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TUBRIDY - David James, 91, of Bellmore, NY, loving husband and father of ten children, retired New York City Fire Captain and private practice attorney, died peacefully at his home on September 14, 2013. David was born on July 11, 1922, in Bronx, NY, the oldest of eight children to Irish immigrants, James D. Tubridy and Anna Colgan. He graduated from Fordham Preparatory School and was awarded a football scholarship to Providence College, where he studied pre-law until he was called into service during World War II.David served in the United States Army in the European theatre. During the war, he graduated officer's candidate school and was commissioned a First Lieutenant. After his return from the war, David completed college and on September 13, 1947, married his childhood sweetheart, Joan Doyle. In 1948 David joined the New York City Fire Department, following in the footsteps of his beloved father who had died in th line of duty. David was highly respected by fellow firefighters and rose to the rank of Captain. He retired from the NYFD in 1974. David was awarded the Juris Doctor degree from Fordham Law School in 1951, and he and Joan moved to Bellmore, Long Island. He was a lector and devoted member of St. Barnabas Parish and a founding member and former Grand Knight of the local council of the Knights of Columbus. David was a man of deep faith and personal integrity. He was dignified, charming, social, and blessed with a good sense of humor. David enjoyed music, photography and sports. At home, he defined the lifestyle of a do-it-yourselfer. David was pre-deceased by Joan, his loving wife of fifty-five years, his beloved son, Christopher, his parents and four siblings. He is survived by nine children, twenty-four grandchildren, four great-grandchildren and three sisters. David's surviving children and their spouses are David Tubridy Jr. and Aileen of Marblehea, MA; James Tubridy and Kerrie of Bronxville, NY; Pamela Tubridy Baucom and James of Walpole, NH; Joan Tubridy of Delhi, NY; Michael Tubridy and Antoinette of Narragansett, RI; Eileen Tubridy-Kline of Delhi, NY; Maura O'Connor and Timothy of Ridgefield, CT; Stephen Tubridy and Adrienne of Marblehead, MA; and Kathleen Ryser and Scott of Westminster, MD. David's family appreciates all who helped with his care during his final years. We are deeply grateful for their tireless dedication to him. Visiting hours will be on Sunday, September 22, from 2:00pm-4:00pm and 7:00pm-9:30pm at Bartholomew and Sons Funeral Home, Bellmore, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, September 23 at 10:45am at St. Barnabas Catholic Church, Bellmore, NY. A private burial will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Catholic Charities, Diocese of Rockville Centre, 90 Cherry Lane, Hicksville, NY 11801.

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Published by Newsday on Sep. 19, 2013.

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Fr. John Peterson, O.P.

September 21, 2013

Dear Jim, David,Pamela & Joan, Michael. Eileen & Maura, Stephen & Kathleen,

No words of mine can mean much now. Your loss is far too great and much too close. But for our Dominican community at Providence College, in behalf of our alumni & alumnae, and in my own name, we want to make known to you, and to your family, our deepest sympathy.

At Mass, in prayer, your father is with us...so are you!

At a time such as this, nothing anyone says makes much sense. (Perhaps better than most I know that.) But it is my hope, that the consoling thought of a gifted Trappist monk might help.

Thomas Merton wrote, death is where the hills end, and the stars begin.

Dave's "hills" are over now. It's his time to be with the "stars" and their Source! May the deep, inner Peace that thought can induce, be with you and your family...especially now.

May Mary, the teemple in whom God's Son became a priest, keep you near, in her care.

With His Love and mine,

September 20, 2013

Dear Maura, Tim and all of the Tubridy and O'Connor family:

God rest your father (grandfather) and grant you peace and strength to live on with ever more faith and hope. It has been our honor to know Mr. and Mrs. Tubridy and your roots Maura. That is quite a life, well led. We miss you and you are in our prayers.
Mike and Vickie Howard, and Family, Pittsford NY

September 20, 2013

I will always have fond memories of Mr. Tubridy and his entire family at Malibu (Row A). Sending prayers and thoughts to all of you and your Dad.

Nancy Warzecha (Marasco)

John Rowe

September 19, 2013

Sorry for your loss. Played golf once with Dave as a member of the Nassau Golfers about 10 years ago. Dave new my Father in Law, Martin Gately from the NYFD. May he rest in Peace.

September 19, 2013

Rest in Peace Mr. Tubridy and our condolences to the family. You are loved and respected by all who had the pleasure of knowing you. Sincerely, Nora Cox Ferrin, Charleston, SC

PATRICK GILMORE

September 19, 2013

WHAT A GREAT MAN...A GIFT TO ME KNOWING HIM,AND SERVING UNDER HIM AS A NYC FIREFIGHTER...MAY HE REST IN THE PEACE OF CHRIST...PATRICK GILMORE, RET. NYCFD....

September 19, 2013

At this great time of sorrow, may you find comfort from God and from loving memories of your father. (1 Thessalonians 4:13)

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