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Ryan Tlasky Obituary

Ryan Michael Tlasky, age 20, entered Heaven on Monday, October 11, 2010. Ryan was born in New Milford, June 14, 1990, son of Mark and Konnie (Pasko) Tlasky. He graduated from New Milford High School and was attending Western Connecticut State University. For the last four years, Ryan loved working at Lore's Lanes Bowling Center in New Milford. His greatest passion was bowling. He was active in several bowling leagues and always looked forward to the annual USBC Open Championship. In addition to his parents, Ryan will be sadly missed by his brother, Christopher; maternal grandparents, Mike and Bev Pasko; paternal grandmother, Elaine Tlasky; aunts and uncles, Ned and Kristina Crystal, Mike and LuAnn Tremmel, Peter and Donna Tlasky, Chris and Diane Goetz; several loving cousins; and many friends. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, October 16, 2010, at 10 a.m. at St. Francis Xavier Church, 26 Chestnut Land Road, New Milford. Burial will follow at St. Francis Cemetery, Fort Hill Road, New Milford. Ryan's family will receive friends on Friday, October 15, from 4 to 8 p.m. in the Lillis Funeral Home, 58 Bridge Street, New Milford. In lieu of flowers, donations in honor and memory of Ryan may be made to Greater Danbury USBC Scholarship Fund at Lore's Lane, 145D Danbury Road, New Milford, CT 06776.

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Published by The News-Times on Oct. 13, 2010.

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Frank and Carol Simone

October 22, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God will somehow give you the strength to get through each day. Just know you have our heartfelt sympathy.

Sharon Williams

October 18, 2010

Konnie, Mark & Chris, When Mike sent the news my heart ached for your loss. There are no words that fit. Please know that our prayers are with you in this most difficult time.
Sharon & Dan Williams, Monroe Mi

Sandy Nadeau

October 15, 2010

Dear Konnie, Mark, and Christopher,
There are no words that can adequately convey the heartfelt sympathy, love, and prayers that are in my heart for all of you. Ryan was a very special young man and I just want you to know that I'm thinking of all of you at this very sad time. Sandy Nadeau

terry/merry butler

October 15, 2010

At times like this seem so powerless to express the thoughts this message is intended to bring.Still perhaps you'll understand what words must leave unspoken and know the heartfelt sympathy that comes to you today .our prayers are with you mark,konnie and chris.sincerly terry and merry butler

NMHS Class of 74

October 15, 2010

Mark, Konnie and family,
We are all so sorry for your loss. Please know our hearts and prayers are with you now and always.

John F

October 15, 2010

Sorry about your loss. Ryan's with God now.

JohnF (old neighbor near El.Trunk's)

Barbara Davis

October 15, 2010

Konnie, Mark & Chris
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.Ryan's smile and friendship will be missed deeply.
~Barbara,Dennis, Miranda,and Alex Davis.
Davide(DJ) Luchetta

Michelle Menard

October 15, 2010

Konnie,and family, My heart sank when I heard the news Of your loss. I will always remember Ryan's sweet smile and gentle soul. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. ~ The Menard Family~

October 15, 2010

Konnie and Mark, Our thoughts and prayers are with you, as we are saddened to hear of your loss.Ryan had the sweetest smile and a gentle quietness about him, He will be sadly missed.
~The Menard Family~

Ned Crystal

October 14, 2010

Konnie, Mark and Christopher,

My heart hurts for you all at the loss of Ryan. I won't attempt to say anything profound, however, I will be arriving tomorrow afternoon to be by your side.

You have my love, my support and my shoulder for anything anytime. I will miss my nephew and celebrate him through my other nephew/his brother.

T. Nevins

October 14, 2010

Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality. ~Emily Dickinson
With my deepest sympathy-
Mrs. T. Nevins

Lori Kelly

October 14, 2010

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I didn't know your son Ryan but I am heartbroken by the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Sant'Ana Family

October 14, 2010

Ryan, we will miss seeing you at the bowling alley. Your smiling face was always a welcome sight!
Rest in Peace.

October 14, 2010

Our hearts break for his family and his many friends, but, also for those who will never get to know what a great person he was. We will always remember Ryan smiling that wonderful smile of his.

~The deFriesse family

October 14, 2010

Mr.& Mrs. Tlasky,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Ryan was one of my favorite students, I will always remember his great attitude and willingness to do his very best in class.
Peter J. Barbero

October 14, 2010

Mr.& Mrs. Tlaky,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ryan was one of my favorite students.
Peter J. Barbero

Dave

October 14, 2010

Sorry you left so soon Ryan, you were definitely an up and coming bowler and its unfortunate we did not get to see how good you were going to be.

October 13, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

October 13, 2010

To my dear friend Mike Pasko and his Family,
Mike, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved grandson Ryan of whom you were always so very proud.
Mike, Ryan went to meet his uncle Kenneth, now they can go fishing together.
Wishing You, Good Health and Love
Take care,
Your Canada Fishing friend,
Stan Kobylak
Rossford, Ohio

Garnet Francis

October 13, 2010

To the entire Pasko Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Every time I hear of a young person passing away I remember what my Mother used to say "The good die young, God wants them close to Him." Your loss is His gain. You are all in my prayers.

Ken Schell

October 13, 2010

Mark and family,
Sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

The Schell family

Bob & Robyn` Leonard

October 13, 2010

So sorry for your loss.He was always very helpful to us at Lore's Lanes.

kelly armstrong

October 13, 2010

rest in peace ryan. we will all miss you so much. <3

Katie Lathrop

October 13, 2010

To Mark, Konnie, and Chris,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Helen Chappuis

October 13, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Will miss you Ryan.

Diane Simms

October 13, 2010

Dear Mark, Konnie and Christopher, May your memories comfort you at this very very sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Mark, Diane, Valerie, Stephanie and Brittany Simms

October 13, 2010

Mark, Konnie and Chris,
It was our pleasure to be a part of Ryan's life. He is one phenomenal young man that made a difference in our lives. You could always count on Ryan to have a smile on his face whenever you saw him.
Apparently God saw the same qualities and needs him by his side for a bigger plan.
We will all miss Ryan tremendously. We hope that your memories will help ease the pain that you are feeling.
Thank you for sharing your incredible son with us, he holds a very special place in our hearts and will never be forgotten.
Brenda, Lou and Jessica Meola

Dianne Cook

October 13, 2010

I love you Ryan!! You are and always will be my third son.

Jeff Shears

October 13, 2010

So sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

October 13, 2010

The world has lost a beautiful soul. We all love you Ryan. Rest In Peace. <3

October 13, 2010

Ryan we will miss you always..love grandpa.. to Konnie and Mark and Christopher..our heartfelt sympathies go out to the three of you..We know first hand how it is to lose a son..God be with all of you..

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