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Nicholas Julian Bartilucci

1931 - 2016

Nicholas Julian Bartilucci obituary, 1931-2016, Laurel Hollow, NY

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Nicholas Bartilucci Obituary

BARTILUCCI - Nicholas Julian of Laurel Hollow, NY died on July 17, 2016 at age 85 after a full, honorable and faith-filled life. Beloved husband of Joan (nee Ostrowski) for 62 years. Loving father of Lisa (Robert) Rooney, Mark (Becky Quinn) and Paul (Helene). Cherished grandfather of Bryan (Paula), Kaitlyn, Madelyne, Kristyn Rooney and Philip, Elizabeth, Olivia, Lilly and Isabella Bartilucci. Dearest great-grandfather of Emily Rooney. Loving brother of Eleanor Free and the late Catherine Fioraliso. He valued his family above all else. Nicholas graduated from Manhattan College and New York University with degrees in Civil Engineering. He served in the US Army in the Panama Canal Zone and continued his association with the military through the American Legion and the Korean War Veterans Association. A devout Catholic, Nick was a parishioner of St. Edward the Confessor R.C. Church, Syosset for 52 years. He served as Eucharistic Minister, Usher and consultant to the parish on numerous projects. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus and Legatus. Nicholas was proud of his Italian heritage and was a member of the Sons of Italy and was a Knight in the Savoy Orders. He took great pride in wine making and the caring for and cultivating of his great-grandfather's fig tree, passing down the traditions to his sons and grandsons. He enjoyed contributing to the community and was on the board of the Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory and the Cold Spring Harbor Whaling Museum. Nicholas was one of the founding partners of Dvirka and Bartilucci Consulting Engineers, Woodbury, NY. His professional experience spanned over 60 years in civil and environmental engineering. Nick was a Commissioner of the Jericho Water District for over 45 years. He served as chairman or director of numerous professional organizations and societies and was a consultant to the Environmental Engineering Department at Manhattan College. His professional awards were numerous, including "Engineer of the Year" in 1986 from the Nassau County Chapter of the NY State Society of Professional Engineers, the 2001 Life Time Achievement Award from the Long Island Chapter of the NY Water Environment Association, and the 2003 Outstanding Professional Engineer in Management Award by the NY State Society of Professional Engineers. He is reposing at the Beney Funeral Home, 79 Berry Hill Rd., Syosset, NY. Visiting Wednesday 2-4 & 7-9 PM and Thursday 2-4 & 7-9 PM. Funeral Mass Friday, 11 AM, at St. Edward the Confessor R.C. Church, 205 Jackson Ave., Syosset. Interment at Memorial Cemetery of St. John's Church, Cold Spring Harbor, NY. In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made in Nick's name to St. Edward the Confessor Church, 205 Jackson Ave., Syosset, NY 11791 or Manhattan College online (manhattan.edu/giving) or check (Manhattan College, 4513 Manhattan College Parkway, Riverdale, NY 10471). Designate Manhattan College Engineering Program Fund in memory of Nicholas Bartilucci.

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Published by Newsday on Jul. 21, 2016.

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Nancy La valle

August 14, 2017

Traveled with Nick and Joan many years for conventions, we became very close.
Nick and Joe were school mates and very close friends. He was loved and will be missed
Nancy LaValle and family

Frank Genese

July 29, 2016

I worked with Nick for a short time at D&B, and I can attest that he was a true gentlemen and a class act. A gifted and skillful engineer who felt his greatest strength was teaching others and mentoring staff. A truly rare man.

Lois Steingisser

July 26, 2016

Dear Joan and Family:

After over 27 years of working for Nick at D&B, I will certainly miss him a lot. He made me understand Environmental Engineering and its importance as the years went by. I will especially miss our talks about the old days and how things were back in the old country. God Bless the Family and God Rest his Soul.

Miranda Summers

July 22, 2016

Paul and Family: You have my sincere condolences. May you hold onto your memories now and always. God bless you and all the Bartilucci family members.

July 22, 2016

A gentleman in every sense of the word. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Richard Strzepek, Former LI Chapter NYWEA Board Member

mary boyd

July 21, 2016

Lisa and family -- may your Dad rest in peace
Mary Boyd Carroll (OLMA 76)

July 21, 2016

"The Gentleman of the Consulting Business"
Frank J. Oliveri

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

July 21, 2016

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any mans death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

Nomi Dayan

July 21, 2016

Nick was a tremendous and thoughtful friend to The Whaling Museum through many years. Learning from him and working with him was an honor. We will not forget his intelligence, ethics, and remarkable life of a true gentleman. Our deepest sympathies to the Bartilucci family.

James Mueller

July 20, 2016

Nick was one highly respected and very gracious supporter of the Manhattan College Environmental Engineering program. At various consultor meetings, Nick would never lose his cool and always had thought provoking suggestions to offer. The college and I will miss him greatly. In my stints as chair and program director, I was happy to have Nick's ever generous support. Peace Nick and keep smiling.
Dr. Jim Mueller

John Jeris

July 20, 2016

Nick was a great friend. He loved Manhattan College and gave substantial financial aid for the development of the environmental engineering graduate program.as well as for scholarships for deserving students. The college named the library and conference room in his honor. Manhattan College will always honor him. When I retired from teaching in 1995, he gave me a gift with which I am deeply grateful. Dr. John Jeris

Barbara Sullivan-Parry

July 19, 2016

I will always remember Nick's rendition of "Good Night Irene" at a New Year's Eve party at my house in Syosset many moons ago. He had Joan and me, Ed and Jean Carr, and my husband Bill Parry cheering and laughing our heads off. Why do I imagine Bill and Jeannie welcoming Nick?

Ken Skibinski

July 19, 2016

My deepest sympathy to the Bartilucci family at this sad time. I have known Nick & Joan for many years through the New York Water Envvironment Association (NYWEA). I, along with the "family" of NYWEA are very sad and will have the family in our prayers. Nick's truly professional demeanor, wisdom, guidance and friendship will be greatly missed....

Mirko Restovic

July 19, 2016

My condolences to the family of Nicholas J Bartilucci and his large and extended family;
specially to his nephew Joe Fioroliso.

I enjoyed the opportunity he gave me to work for his firm; his firm stands as a testament of his great works

Rest in peace

Debbi Bladykas-Lewis

July 19, 2016

My deepest condolences to the Bartilucci family. My sister, Karen & I were friends with Lisa as kids. I'm so sorry to hear of Mr. Bartilucci's passing.

Robert Alvey, P.G.

July 19, 2016

My sincere sympathy on Nick's passing, but noting the incredible and productive life he enjoyed and the legacy of his work

The Flood's

July 18, 2016

Our prayers are with the family of Nick, a dear and long lasting friend of 65 years. Your lost is shared by all in the Flood family.
Love to all,
Frank and Maureen

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