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1950
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2014
Douglas Behan Obituary
Doug's career in Alaska spanned work on the Alyeska trans-Alaska oil pipeline, Hub Foods and the Alaska Railroad. When not working, Doug experienced trapping, goldmining, snow-machining, cross-country skiing, fishing, hiking in Denali National Park, camping, and many more activities Alaska offered to him. Doug relocated to Florida in March 2012, looking forward to a warmer climate and new adventures with the love of his life, Charlotte.
Douglas was preceded in death by his father, Francis, and is survived by his mother, Mary, of Virginia.; wife, Charlotte, of Florida and Alaska; twin brother, Dennis John, and sister-in-law, Ronda Morley, of Oregon; brothers and sisters-in-law, Barry and Gwen, of Virginia; Thomas and Helen, of Alaska; Robert and Linda, of Georgia; and cousin, Joe, and wife, Gail Bolcar, of Virginia.; nieces, Erin, of New York; Rebecca, of New York; Rachel Barnes, of Virginia; and Haily Chase, of Florida; grand-niece, Reagan Barnes, of Virginia; nephews, Bryan, of Virginia, and Kevin, of Virginia; and grand-nephews, Devin, of New York, and Owen Portello, of New York.
On his wife's side, he is survived by his father in-law, Jim McKellar, of Florida and Alaska; sister and brother-in-law, Holly and Walter Lindley, of Alaska; and nieces, Emily Rose and Rachel Lindley, of Alaska. There are many cousins and friends who also will miss Doug greatly.
Doug had a kind heart and loving soul who would do anything for anybody, regardless of the situation. Douglas will be missed for his generous spirit, unique sense of humor, sharing his big smile, Irish brogue greetings, and friendship to everyone.
Douglas had so much more to give to this world and left us too soon. We all will miss you, Doug.
Donations in remembrance of Doug may be sent to Florida Hospital Hospice Care Foundation, 60 Memorial Medical Parkway, Palm Coast, FL 32164.
Family contact is Thomas Behan, P.O. Box 82456, Fairbanks, AK 99708 or email: [email protected].
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Memories and Condolences
for Douglas Behan
Ann Watson
July 1, 2023
Doug, you left us too soon & will never be forgotten.
Wayne O Horine
July 7, 2022
Doug was one of those people you will always miss but never forget. He was an example for all of us to keep smiling in the face of adversity. If you have to say something a little off key or talk about an unpleasant job, say it in French, because it sounds so much nicer! You are still with me, my friend.
Ann Watson
June 30, 2020
Doug, this came up on my phone today & I reread your obituary again & the tributes. I remember you & Dennis living next door to us in N.C. & both of you being pallbearers for our dads funeral. You even showed me around Fairbanks when I visited Fairbanks. My mom was so fond of you twins that lived next door to her & kept a watchful eye on her. Doug, you are forever missed.
Ann Watson
June 30, 2019
Still missing you. Doug was my next door neighbor in NC decades ago. His brother Tom married my sister Helen.
Tom and Helen Behan
December 23, 2014
We miss you so much.
Ann Watson
September 26, 2014
Charlotte, I am so sorry for your loss. Doug was such a wonderful and kind hearted man. He will be missed...he left us too soon. I am Helen's sister and met you when I visited her and Tom in the late 80's. We are all blessed to have known him.
July 23, 2014
Dear Charlotte, Tom & Helen:
No words seem adequate to express my sadness.
Char, Doug was the love of your life and the way the two of you doted on one another was a living lesson in how a marriage ought to be. I will never forget his sweet nervousness at your wedding and how his eyes teared up as you two said your vows. Aubrey and Brick remember the long, long walk they took with Doug and how they could make his finger talk with just a pull!
Doug was such a gentleman and true friend. He had an unwavering moral compass but was always willing to discuss issues with those who were headed in a different direction. He grew more handsome and dashing with each year, with his long silver ponytail and ever-twinkling green eyes.
A few days ago, after hearing of Doug's passing, I took a walk down to the nearby lake, seeking some form of solace that only nature can provide, and there I saw my first frog of the summer, hopping along the little trail. It stopped and sat among the blades of green grass. As we gazed at one another, it became obvious that Doug is still with us and all around us. There was a blade of grass...!
Wilma Marcorelle
Dirk Nelson
July 17, 2014
I'm sorry for your loss, Charlotte. I have vivid memories of Doug helping out when times were tough, and laughing, joking, and being a gracious friend when times were good.
Life lasts as long as it does, sometimes gives little warning to its end, and we all head back to where we came from; sometimes seemingly too to early.
So long neighbor, happy trails. Thank you for your fairness and openness.
Susan Wilson
July 16, 2014
I met Doug when I moved to Fairbanks in 1976 He is a wonderful man. I never once saw him without a smile on his face and a warm greeting. Doug was loved by many and he will be missed by many. I am lucky to have known Doug and there will always be special place in my heart for him. Charlotte and the Behan Family you are in my prayers
Wayne Horine
July 12, 2014
I had the pleasure of working with Doug for several years at the Alaska Railroad. Doug could always be counted on to come to work with a big smile and a Howdy, Howdy, Howdy! I was always impressed by how close Douglas was to his family. I was fortunate to meet his parents who were wonderful people. His brother Tom and sister -in-law Helen are kind and generous . I send my deepest sympathy to his mother,Charlotte,Tom and Helen and the extended family. I know Doug will be waiting for us on the other side and when we ask him how he's doing we'll see his big grin and he will chuckle and say"Much better now that you're here!"
Jason
July 11, 2014
Charlotte, I am so sorry for your loss. Doug was a true gentleman. He always spoke so lovingly of his "child bride".
I hadn't seen Doug in several years since I left the railroad, but the world lost a special soul with his passing, he will be missed. My condolences to you and the rest of the family.
Kimberly Stewart
July 7, 2014
Charlotte, I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved Douglas. I am only knew of him through you, but was able to see how very much you loved each other.
Tim Ryan
July 7, 2014
Doug was a great friend, enjoyed working with him and his brother Tom @ Northland Hub.
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