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John Beyrau Obituary





John A. Beyrau

John A. Beyrau, devoted husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather, departed this life at The Summit Health and Rehabilitation Center in Lynchburg on Aug. 28, 2010.

He joins now the love of his life - his wife Ellen, who died in 2002 just a few months after their 60th wedding anniversary. Together they raised seven children - six girls and a boy! He is the patriarch of a family that has grown to 18 grandchildren and 22 great-grandchildren (and counting) in occupations that include medicine, education, ministry, engineering and law - the legacy of their love and faith.

Mr. Beyrau was born in Syracuse, N.Y. and raised during the Depression in a family short on money but long on hope and prayers. His brother and lone sibling, Leonard, preceded him in death. Mr. Beyrau attended Syracuse University and served in the Army, in the Pacific, during World War II. He worked for Aerofin Corp. and moved with his family to Lynchburg when the company relocated in 1966. He retired from Aerofin as a corporate vice president in 1984. In later years, he was devoted to the care of his wife, who lived with Alzheimer's for the last 15 years of her life.

Mr. Beyrau was an avid golfer and a longtime member of Colonial Hills Golf Club in Forest. He also enjoyed horse racing, playing cards and bowling, and appreciated a well-made martini. His family delighted in his signature sense of humor that he kept until the end.

Faith and family defined him. A long-time member of St. Thomas More Catholic Church, he made sure his family went to Mass on Sundays and instilled in his children a commitment to God and each other. He provided for his family's needs and paid his own way in life. In later years, especially, he liked nothing better than to take as many family members as possible to dinner, sit at the head of the table and raise his glass to all who were there.

Mr. Beyrau is survived by his children, Sister Patricia Beyrau of Chepnyal, Kenya; Mrs. Marbeth (Carl) Mielnicki of Fort Myers, Fla.; Mrs. Mary (John) Schalk and Anne Miller of Syracuse, N.Y.; Mrs. Jackie (David) Hofmann and Mrs. Caroline (Cliff) Glickman of Lynchburg; and his only son, John Beyrau and his wife Kathleen of Indianapolis, Ind.; and his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

The family would like to thank the staff of The Summit Town Square, and especially William Robinson and Wanda Romero, for their continued attentive and tender care.

The family will receive friends from 7-8:30 p.m. on Tuesday at Whitten Timberlake Chapel. A Mass of Christian Burial will be conducted at 11 a.m. Wednesday at St. Thomas More Catholic Church by the Father Richard Mooney. Interment will follow in Virginia Memorial Park, Forest with military honors presented by American Legion Post 16. A reception will be held at St. Thomas More following the burial.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made to the Alzheimer's Association.

To send condolences to the family, please visit www.whittenfuneralhome.com.

Whitten Funeral Home and Cremation Services, Timberlake Chapel is serving the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Advance on Aug. 31, 2010.

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Norm De Pew

September 30, 2010

I just learned of John's passing. I'm so sorry. I played a lot of golf with John. He was humorous and a stand up guy.

September 20, 2010

Dear Caroline and Jackie, I was so sad to hear the news of your Dad. I was glad that my Dad and yours got to know each other and enjoy their 'man time' together. I'll miss seeing you both and hope we can stay in touch.
Love and peace to you all,
Ellen Shoemake

Dianne Marstin

September 6, 2010

I am the daughter of Helen Tanner who is a resident on the 2nd floor of the Summit and I was very sorry to hear of your loss on Saturday while visiting my Mom. I am going to miss seeing him and speaking to him when I go pass his room and I will miss seeing you also.

Jennifer Beyrau

September 3, 2010

I am very sorry for your loss and am lifting all of you up in prayer. John was my Great Uncle & seeing his photo I cannot get over how much he looks like my Grandpa Beyrau. I think the last time I saw Uncle Johnny was at my Grandfathers wake back in 1992 & he was just as I remembered him when I was young (although we didn't see eachother much). He reminded me a lot of my Dad (Joe Beyrau), everyone was a comedian and everbody was always laughing.
May our Lord comfort you in your time of sorrow and pain. Look to him for peace and just think of him walking with Jesus and the rest of our family members we have lost. Take care and God Bless.

September 2, 2010

To my Beyrau cousins, Pat, Marbeth, Mary, Jackie, John, Anne, and Caroline.

I am deeply sorry for your loss. It now doesn't seem so long ago that our families got together for Sunday picnics. Nice memories.

Love, Terry

Judy Moriarty Moreland

September 1, 2010

To Pat, Marbeth, Mary, Jackie, John, Anne, and Caroline,

I'm sending this to try to check "contact me" this time. Didn't see it the first time around. When you feel up to it after the funeral, I would love it if any of you contacted me.

I'm also sure that Jack sends his condolences. He would send them himself, but he's not doing very well with his early-onset Alzheimer's and will be going to an Alzheimer's facility in Syracuse soon.

Judy Moriarty Moreland

Thomas Beyrau

September 1, 2010

Pat, Marbeth, Mary, Jackie, John, Anne, & Caroline

Just want you to know that I share your sorrow. I have some fond memories of Uncle John and of course Aunt Ellen too. So sad that when they relocated to Virginia and I got married we seemed to lose touch and I'm sorry about that.

I will always remember when your Dad & Mom came up when my Dad was in the hospital and stay until his passing. They were such great support during that hard time 18 years ago, just like they were when my Mom passed away 37 years ago.

I know Uncle Johnny and Aunt Ellen are with my Dad (Uncle Len) & his wife (Aunt Kitty) once again, walking over to see the Moriarty's � and having a great reunion.

I remember us all getting together on the holidays and during the summers up at my parents camp and all of us trying to learn how to dive off the dock and attempt to water-ski. Boy those were the great days

Today my heart is very sad. Please know that you are all in my prayers and thoughts

Love Tom

Erinn McBride

August 31, 2010

My deepest sympathies go to you and your family. The obituary was touching and I am honored to have met John while visiting my Grandfather at The Summit.

Peg and Joe Rudy

August 31, 2010

Dear Pat, Marbeth, Mary, Jackie, Johnny, Anne and Caroline,

We just want you to know that we share some of your sorrow. We have some fond memories of Uncle John and of course Aunt Ellen too. As a child I spent many a weekend with you and was part of the family. Once most of you moved to Virginia and I got married we seemed to lose touch and I'm sorry about that. I remember lots of Christmas spent together in the old days and there were a few memorable visits when all of you came to Syracuse. We sent Christmas cards with messages over the years too.

I would say that Alzheimers has certainly played a significant part in the lives of all of us. First my dad, then Ellen, Aunt Frankie had some signs, my mom and now Jack. Of cours we will donate to the Alzheimers Association in Uncle John's memory as he knows first hand how life changing this disease is. It robs us of the specialness of the person we love. Bless you all, your spouses, children and grandchildren. You will all be in our prayers this week.

By the way we loved the pictures. What a nice idea. Thank you.

Love, Peg and Joe

Holly McCray

August 31, 2010

I always enjoyed seeing Mr. Beyrau smile as I passed his room at the Summit on the way to see my Granddad, Paul Dukovich. He made my Granddad smile and me too! Love and Prayers,

Judy Moriarty Moreland

August 31, 2010

Hi Pat, Marbeth, Mary, Jackie, John, Anne, & Caroline, I'm sending a wish of sympathy and deep peace to you at this time. Wish I could be with all of you now. The obituary was the most beautiful I've ever read. It's funny what we remember as children, but when I was really little I remember your Dad coming to our house in a station wagon with wood on the side. He did a lot of carpentry work for us back then. I probably drove him crazy with my chatter. Peace and Love, Judy Moriarty Moreland

Lorelei Ciafardoni

August 31, 2010

May your memories give you strength and comfort.

Joe Delledera

August 31, 2010

The Beyrau Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to each of you. Dad was blessed by seeing John while he was interned at the Summit. John's presence lifted Dad's spirit when he saw an old friend.

Carrie Sidener

August 31, 2010

Caroline, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope the happy memories will comfort you. Your dad sounds like an amazing man and I know he will live on in you.

Janet Brooks

August 31, 2010

Jackie, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Just wanted you to know what a special person your Dad was and that he will be missed. Your love,support, and attention that you gave to your Dad absolutely showed what a wonderful and caring daughter you were and he was truly blessed to have you by his side. Love, Madeline Wingfield and Janet Brooks (Madeline's daughter)

Kelly Parnell

August 31, 2010

Jackie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have my deepest sympathy.
Kelly

August 31, 2010

Our prayers are with you and your wonderful family.

Barbara Saunders

August 31, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief.

Evie McBride

August 31, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

sr. Elaine Jordan

August 31, 2010

My prayers are with you all at this time of loss. It's never easy to let go but our faith tells us John is enjoying the fruits of his labors.
God bless you all.
Love and Prayers,
Sr. Elaine Jordan

August 30, 2010

Be assured of my prayers for Mr. Beyrau and for the comfort of his family.
Sister Catherine France, DC

Monique Crawley

August 30, 2010

Thinking of you and your family during your time of bereavement.
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