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Benedict, Allyn B.
Allyn Berry Benedict, a child and servant of God, died on Thursday, March 16, peacefully at his home, surrounded by music, prayers and the family he loved. Allyn is survived by his wife of 42 years, Judith, daughter Sarah Cramer, son Thomas Benedict, daughter-in-law Amy Benedict, son-in-law Todd Cramer, sister Kathy Rodrigues and her husband Peter, brother William Benedict and his wife Janis, nine grandchildren, and extended family and friends.
Allyn was raised in Danbury, CT, by William and Althea Benedict. He earned a Master's degree in Piano Performance and Music Composition from Indiana University and spent the first half of his life teaching, performing and writing music. Allyn taught and developed the music curriculum at Hamden Hall Country Day School, performed (at The Kennedy Center, Ive's Center and Carnegie Hall, etc.), wrote commissioned works for the city of Danbury and the Hartford Stage (among others), was 12 years the choir director at St. Paul's Church in Southington, taught piano, conducted the Southington Festival Choral and was the composer-in-residence for Wesleyan University's Center for Creative youth.
At age 42, Allyn gave up his music career to attend Yale Divinity School where he earned an M. Div. and became first an Episcopal priest and then an Anglican priest. Allyn served as an assistant pastor at Trinity Church in Branford, CT, was pastor at Christ Church Watertown for 12 years and then pastor of New Hope Anglican Church. After retirement, Allyn taught theology and music composition at New Covenant Schools in Lynchburg, VA and preached at Church of the Good Shepherd. Allyn was also part of the Maranatha community in the UK where he taught from his book "Out of the Courtroom into the Father's House". Allyn authored a second book, a book of poetry and breadforthebody.com.
The wake will be held on Friday March 24 from 5-7 p.m. at the Diuguid Funeral Home at 811 Wiggington Rd in Lynchburg, VA and the funeral service at Rivermont Evangelical Presbyterian Church at 2424 Rivermont Ave, Lynchburg on Saturday March 25 at 10 a.m. with a reception to follow.

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Published by Danbury News Times on Mar. 19, 2017.

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I'm holding tuba in DHS marching band during 1964 Memorial Day Parade

March 27, 2017

Allyn was a true example of MUSIC MAN - a great performer, inspiration & leader of our DHS 1964 class - last to graduate from White Street building. Allyn and I were CT ALL-STATE CHOIR members and had great times together during high school - albeit for one year since I transferred into DHS from Wilton HS fall of 1963. Keeping fond thoughts and memories of out times - and prayers for Allyn's family and other friends too.

Judy Holcomb-Czajka

March 25, 2017

I was just talking of him yesterday with an old Danbury friend. We dated in high school. His music was such a special talent. So sorry to hear this news. Condolences to his family. He was a special person.

Joseph Lagarto

March 22, 2017

RIP Allyn (DHS-64) the Music Man !

Elizabeth Foster

March 21, 2017

Remembering the sweet,funny, talented boy from DHS music dept so long ago. Deepest sympathies to his family and friends. Rest in peace "Music Man".

Kathleen Mekoski

March 20, 2017

My sincere condolences to all of Allyn's Family and Friends. May God's love comfort you all at this difficult time.

Ray Holm

March 20, 2017

Classmate of 1964 so sorry to hear the news. Prayers and thoughts to the entire family. God Bless you all & Allyn.

March 19, 2017

Allyn and I were in a couple of classes at DHS 64. He was always soft-spoken and pleasant. I knew he had an interest in music, but I never realized how accomplished he was.

He is in my thoughts and prayers.

Beth Brenner Hughes

David Johnson

March 19, 2017

Allyn and I were classmates DHS64 and served at St James in Danbury together. His strong devotion to the church and music will never be forgotten and I will miss him and his spirit.

Mary Lou Rovelli Cummings

March 19, 2017

Rest In Peace Allyn. (DHS '64)

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