Margaret Y. Rabb

Margaret Y. Rabb

Margaret Rabb Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 6, 2010.
Margaret Yarborough Rabb, 56, a prominent poet and creative writing professor, died at her home Sunday January 3, 2010 in Chapel Hill. The cause of death was cancer.
Ms. Rabb’s poetry earned her a national reputation. Early this year, Margaret Rabb: Greatest Hits will be published in Columbus, OH by Pudding House. The publisher is compiling a national archive of signature works by poets of note. Upon her death, she was director of Creative Writing and assistant professor at Wichita State University in Kansas, a post she held for a year and a half.
She worked with her creative writing students on the phone and by email up to the last few weeks before her death, and made sure their grades were posted for the first semester.
“She was a teacher to the end – inspiring, and even more than dedicated, she was gifted,” said her colleague Jeanine Hathaway, professor of English at Wichita State University. Ms. Rabb’s art and spirit electrified people at the university and all over Wichita, Ms. Hathaway said.
Born in Minneapolis, MN, Ms. Rabb spent her early years -- some of her happiest as a child – in a home overlooking the St. Croix River near Minneapolis.
For almost 40 years, she called Chapel Hill home, even as she moved around the country as a student and teacher.
She was graduated in 1974 with highest honors from UNC Chapel Hill, where she studied poetry with William Harmon and Carolyn Kizer. She was a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the Valkyries, the highest women’s honorary society. She went on to receive her JD from the UNC School of Law.
She worked for 20 years as a design director for corporate and educational clients and served for four years as the communications director for an $88 million USAID-funded health care for women and children in the developing world.
At age 40, Ms. Rabb returned to writing poetry. Her poems have received many awards and have been published in numerous literary journals. In 2000, she published her first book, Granite Dives, which received North Carolina's Roanoke- Chowan Award for Poetry. In 2006, her poems were chosen for the initial Rumi Prize given by Arts & Letters journal.
Former state poet laureate Fred Chappell termed her poetry “strong and taut as a bowstring drawn to the archer’s ear.”
Because teaching and writing were her twin passions, she enrolled in the MFA program at the University of Washington where Ms. Kizer had started Poetry Northwest.
Ms. Rabb’s intellectual pursuits were wide-ranging, but poetry was her mainstay. "I thrive in a community of writers,” she told an interviewer in Wichita when she started her job there. “…Words are my medium, my paint, my video voodoo."
She was fascinated by the earliest texts in English, studying Old English, translating Anglo-Saxon manuscripts, and integrating them into her poetry. She had a special interest in Julian of Norwich, a 14th century mystic.
Ms. Rabb termed her late entry into full-time poetry an “oddball trajectory.”
“It’s important for people who want to concentrate on their art to know that it simply can’t be too late. Ancient Chinese poets fulfilled their worldly obligations to family before they finally took to the hills to write poems on trees and rocks. I am grateful to be nearby.”
Hathaway, whose office was near Ms. Rabb's, could hear her clapping out rhythms with her students. “She got them physically involved in rhythms such as Iambic pentameter, and rhyme. It was always about wisdom and delight.”
“I don’t know anybody who could achieve their MFA and become director of a creative writing program, all the while battling cancer.”
Despite her many accomplishments, Ms. Rabb was modest and private. She was almost six feet tall, lanky and dressed with distinction. She loved yard sales, Goodwill shops and taking long walks, chatting with friends in person or by phone and organizing great parties to bring people together. She was a luminescent, generous and remarkable friend to many.
She is survived by her daughters, Eleanor Arwen Rabb Potter and Diana Blake Rabb Potter and her son-in-law Yusef Napora, all of Chapel Hill. She also is survived by her parents, Stuart & Catharine Case Van Buren Rabb, of Asheville.
A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Friday Jan. 8 at the Chapel of the Cross on Franklin St. in Chapel Hill followed by internment in the Old Chapel Hill Cemetery in the “Poet’s Corner” established by writer Max Steele. Visitation will follow at the home of Sharon & Chris Ringwalt at 8 Cobb Terrace, Chapel Hill. Memorial gifts should be made to Doctors without Borders or any charity Ms. Rabb would have supported.
Expressions of sympathy to the family should go to: 8030 Union Grove Church Rd., Chapel Hill, NC. 27516.

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January 13, 2010

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Kery Jones

January 13, 2010

Peggy was such a wonderful addition to our department at WSU, and no matter what kind of day I was having, running into her (sometimes almost literally--we both kind of darted around at times) made me smile. I'll never forget that brilliant purple office of hers, or what a dedicated and giving person she was. I was so looking forward to getting to know her better over the years. Blessings, Peggy.

Julie Suarez Hayes

January 11, 2010

I met Peggy many years ago when we were both students at the New York State Summer Writers Institute at Skidmore College. We were in Robert Pinsky's poetry workshop and were immediately drawn to each other's work. We maintained email contact over the years and exchanged chapbooks. Peggy is a wonderful poet and her gracious spirit has stayed with me all these years. How much I enjoyed our conversations! How sorry I am that we will not have a chance to meet and share our lives again. I feel fortunate to have met Peggy and I send my deepest condolences to all who love her. She was a gift!

Julie Suarez Hayes

Jim Clark

January 11, 2010

I too lost touch with her after she left NC for her MFA. It seems I saw her only a little while ago, but I guess it's at least 2-3 years. I admired her poems, but what I'll remember most is her warmth and her generosity. It was always a pleasure to talk with her.

Alex Grant

January 9, 2010

A lovely person and a wonderful poet, gone much too soon. Condolences to her family. I'll miss you, Peggy.

Lisa Foley-Pellicani

January 9, 2010

I worked with Peggy at UNC and lost touch with her after she left for her MFA. What a wonderful presence, and generous soul. I am planting some spring bulbs in the planter she gave me full of narcissus one winter, and fondly remembering her.

All my sympathy to her family.

Natalie Olmsted

January 8, 2010

For me, Peggy was an inspiration. A woman with great talent, fearless energy, and a generous heart, she brought a light to our campus at WSU. As someone stated earlier, she will remain a bright star in our lives. Always.

Novelly Directing MFAs

Darren DeFrain

January 7, 2010

Darren DeFrain

January 7, 2010

Peggy was certainly one of those people you work with who makes you glad to be where you're at. I'll always miss her charming drawl of "Hey Buddy..." and her utterly infectious laughter that I could hear at all hours up here in spite of any circumstances. As I walk around the department and the campus I also continue to see the tell-tale signs of Peggy everywhere. In her short time her she was literally famous for bringing flowers and gifts to everyone. She was so generous in all ways. This morning I even put together some chili for the family and noted that the chili powder I reached for came from a vintage bottle that Peggy had given us "just because." We've got wind chimes and flower pots and lots of other items that would make me feel like I'm bragging if I didn't know that she was so equally generous with everyone she met.

My favorite memory is showing up at the MFA graduate reading to find Peggy in her reflective vest chasing off baseball game attendees who tried to take what few parking spaces she'd reserved for our own event. She understood how important this graduation reading was to our graduates and so when the campus said it couldn't secure parking for this event because of the competing baseball game she just threw that vest on, grabbed some tape and a flashlight, and made sure even that detail was tended to. She was brave and thoughtful and kind.

What a wonderful person and what a tragic loss. I'll miss her so much...

Carl Freedman

January 7, 2010

I knew, and tremendously liked, Peggy when we were both undergraduates at UNC in the early 1970s. Though I lost touch with her a few years after graduation, I never stopped thinking of her fondly. Reading, now, of her splendid achievements was moving and inspiring--and not particularly surprising. Her great vitality and talent make it hard to believe that she is really gone forever. The world lost her much, much too soon.

Amanda H

January 7, 2010

I grew up with Peggy as a mentor & friend. What a TALENTED woman!! Some of my fondest childhood memories are of spending the day after Christmas in her home...what a joy to spend time with Peggy! She was a beautiful, beautiful person.

Dale Stuckey

January 6, 2010

I knew Peggy Rabb only very briefly at WSU. But the two or three times I sat in her office and discussed my MFA plan of study, I sensed a great exuberance for life coming from her. Even the way she decorated her office impressed me, so colorful. I was startled and sad to hear of her departure.

Connie Squires

January 6, 2010

I shared an office and many fine dinners and parties with Peggy while she was our Artist in Residence at the University of Central Oklahoma. I used to love to sit at my desk and pretend to be busy so I could listen to her talk to her students about their work. She took them straight to the deepest bedrock level, instantly and gently. She was deeply smart and utterly gentle. Many people in Oklahoma mourn her passing.

Wendy Smallridge

January 6, 2010

Dear, dear Peggy, Although I have not seen you in a decade, you were a most significant figure in my life. You showered me with acceptance and encouragement when I was least able to give this to myself. I am glad your tender heart found its expression in your exquisite poetry. My condolences to all who grieve your loss especially Blake and Arwen.

Susan Meyers

January 6, 2010

I met Peggy at a poetry event about 15 years ago and admired her from the very start. Such a warm, generous spirit--and oh so talented!

Peggy, you will remain a bright star in many lives.

Sloan Davis

January 6, 2010

Peggy was a great teacher and friend. She taught me so much, and she did it with beauty and grace. I am happy to have known her for the short time I did, and feel I'm a better person for it. She will be missed.

Mary Garren

January 6, 2010

I met "Peggy" when I worked at UNC and she was a law student at UNC. I remember the smile she always seemed to have and the calm way she communicated. Sometime after she graduated from Law School and was working in a more creative endeavor (I can't remember exactly what it was but it might have been related to video), she invited me to have lunch with her and Chris. We had apple slices with peanut butter and I still remember that day she introduced me to one of my now favorite combinations. I saw her only a couple of times after that while her twins were still in secondary school but I'm glad to know she found her true calling from which she must have drawn much satisfaction and pleasure and which has brought much enjoyment to other people. I'm glad to have known her.

Richard Spilman

January 6, 2010

It was a pleasure and a privilege to have known her and to have shared, for however short a time, the energy she brought to life.

January 6, 2010

I'm sorry I never got to meet such a wonderful person. It is obvious to me that she touched each and every person that had the honor to be around her.

Allison Joseph

January 6, 2010

a beautiful person and poet. Peggy, you will be missed.

Allison Joseph

January 6, 2010

a beautiful poet and person. Peggy, you will be missed.

David Mason

January 6, 2010

With deepest condolences.

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