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John Pendergrass Obituary

John Fulton Pendergrass

Chapel Hill

John Fulton Pendergrass, age 67 of Chapel Hill, passed away early on the morning of February 5, 2016. Both family and friends will remember John for his spirit, off-beat wit, and deep caring for his fellow man.

John was born to William Roper Pendergrass, Jr. and Jacqueline Fleet Pendergrass in Durham, NC on February 23, 1948, The oldest of three children, John grew up in Elon and later Burlington. He played football and basketball at Williams High School. After graduation, he attended UNC-Chapel Hill, where he earned a B.A. degree in both English and International Studies. He met his wife of 45 years, Martha, in Ocean Drive Beach immediately after his freshman year. The couple eloped to Dillon, SC to marry in 1971. Following his undergraduate education, John acquired a J.D. from UNC-Chapel Hill Law School in 1974.

After passing the bar exam, John gained employment with the State of North Carolina in Goldsboro as a Patients' Rights Advocate. Following his time in Goldsboro, he spent the majority of his career with the North Carolina Employment Security Commission, advocating on behalf of the rights of unemployed citizens. He was passionate about defending the rights of those who could not defend themselves. Following his retirement from the state, John opened his own law practice in which he provided a voice to thousands of unemployed throughout the state.

John was full of life and enjoyed raising his three daughters. He coached middle school tennis for several years and was fondly known as the best and most unconventional Girl Scout troop leader. John was an avid Tarheel fan, as well as a founding member of Christ United Methodist Church of Chapel Hill.

All who knew him recognized his zest for life and adventure. His most recent international expedition featured a trip around the world with his daughter, Laurie, where they bargained for Turkish rugs, climbed the Sydney Harbour Bridge, and navigated the Milford Sound on the south island of New Zealand. Last July, John competed in the Ernest Hemingway Look-A-Like Contest in Key West, Florida, and the summer prior, he attended his first Bonnaroo in Manchester, Tennessee.

He is survived by his wife Martha and their three children, Melissa J. Pendergrass of Raleigh, NC, Laurie (Poochie) J. Pendergrass of Chapel Hill, and Ashley P. Frederick of Denver, CO, as well as his brother, William R. Pendergrass, III of Knoxville, Tennessee and his sister, Nancy Pendergrass Sharpe of Burlington, NC.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, February 13, 2016 at 4:00 PM at Christ United Methodist Church at Southern Village, 800 Market Street in Chapel Hill. His ashes will be scattered at a later date. The family requests that in lieu of flowers that memorial donations be made to the Inter-Faith Council for Social Service (Homeless Shelter), 110 West Main Street, Carrboro, NC 27510.

Arrangements for John Fulton Pendergrass are under the care of Walker's Funeral Service & Cremation, 120 West Franklin Street, Chapel Hill, NC.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer on Feb. 8, 2016.

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Rachel Hobbins

March 6, 2016

In loving memory of such a wonderful person. I have had the privilege of knowing John for over 20 years and his love of life and extending himself on behalf of others was a precious gift which will always be remembered and cherished. He will be missed and loved by all who knew him.

Debra Woodlief

February 12, 2016

I worked with John many years at ESC. He was a great person to work with and thought a lot of. You and your daughters will be in my prayers.

February 12, 2016

Martha, I am so sorry to learn of the loss of you husband. He sounds like a wonderful husband, father, friend, and I am sure he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. I miss my association with the UNC-PA, but treasure the friendships made.
Sincere Sympathy,
Nellie Taylor

Beverly Braxton

February 12, 2016

Martha,
You and your girls are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray God will comfort and strengthen all of you during this difficult time.

Carolyn and Ralph Karpinos

February 10, 2016

We are sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Pendergrass family at this difficult time.

Meena Govindarajan

February 10, 2016

Martha,
Very sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. My prayers are with you and your family.

Rosann Farber-Petes

February 10, 2016

Martha,
We were very sad to hear of John's death. We remember him as a very sweet person who was so great with kids. You and your family are in our thoughts.
Rosann & Tom

Michael McKnight

February 9, 2016

I am very sorry to hear of John's passing. I was on the opposite side of several matters with John but I don't think we ever had a hearing because we were always able to work things out for the benefit of our clients. John's collegiality and good humor will be greatly missed. Prayers to your family during this difficult time.

Ammar Yameen

February 9, 2016

Martha,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of John's death, please accept my sincerest condolences for the death of your dear husband.

Teresa Watson

February 9, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time of grief. Praying that God will wrap His loving arms around you all.

Teresa Watson
Budget, Planning & Analysis/UNC Chapel Hill

Holly McPherson

February 9, 2016

Martha, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this time of loss. May God comfort you!

February 9, 2016

Mrs. Martha
My heart is heavy with sadness for you and your family. We are praying for you
Tammy Jorgenson

Tracy Agnew

February 9, 2016

Martha, my heart goes out to you and your family in your time of grief. I hope that you find some comfort in the knowledge that I and others are praying for you. My prayer is that you and your daughters will be surrounded by the love and peace of Christ.

Linda Yates Comer

February 9, 2016

Martha, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your girls during this sad time. Only time will soften the shock of your loss but the love you shared with your husband will carry you through all the days ahead. Just continue sharing the happy memories you have of him and that will help carry you through this difficult time and beyond. God's love and blessings to you.

Linda Yates Comer
Ctr. for Urban Studies
UNC-CH

Tammy Bonds

February 9, 2016

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Susan Brown

February 8, 2016

Martha, so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Romona Morrow

February 8, 2016

Martha, my prayers of comfort go out to you and all the Pendergrass family. So sorry for your loss.

Larry Vestal

February 8, 2016

We always looked forward to John coming to our Greensboro ESC office to hold hearings. He was a great guy. My sympathy to the family.

Gary Hemric

February 8, 2016

I knew John from junior high forward, playing both football and basketball with him at WHS, and most importantly, counting him as a good friend. John was clever, witty, relentless in the pursuit of fun and a genuine good person. Martha was able to channel John (mostly) and I know that she and their children will miss this good man. We all will.

Jerome and Diane Williams

February 8, 2016

We loved John. How we will miss his phone calls, "just to chat." How could such a great heart fail him?

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