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Todd Coder Obituary
Todd Clifford Coder Todd Clifford Coder, 26 years old, of Woodbridge, Va., passed away Sept. 23, 2010 at his home in Woodbridge.
Born in Alexandria Hospital, July 23, 1984 to Cheryl and Tony Coder and big brother Josh, Todd had an early love of baseball. He played on the Woodbridge Little League team, the Jazz traveling team and the Woodbridge Senior High School Varsity team, where he was named MVP as a senior.
The 2002 graduate of WSHS attended Shepherd University in Shepherdstown, W.Va., and played for the Shepherd Rams as pitcher for three years. He also worked at Domino's Pizza in Woodbridge and Shepherdstown during college.
At the age of 23, Todd suffered critical injuries from a car accident, from which he worked hard to recover. He excelled in various jobs before finding a career path at Giant Food in Lakeridge and Hamilton Iron Works in Woodbridge.
Throughout childhood, high school and college, Todd formed lifelong friendships and enriched lives. Todd never gave up on his lifelong passion for baseball and was seeking opportunities to remain a part of the game he loved.
Survived by his parents, Tony and Cheryl Coder of Woodbridge, Va., his older brother, Josh and sister-in-law Courtney, grandparents Tony and Linda Coder of Triangle, Va., and many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and a large circle of loyal and loving friends. Predeceased by grandparents Carl and Irene (Ezrow) Shank.
Services at Miller Funeral Home, 3200 Golansky Blvd., Woodbridge, Va. Viewing on Thursday, Sept. 30, 5 to 8 pm. Memorial service on Friday, Oct. 1, at 11 am, preceded by an additional viewing at 10 am.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations in Todd Coder's name to the Make a Wish Foundation, envelopes will be available at the service.
This obituary was originally published in the News & Messenger (Woodbridge, VA).
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Loving you is so easy; missing you is the hardest thing we've ever had to do. Love you, Todd. Always and forever.
Mom, Dad, Josh & Courtney
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Denise Flowers
October 25, 2010
Todd, I cannot believe it's been over a month. I think about you everyday. I know you will always be with me, looking out for me, which is comforting, but i wish you were here with us. I couldn't have asked for a better, more amazing first friend. Your memory will always live on in each of us. Until the day we meet again...
October 25, 2010
Love you always and forever-Mom, Dad, Josh & Courtney
Mom & Dad Coder
October 23, 2010
Forever in our hearts and memories,Together in our souls. We love you, Todd, and no matter how many years go by, you will always be part of our family and we will speak of you often and with lovely memories for there were so many many of them.
John & Charlene Kaila
October 19, 2010
Tony and Cheryl....we are thinking of you still...we care about you and hope you will call on us any time. Love, John and Charlene
October 13, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl & Josh:
We just learned of Todd's passing. We are so very sorry. You are all in our prayers. May God bless and sustain you.
Grant, Debra, Graham & Casey Costa
October 3, 2010
Cheryl, Tony, & Josh,
I am so very sad to hear about the passing of your wonderful son and brother. I pray that his memory keeps you strong and easies some of the pain. May God hold you at the time of grief that is a burden we must face. God Bless You All. Love Bonnie Turpen
October 1, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl & Josh, I just found out about your beautiful son. I am so very sorry. You will be remembered in my prayers. Love Steve & Patty Hirsch
Bob Tish Estes
September 30, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl & Josh,
Words can’t express how deeply sadden we were to hear of Todd’s passing.
I know this is a difficult time for family & friends but may the wonderful memories
And your faith sustain you.
One of the fondest memories I have of Todd is that not only was he a GREAT baseball
Player but also just a great all around athlete of which whom I had the privilege of coaching
In basketball with E.P.W.B.A. I remember our draft every year and selfishly hoping no other coach would pick up Todd in our 1st round, and if they did you can bet I was trading trying to get my point guard / forward back!
It was a pleasure coaching, watching and knowing such a fine young man at his best & the love of any sport. You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
May God Bless & Comfort you,
Bob & Tish Estes, B.J, Ashley & Brian
Diane Mars
September 30, 2010
Larry and I just do not have the words to tell you guys how saddened we are at your lost of Todd. Our kids are our lives, no matter how "old" they get. We will give Jennifer and Derek an extra hug and kiss in honor of Todd this week.
Faith Blackshear
September 30, 2010
I went to Woodbridge with Todd and I remember how funny he was and he was always making someone laugh. He'll definitely be missed but of course never forgotten
My prayers are with the Coder Family
Bob & Tish Estes
September 30, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl & Josh,
Words can’t express how deeply sadden we were to hear of Todd’s passing.
I know this is a difficult time for family & friends but may the wonderful memories and your faith sustain you.
One of the fondest memories I have of Todd is that not only was he a GREAT baseball Player but also just a great all around athlete of which whom I had the privilege of coaching Todd In basketball with E.P.W.B.A. I remember our draft every year, and selfishly hoping no other coach would pick up Todd in the 1st round, and if they did you can bet I was trading trying to get my point guard / forward back!
It was a pleasure coaching, watching and knowing such a fine young man at his best & the love of any sport. You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
May God Bless & Comfort you,
Bob & Tish Estes, B.J, Ashley & Brian
Donna Kroh
September 30, 2010
Cheryl, Toni, and Josh. My deepest sympathies to you. It was such a shock
when I learned about Todd's passing. I'm at such a loss for words. If there's anything I can do to help, just let me know.
Love,
Donna Kroh
Bob & Tish Estes
September 30, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl & Josh,
Words can’t express how deeply sadden we were to hear of Todd’s passing.
I know this is a difficult time for family & friends but may the wonderful memories
And your faith sustain you.
One of the fondest memories I have of Todd is that not only was he a GREAT baseball
Player but also just a great all around athlete of which whom I had the privilege of coaching
In basketball with E.P.W.B.A. I remember our draft every year and selfishly hoping no other coach would pick up Todd in our 1st round, and if they did you can bet I was trading trying to get my point guard / forward back!
It was a pleasure coaching, watching and knowing such a fine young man at his best & the love of any sport. You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
May God Bless & Comfort you,
Bob & Tish Estes, B.J, Ashley & Brian
Dennis and Jannet Kray
September 30, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl, Josh and family,
Condolences to you and your family members. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
The Hagan Family
September 30, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl and Josh. We want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. We remember Todd with such sweet memories. That cute little shy smile and that little boy standing out there on that baseball field to that wonderful young man doing the same thing and he just happy to be there. We spent many long hours on the road together and sitting on baseball fields making life long memories in such a short time. We love you all and pray that you can find peace in the memories that you made and all the ones we all shared.
David Plant
September 29, 2010
Dear Coder Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss...our loss. I consider myself lucky to have known Todd for so many memorable years. I will forever remember everything about our friendship since we were young playing ball to our golf outing together just a few weeks ago. Todd has always been one of my closest and dearest friends in my life, and his memory will always live on through his loved ones and our close group of friends. He always made everyone feel so appreciated, and has always been the definition of strength and character.
I hope that your family finds strength in the love and compassion that everyone shows you through this tough time. I love you all.
I will never forget you, Todd. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
David Plant
September 29, 2010
Dear Cheryl and Tony, Charlotte Smoot just informed us of your loss. There are NO WORDS to express our sympathy. Please know that we are thinking of you. We are so very, very sorry.All our love to you now and always, Cathy and John Newcomb
Jerry, Barbara & Jay Gaskins
September 29, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Jerry, Barbara & Jay Gaskins
September 29, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Rosita Jackson-Carter
September 29, 2010
My deepest sympathy goes out to Todds family and closest friend. We went to school together and he would always make me laugh when i was having a bad day. I would love to go to that one class we had together because he would make the time go by with his smiles. We weren't close but you did have an impact on my life. And for that Todd I thank you, You will be missed..
September 29, 2010
Don and I were so saddened to hear about the loss of your son, Todd. May God comfort you and stregthen you during this very difficult time...Our Prayers are with you both and your family ....
Don and Charlotte Smoot
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Katherine Clark
September 29, 2010
I graduated from Woodbridge High School with Todd and he always found a way to make you smile. We talked every Sunday during football season about how horrible our Redskins are!! His death was such a shock to everyone. He will be greatly missed. My prayers are with the Coder family.
Brian Sands
September 29, 2010
Todd, Since hearing of your passing I have been trying to think of words to put together that express my deepest condolences to you and your family. I still have not come up with them I'm sure this will not hit me till I see you one last time tomorrow night. I hope your family can find strength in knowing that you are in a better place now watching down on each of us. Well brother till I see you on the otherside.
BRIAN SANDS
September 29, 2010
Cheryl, Tony and Josh,
We are deeply saddened by your loss. We will always remember Todd as he was playing for Jazz all those summers ago. It was a very bright time in all of our lives and Todd was an important part of it. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Kim & Sally Wood
Natalie (Rackham) Capell
September 29, 2010
I went to high school with Todd, and he always seemed to find a way to put a smile on everyone's face, or make us laugh, in class. He will be missed.
Corinda Flemons
September 29, 2010
My deepest condolences to Todd's family and friends. We were middle school and high school classmates, its hard to see someone so young pass. May you rest in peace Todd.
Jordan Parsels
September 29, 2010
Todd,
You were always so friendly & loved by everyone who knew you. You will be missed. Rest In Peace <3
Vicky & Johnny Hagan
September 29, 2010
Dear Tony, Cheryl and Josh,
We are so very sorry for your devastating loss. Todd will always be a special memory for our family, the fun the trips, the late nights at VA Beach, playing all over the US. We have too many wonderful memories to list of that quiet little boy with the sweet smile and sweet disposition in his VA Jazz uniform who grew up to be a handsome sweet man. our prayers and love are with you all at this difficult time.
Kelly Vargas
September 29, 2010
Todd and I first met in middle school. I will always remember his bright smile and love of baseball. His warm personality formed so many friendships. We will truly miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with Todd's friends and family.
Sheena Dunn
September 29, 2010
I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with all of you.
Tia Wrighten
September 29, 2010
I didnt know Todd personally, but I did graduate with him from Woodbridge High School. The passing of someone so young is always a shock, but it is especially difficult when they were born the same year you were. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time.
Amanda Street
September 29, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with Todd's family and his many many friends during this difficult time. I first met Todd in middle school. I know he will deeply missed by everyone that knew him!!
Rev. Nate & Miriam Spencer
September 29, 2010
We extend to your family our deepest condolences during this time. We are praying that the peace of Christ will surround you and comfort you in the days ahead. Psalm 91:1-2
Michael Butler
September 29, 2010
My condolences to the family. I've known Todd since middle school and would still see him at Giant from time to time. His sudden death was a shock to everyone who knew him. You are in my prayers.
Randi Angyal
September 29, 2010
Cheryl, Tony and family, may you find comfort in the memories of your loved one in this difficult time. You are in our prayers.
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