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Elizabeth DeLong Obituary

DeLONG - Elizabeth M., of Bay Shore, on December 30, 2009. Beloved wife of the late Reverend George DeLong. Devoted mother of Ruth Dewey, Lois DeLong and the late Paul DeLong. Cherished grandmother of Aimee Wnek, Candace DeLong, Melissa Dewey, Christopher DeLong, Kristina Dewey, Stephanie Dewey, Caitlin DeLong. Loving great-grandmother of Samantha Rasile and Rayne Dewey. Dear sister of Richard and William Behrens. Active member of the Brentwood Presbyterian Church, retired library clerk at Brentwood High School, active member of Presbytery of Long Island, and former Lay Chaplain at Southside Hospital. Reposing at The Michael J. Grant Funeral Homes, Inc., 571 Suffolk Ave., Brentwood. Religious Services will be held Sunday evening and Monday 11:00am. Interment following at Long Island National Cemetery, Farmingdale. Family will receive friends to celebrate Betty's life on Saturday 7-9:30pm and Sunday 2-4 and 7-9:30pm. Family suggest memorial donations to Brentwood Presbyterian Church Sunday School program.

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Published by Newsday on Jan. 1, 2010.

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grace &charles Biagini

February 21, 2010

to lois ruth and rest of the delong family. charlie and I(Grace Biagini)wish to send our condelscence to your family our prayers are with you

John Sherin

January 6, 2010

I was teaching at the same time Elizabeth served in the High School library with William Greaney and Joseph Purcell. I remember her as a soft spoken, lovely person. It wasn’t until after we both retired that I had the honor of interviewing her for ROBS; History Project. That was when I learned about her life.

Did you know that Elizabeth had traced her family roots in this country back to 1620, the same year the Mayflower landed in Plymouth, Massachusetts…. or that her ancestors had fought and died for our freedom during the American Revolutionary War? Betty had steeped herself in family history even before the internet made it fashionable to do so.

I posted to the family earlier today, a DVD copy of her interview for which she sat and talked with me for one hour on November 30, 2000. Ten years later and in the opinion of this former History Teacher, it remains one of the most memorable of our collection. I was blessed to have known her.

John M. Sherin
ROBS History Project
www.robsny.org

Nick Siciliano

January 4, 2010

Ruth,Lois and family I am so sorry to hear about Mrs. DeLong. I have so many pleasant memories of her when we worked together. My sincere condolences to all of you.

January 2, 2010

Ruth, Lois, and all....I was very sorry to hear about Aunt Betty and I'm sorry that I couldn't be there for the services. Please know that my prayers and love are with you all. -- Anne and Bridget Behrens

Chris Veech

January 2, 2010

Remembering Betty is so easy to do. She was that extremely helpful and knowledgable person in the Brentwood library who kept my English classes humming along. And then she was a right hand to all of us who worked through the Presbytery of Long Island in doing the myriad number of things that needed to be done. She was a love! My thoughts are with you all!

January 1, 2010

Our prayers and love are extended to each one of you in this time of grief.

The Lederer Family

January 1, 2010

Ruth, Lois and faimly I am so sorry to hear of Aunt Betty's passing. She is at least in a better place now and not suffering anymore. I will always remember all the wonderful times growing up with her. Lee, Louise and the Behrens family

chrisann middleton

January 1, 2010

my deepest symphanies to you all.

Mickey Seecharan

January 1, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Betty was the first to welcome me(Mickey) to Brentwood Presbyterian Church and her kindness and open arms are a memory I will never lose and cherish.

Mickey and Jennifer Seecharan

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