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ARNONE-Don, 84, "A Founding Father of the New York Session Scene." A gifted guitar player, often the first call of many of the most well-known musicians in New York, Don Arnone passed away peacefully at home on June 16, 2005 after a long illness. Mention his name to today's jazz and classical guitarists, and the common response is, "One of the greatest guitarists in New York City." Before his own death this year, guitar legend Tony Mottola said, "Don was not only one of the best musicians in New York, he was also was one of the nicest guys I have ever known." Born in Elizabeth, New Jersey, Don was given his first guitar by his father at the age of 13. Mostly self-taught, Don's two biggest influences were the late guitar geniuses, Wes Montgomery and Joe Pass. He began his professional career in the 1940's while he served his country in the U.S. Army, where his music was known to entertain his fellow soldiers. Upon returning home, Don played with the Tune Toppers Quartet then made his way to New York City. Due to the generosity of his dear friend Al Caiola, who recommended him for sessions when he was unavailable, Don's career as a respected recording artist began. Don primarily focused on studio and television work, where he appeared as a regular on the Mitch Miller Show and a variety of other popular shows, such as Arthur Godfrey, Fred Waring, Jackie Gleason, Ed Sullivan, Jack Paar and others. Many of Don's recordings were done with great artists such as Al Caiola, Tony Mottola, Bucky Pizzarelli, Al Casamente, Barry Gailbrath, Gene Bertoncini, Vinnie Bell, Howard Collins, Artie Ryerson, Alan Hanlon and Tal Farlow. Don can also be heard accompanying Frank Sinatra, Buddy Holly, Frankie Avalon, Sarah Vaughn, Aretha Franklin, Quincy Jones, Stan Getz, Bette Midler, Barbara Streisand, Dinah Shore, Percy Faith and Julie Andrews. In addition, Don recorded and arranged many popular television jingles. After his studio career, he contributed to several movie soundtracks including Broadway Danny Rose, The Godfather I, Purple Rose of Cairo, Where the Boys Are, Wise Guys, Lenny and The Year without Santa Clause. Don was known to his family, friends and fellow musicians as a serene, gifted man whose first priority was his family. He was admired as a kind, gentle person who had a commanding presence and an effervescent personality that effortlessly drew people to him. Don was always humble of heart and ready to help his fellow man in any way possible. He instilled in his loved ones a profound respect for human life and was able to convey that which truly mattered - people, not things. Above all, he was guileless and soft of spirit. Don is survived by a loving and adoring family, his wife Eleanor; daughters Lynn, Leslie, and Elise; grandchildren Gregory and Leslie; and sister Angie Palmieri. He was the cherished son of Joseph and Vita Arnone and the loving brother of the deceased: Sue Parinello, Sophie Michna, Marie DeFreites, and Gus Arnone. He will be sorely missed by those who were truly blessed to have known him.

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Published by Newsday on Jul. 14, 2005.

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Steve Herberman

September 25, 2005

I regret that I never met Don Arnone in person but I was elated when I spoke to him on the phone a couple of years ago. He was full of enthusiasm about music, life and hearing the "young guys" on the scene through recent cd's. Music, jazz, and the guitar were obviously a very big part of his life. I've found Don's family to be among the warmest people I've ever met; passionate about music, friendships and spirituality. I feel lucky to have been "adopted" into the family!



Warmest Regards,

Steve

Mary Ferri

September 21, 2005

It was a privilege to hear Don Arnone play, even in his later years. His contribution to American music will live on, just as he will live on in the hearts of his beloved family.

Jamie Glaser

August 18, 2005

Don Arnone changed my life. I will never forget walking into his home in Lido feeling like a big shot, that was until I heard him play!!He was a patient, energetic, sensitive ,amazing musician and person. My lessons with him, prepared me for the great career I have.

I will never forget him and I thank GOD that somehow I was able to know him.

I will miss you DON!!

Love

Jamie

Kathleen Arnone

August 12, 2005

Don was a kind and loving brother-in-law. Everyone who met or knew him loved and honored him as I did. With my heart I hope he and my husband will meet in heaven. They were loving brothers in life and I hope will be as loving in heaven. All my love, Kitty

Jack Wilkins

August 8, 2005

Dear friend and great guitar player Don Arnone. He will certainly be missed by me and many others. Jack Wilkins

Bruce Clarke

July 27, 2005

A fine musician. One I've long admired and unfortunately got to know rather late in life. His many achievements in his chosen profession must never be forgotten.

Rich DiCarlo

July 15, 2005

An early influence in my life.

Greg Tsukalas

July 15, 2005

Don Arnone was a beautiful gift from God. He was always and will always be my hero. An unbelievably gifted musician, a beautiful man and had his priorities in line. Family first-material things last. Pop, you will always live inside my heart and I will always hear your soul pouring out gently through the strings of your guitar and the softness of your loving voice. Be at peace now in heaven with God our father. Your loving grandson,

Gregory

Lynn Tsukalas

July 15, 2005

Dear Dad...I guess I'd better be on

my toes now since you can see every-

thing from where you are! I treasure every memory,every moment I spent with you & mom; However, the ones I treasure most are the ones when I was able to be there for periods of time this last 6 to 8 months. Those conversations when you couldn't sleep were a gift. I

thought it would be easier somehow, but it isn't. I miss you Dad, MORE

THAN YOU KNOW ... Love you, Lynn

Leslie Tsukalas

July 15, 2005

Words could never express all that my grandfather meant to me throughout my life. You might not be with us here on earth, Pop, but your music lives on. I will be forever grateful for your love, your wisdom, your sense of humor, and for that fact that I witnessed your brilliance continually. You are a shining star and I will miss you always. I love you with all my heart. Your "Little Leslie"

Angie Palmieri

July 14, 2005

He was a wonderful brother and friend to me and will be dearly missed by all of my family

Leslie Findlay

July 14, 2005

Miss you Dad - Here's to listening to Classic Arts Showcase all those years and riding around in the 190SL as a kid.

Vita King

July 14, 2005

Uncle Don was so much more than my Godfather and Uncle, he was like a Father to me. I always knew I could talk to him about anything and he would give me the best advice. I will always treasure the special relationship we shared. My earliest memories of Uncle Don were at his home in Franklin Square. I would love to go there with my Grandma, Mom and Dad and hear him play the guitar. I was just fascinated and to this day have a profound love of music. I was so lucky to have spent many memorable visits with Uncle Don, Aunt Eleanor and my cousins. When my girls were young we would take our boat to Long Island for July 4th weekends and dock nearby. We would have a great time and my girls just adored and loved their Uncle. We have pictures of Uncle Don trying to play the guitar with my daughter, Tiffany in his arms. Those memories are priceless as were all the times we spent together. I feel very blessed that I had this wonderful, wise, caring, kind and dear man in my life. I will always love you Uncle Don and you will forever be in my heart!

Heather Sklar

July 14, 2005

One of my favorite memories of my Uncle Don was when he had my little blue-eyed sister, Tiffany (age 2) perched on his knee. Guitar in hand, he sang to her "Blue Eyes" and she just giggled and looked at him adoringly. He was such a nice and loving man; and he will be fondly remembered by me and everyone else whose life he touched.

Elise Arnone

July 14, 2005

Love and miss you. Here's to the shadow of your smile!

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