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Jim Bean, age 45, of Southbury, died peacefully Friday, December 31, 2010 at his home after a courageous battle with ALS. He was the loving husband of Kelly Turner Bean and the adoring father of Kelsey and Sam. Jim was born July 11, 1965 in New Haven, the son of Richard and Joanne Bean of Wallingford. He was also survived by his sister Lori Bean Hoelscher and her husband, Mike and his brothers Rick and Jeff and many nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles, his family by marriage, friends and former colleagues. Jim was a 1983 graduate of Lyman Hall High School in Wallingford and 1987 graduate of Denison University in Ohio. While at Denison, he made his mark as a national-level champion diver, runner and pole-vaulter. After graduation, he was happy to leave the cold behind and move to the warm, sunny climate of Los Angeles, California. There he met his wife, Kelly and they returned to Connecticut in 1991. Jim worked as a software developer for several companies, including Duracell, Waldenbooks, and most recently, The Entrepreneurs Source in Southbury. A big part of Jim's life was spent with his family and friends on Lake Lillinonah. A perfect day for him was waterskiing and wakeboarding in the early morning with his "crew," spending the afternoon on the boat with his kids & their friends, teaching them to ski or encouraging his kids to learn "new tricks" and then ending the day at the beach with a bonfire. He also enjoyed dirt-biking, quad-riding, guitar playing, and anything to do with his children. Jim was a unique person who lived life fully in every aspect. Calling hours will take place Wednesday, January 5, 2011 from 4 to 7 p.m. at Sacred Heart Church, 910 Main St. S, Southbury. Jim's philosophy was to always dress comfortably - for him that was sweats -- so in this spirit, please wear whatever you find most comfortable. In lieu of donations, we, Jim's family, would like to have you live your lives as he did: making the most of every moment and making a difference in every life you touch. The Southbury Funeral Home of Munson-Lovetere, 235 Main St. North is in charge of arrangements. To place an online condolence, visit www.munsonloveterefuneralhome.com.

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Published by The News-Times on Jan. 2, 2011.

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Tom Coughlan

September 8, 2020

I cannot believe it's coming up on 10 years. I still think of Jim often. In the short time I knew him, he made such a lasting impression. I still have the Southbury sweatshirt he gave me and every time I see it, I remember what a wonderful person he was.

Ruth Bain

January 11, 2011

Dear Kelly, I just heard about Jim's passing. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for you and your girls. What a beautiful and inspiring description of his life and spirit you wrote here -- makes me sad that I never got to know him. I wish you strength and peace as you navigate through these challenging times. May God bless you and Kelsey and Sam.

Eugene Laurel

January 6, 2011

Dear Kelly,My deepest sympathy goes out to you and the family.Thinking of you in your time of sorrow.You and the family love him,But GOD Love him best..The Laurel Family

Heather Carrano

January 5, 2011

Lori, Mike and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our prayers are with you and the entire family. If there is anything that you need, please don't hesitate to ask. Lori, the show will go on and Jim will be smiling down on the performance. God bless.
The Carrano Family

Laura Lochowski

January 5, 2011

Dear Lori,
My heart goes out to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Anita Kretzmann

January 5, 2011

Kelly,
Thinking of you and your girls with deepest sympathy.

Michelle Rozum

January 5, 2011

Dear Kelly,Kelsey and Sam,
I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Jim during his years as the "fun loving" spirit so eloquently described above, but rather as his nurse during his courageous battle with ALS. During these times one really gets to see the heart and soul of a person and I can tell you Jim was one of the most giving people i have ever known. I truly learned more from him about living and loving and thank his family for allowing me the honor of caring for him. I will miss you all.

Marion Gracey

January 5, 2011

Joanne, please extend my sympathy to your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jason Miller

January 5, 2011

Kelly, Kelsey, and Sam,

My heart goes out to you and I have you all in my thoughts in prayers. I wish I have would have come down to say goodbye. I am so grateful for everything that you have done for me. I will miss Jim very much. Please let me know what I can do for you. I miss you guys and want to help in any way I can. Jason

Angela Zielinski

January 5, 2011

To Kelly, Kelsey and Sam and the Bean family, I am so sorry Jim has passed at such a young age. I also will never forget Jim using the flobie to cut his hair in your kitchen and water skiing and such fun times together. I have great photos when we all visited at Angela and Brian's house when our kids were little, a fun day also. You are all in my prayers. Love to you all. Angela

January 5, 2011

Dear Joanne & Dick,
We were so saddened to learn of the loss of Jim. May you know the peace and comfort this heartfeld thought imparts. "The ones we love are never gone, they live forever within our hearts."

With our Deepest Sympathy and Love,
Edythe Barbara, Carol & George Wood and Louise Bashaw.

Sheldon Robertson

January 4, 2011

Dear Kelly and Lori,

Like Todd and Kim Lizambri, I have great memories of working and hanging out with Jim. Jim was the kind of guy that was fun in all areas of life, whether at work at IBM or after hours, playing tennis, water-skiing, camping, and especially playing guitar with him down in the basement. I still have an old electric guitar of his, on "semi-permanent loan" was the way he described it. I wish he was still around to play it. Please keep in touch... Sheldon

Diane Jones-Woolley

January 4, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the entire Bean Family. I have great memories of growing up with "Jimmy" on Eastside Drive. Although I had not seen him in over 25 years, I can still remember his great smile and good times had by all the "kids" on the street. May you take comfort knowing he will rest in peace.

January 4, 2011

Our deepest sympathy for the Bean family. We have such wonderful memories of a crazy, full-of-life Jim; singing "Brown Eyed Girl" in your basement, giving Flobie haircuts in your kitchen or spending time on the boat. We hope those memories will bring a smile to Kelly & the girls in this most difficult time.
Todd & Kim Lizambri (now Frederick, MD)

Hilda Fernandes

January 4, 2011

To the entire Bean Family. I had the pleasure of working with Jim recently, and in that short time, he showed me the importance of family, being true to yourself, and following your dreams. Jim will never know how he influenced the decision that I have made; I will never forget - he was a true inspiration. It has truly been a privilege to call Jim Bean my friend. May knowing how much his life has positively affected people around him help you through this difficult time.

Lora Warnick

January 3, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with your family at this time.

Laurene Goode

January 3, 2011

Very sorry to learn of your loss. I remember Jim from LHHS. May you find comfort in the memories and kindness of those around you.

Sincerely.
Laurene Goode

January 3, 2011

Our dearest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Our prayers are with you all. - Santiago/Gamble family

John Wells

January 3, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Bean Family. I had the pleasure of working with Jim at Duracell, and was always impressed with his software development capabilities and his limitless energy. He was always willing to go the extra mile(s) and was such a huge asset to the company, and an all-round great guy. He will be greatly missed.

Brian Bakalar

January 3, 2011

Kelly, Sammi, and Kelsey,
I met Jim it seems like a hundred years ago; when Kelsey started in competitive sports. Just as his daughters handled their worlds, Jim operated with grace, dignity, and enthusiasm. Always there for his kids, and always next to his wife, Jim was truly amazing. I am so saddened by your loss. Perfection may not be found in a family, but the Bean family was as close as any. Over time, I know you will all be okay - if for no other reason than that Jim would accept nothing less. For now, warmest love to you all.
Brian Bakalar

Linda Wilkinson

January 3, 2011

Lori, Sending you our deepest sympathy in your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Stacy Nocerino-Cebula

January 3, 2011

To the Entire Bean Family,
My deepest sympathy to you all. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I have wonderful memories of visiting Jim and his family at his home with my daughter he will be greatly missed. All my love to you all.

Stacy Nocerino Cebula and Family

Judy Schwerdtle

January 3, 2011

Kelly, Kelsey, Sammy and family, please know you are in our hearts and prayers. Jim touched so many lives and will be missed by all who knew him. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Judy, Jessie and Jenna Schwerdtle

Laurie and Chick and kids Rubino

January 2, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to your family..we are so sorry for your loss

January 2, 2011

Kelly, Kelsey, Sam, Dick, Joanne, Lori, Rick, Jeff,- My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you all. Jim is such a part of so many fond memories I have from not only our young adult lives, but most of my childhood and teen years as well. He was dear friend and he will be missed. I pray that you may find peace and comfort during this very difficult time.
Love Amy Charbonneau Miller

January 2, 2011

Dear Joanne and Dick,
I don't remember ever having met Jim, but have became familiar with him only through reading his sad obituary and memories of those who had known him. He certainly was a special person and I can share the sadness of your loss, Know that Jim, you and your family are already in my prayers. May you find comfort in the days ahead.
Ken Donadio (Walingford, CT)

Lorraine Hiltbrand

January 2, 2011

With Deepest Sympathy to the Bean family.
Love,
Rainey

Michelle Fazio

January 2, 2011

Dear Kelly, Kelsey, and Sam, I am sending you my deepest sympathy and love as you navigate through this very difficult time. I have such fond memories of Jim and his love of life and love of the water. I remember feeling in awe of he and Joe when they would ski on Hitchcock Lake because they could do the coolest tricks and make it look so easy. May God give you peace and comfort during this time, and always. If there is anything that I can do for you, please do not hesistate to ask. Love, Michelle Fazio

Meriah Tani

January 2, 2011

Mr. Bean was one of the most amazing guys I have ever met. Growing up around him and his family has forever touched me. He taught me how to waterski and snowboard and always encouraged me to "do a cool trick". I miss not being around in the past few years but the memories I did spend doing back tucks in his basement with kelsey or falling all over the mountain skiing, will always be with me. He was an amazing father and an overall caring person. He will for sure be missed and I admire his way of life and his outgoing personality.

Debbie Riccitelli

January 2, 2011

My heart and prayers go out to you all, as you mourn Jim. I have memories of Jim as a child. He was always smiling, always laughing and always entertaining us with his gymnastics. He had such a great spirit...I pray that God will comfort you in this time of sorrow.

Carrie and Rick Post

January 2, 2011

Joanne and Dick,
We are so sorry.

Margie Hoelscher

January 2, 2011

Dear Dick and Joanne, Kelly, Lori, Rick and Jeff, sending our deepest sympathy and love to you and the whole Bean Family. May God comfort you during this sad time and raise you up to live with Jim's spirit, love and devotion toward each other.

Margie and Dave

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