the whole Mossy family are in my thoughts and wishing for a magic answer to your horrible loss of John Peyton. Family, Friends and Faith help so much during such sad times.
Love to all

December 15, 2011

We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Becky & Herb Helman and Family

Laura and Doug Kolts

December 15, 2011

John will be dearly missed by all that crossed his path. Hoping your journey on Angel's wings was a smooth one! The world will grieve your presence. God Bless to you John and the entire Mossy Family. The Kolts Family

The Jaffe Family

December 15, 2011

We are so sorry for the loss of your wonderful son. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Susan Downing

December 15, 2011

Peter, Sandy and the entire Mossy family- We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We hope that God and the love of your family and friends will help to heal your hearts. Our deepest sympathies, Mike and Sue Downing

Lindsey Clifford

December 15, 2011

Dear Sandy, Peter and beautiful family,

We're your neighbors and friends of Melisse and Jason. We also have 4 children. You will always be a family of 6. Please know we will think of you, pray for you, believing for the healing balm of the Holy Spirit to carry you until you all meet again in Heaven some day. With tender love and prayers,

Lugene Armstrong

December 15, 2011

I had heard so much about John but the first time I got to meet him was at an SMU Parents Weekend when he was still in High School. I remember his wonderful smile and his self-confidence. I am known for my sarcasm. John understood it and gave it right back to me!
I send my love to the Mossy family and my prayers that God will give you strength and comfort.

Augie Iadicicco

December 15, 2011

Know of our thoughts and prayers for you and your family. May our Lord give you comfort and peace, hope and healing. - Pastor Augie & your family in Christ at Redeemer

Patsy Jones

December 15, 2011

Peter & Sandy,
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you both and your families as you grieve. My heart goes out to you all at this time and in the days ahead.

Byrne Owens

December 15, 2011

Peter, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss.

May the peace of Christ be with you.

Don and Jo Brandt

December 15, 2011

We pray for our Lord's comfort and peace for the Mossy and Lyle and Evelyn Meyer families as they mourn the loss of their precious loved one, John. May Jesus hold these dear people in His arms and calm their heavy hearts. With much love,

Cheryl Meyer Ippolito

December 15, 2011

To all the Mossy and Meyer Family....my thoughts are with you.

Scott Weaver

December 15, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you as you struggle through this most difficult of times.

December 15, 2011

To all of the Mossy and Meyer Family....My thoughts are with you.
Cheryl Meyer Ippolito

Rick (Murphy) Wise

December 15, 2011

Mossy's...what to say? To say we are all grieving with you is inadequite.To send our prayers will not make it go away. I do pray that you all find strength in each other, and know that you are not alone during this and future times. Rick, Susan and Murphy Wise (SFC class of 2010).

Jan Thorne

December 15, 2011

Sandy and Peter, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son John.I am thinking of you at this difficult time.You lived below me on Rosenda Ct.when you first had Travis,how fast 25 years has passed.

Katie Evans

December 15, 2011

Dearest Sandy and Peter,
Jerry and I send love and prayers to all your family. I know John is at peace now. We picture him with Chad looking down on everyone. He is in the arms of our Lord.

Love,
Katie Evans

December 15, 2011

Dear Sandy~ Our family grieves for your tragic loss. Our love & prayers are with you. Julie Timm & Family

December 15, 2011

Our love and prayers go out to your entire family. We are extremely sorry for your loss. Romans 15:13  May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope. Israel, Annie, & Maleah LoBue

Amy Byrne

December 15, 2011

I read the obituary for your son in the newspaper today. I don't know your family, but I wanted you to know you're in my prayers. Your words were so dear and he was described so beautifully. Please know the world grieves with you.

Jim & Annette Radogna

December 15, 2011

We are so very sorry for your loss Peter and Sandy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Chris Pankau

December 15, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss Peter. I can't imagine the grief you and your family are feeling. My thoughts and prayers to you.

Diann Shelton

December 15, 2011

On behalf of everyone at NMAC we hold your family in our hearts and continued prayers.
God bless each of you throughout this journey.

Ernie Hahn

December 15, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. If there is anything that you need from us, please let us know.

Our deepest love and prayers go out to your family.

The Shevchiks

December 15, 2011

There are no human words that can make things better at a time like this, so we will continue to pray that the Holy Spirit embraces you, that you feel Gods loving arms around you, holding you tight in his fold.

December 15, 2011

To the entire Mossy Family
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. May you reach out to the Lord so that he may comfort you during these difficult times. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ellena, Shawn, Jordan and Molly Cassidy

Susan Martin

December 15, 2011

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time

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