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Benjamin Brooks Wheatley III
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Benjamin Brooks Wheatley III, 46, of Waynesboro, went to be with the Lord on Saturday, September 11, 2010.
He was born December 20, 1963, in New Jersey, and spent his childhood in Delaware before moving to Virginia.
He was preceded in death by his father, Benjamin Brooks Wheatley Jr.
Survivors include his daughter, Jessica "Jessie" Rae Wheatley; his mother, Rebecca A. Scott; his step-mother, Linda Wheatley; his brother, Scott Wheatley; his sister, Jill Williams; his step-sister, Donna Sheets; and his step-brother, Trey Hardesty. Special uncles, aunts and cousins of Delaware also survive.
He enjoyed the outdoors and being with nature. Most of all he enjoyed his time with his daughter, nieces and nephews.
The family will receive friends at McDow Funeral Home on Thursday, September 16, 2010, from 7 until 8 p.m.
A private graveside service will be conducted.
Donations in lieu of flowers, can be made to the Blue Ridge Area Food Bank, P.O. Box 937, Verona, VA 24482-0937.
Condolences may be expressed online at www.mcdowfuneralhomeinc.com.
This obituary was originally published in the News Virginian.
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Rick Bugg
July 17, 2022
I miss you every day Bunj...wish i never left Virginia... You were there during my hard times and always there to comfort me... maybe I could have been there for you and things would be different.
Patti Scott-Key
September 20, 2010
Becky Anne, Scott, Jill and the rest the family. I was so sorry to hear about Jamie. I can still picture all of you from years ago and have good memories as well. I have always held you close in my heart and will never forget any of you.
"Aunt Cathie Jo" Jones
September 20, 2010
Jami, you will remain in the hearts of those who loved you forever. It gives me a sense of peace knowing you're in a beautiful place and with your dad. May you rest in peace.
Jami, Scott and Jill with our children at our Dad's house
Jill (Wheatley) Williams
September 20, 2010
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Jill (Wheatley) Williams
September 20, 2010
To my BIG brother whose hands that were so strong but gentle, who cared for me when I was sick, who cared enough to help me study for little spelling test, who didn't mind when I got on his nerves. I didn't get a chance to say good-bye or to tell you one last time, how much I love you. I hope you knew how proud I was to be your sister. Thank you for being such a kind and loving BIG brother! I miss you so much it hurts.
Carter Brooks Chaffinch
September 18, 2010
Jamie I always looked forward to anytime we could get together,you were a friend a cousin and always were in my heart.In sharing a name with you your spirit will always whisper with the wind here on the family farm. You will never be forgotten thank you for just being you. Love You, Cousin Carter
September 17, 2010
Our prayers and thoughts are with you....
Ben was a very good friend of my Brother and he will greatly missed.....
Lynn Bryant
Jesse Fitzgerald
Vickie Stover
September 15, 2010
Ben use to come into our store in Dooms often with his beautiful Jessie. He was a wonderful and kind man and will be missed. The family is in my prayers at this sad time.
michelle garcia
September 15, 2010
ben we new for a long time. you made me laugh at myslf.always will remeber the cookout you invited me and jerry to.our condolance goes to your family .may you rest in peace surlly you be missed
Robin Arey
September 15, 2010
I will always remember you AND the airplane ride
Robin Arey
September 15, 2010
My heart goes out to you Jessie and Scott. Jamie loved you very much he was a loving father. His hands where magic with wood. R.I.P. No More Tears
Robin Arey
September 15, 2010
Jessie and Scott my heart goes out to you for losing your father and brother he loved you so very much. Jamie would give you the shirt off his back. His hands where magic with wood. R.I.P. Jamie NO MORE TEARS
Gerri Cash
September 15, 2010
Jamie was a wonderful man..I met him many years ago when he moved in the home next door to our family on A street in Waynesboro. He and Felicia were always very kind to my parents (James and Crystal Cash) and he was always willing to lend a hand. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. We will cherish the memories of a truely wonderful man.
Sarah Berry
September 15, 2010
R.I.P. Jamie
I will keep your family in my prayers.
You will always have a special place in my heart. You always treated me like family and I am grateful that you are a part of my life. I am sad that you are gone now and wish that we could have kept in touch more. I know that you are now free of pain and are now watching over your loved ones from above.
Tracai Toomey
September 15, 2010
My prayers are with all of the family members.
Barbara Arndt
September 15, 2010
My condolences go out to Jessie ,Felicia & all of the family of Ben Wheatley, He had a great daughter Jessie of whom is my friend.I know she will miss him dearly.RIP Ben.
kathie mills
September 15, 2010
Our family loved "Jamie" and my sons enjoyed seeing "Jamie" and Scott when we all went to Virginia to visit with family. Our prayers are with the family and especially Jessie and Scott during this sad time. With Love and Prayers. Kathie (step aunt) and John Mills (Laurel, Del)
Glass-McCrary Family
September 15, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Wheatley family! May the comfort of your memories of Ben bring you strength during this most difficult time!
God Bless you all!
ERNIE BEVERAGE
September 15, 2010
BEN WAS A GOOD FRIEND, AND A GOOD MAN! HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BY MANY! LOVE U BEN!
Brooke Scott-LaMenza
September 15, 2010
Jessie, Scott, Aunt Becky, and the rest of the family, you are in my prayers. I love you all!
Laura Lembke
September 15, 2010
Ben-
You had a soul that was kind, sweet and generous and you will be missed terribly. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and friends and especially Scott and Jessie.
Julie Sorrells-Carpenter
September 14, 2010
So sorry to hear of the loss of Benjamin. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Ben's family. RIP BEN!!!
Wes and Sharon Shrader
September 14, 2010
In remembrance of such a kind man and one heck of a carpenter! Our home speaks volumes to his skills. He took great care in assisting us to finish our home. God bless!
Dennis click
September 14, 2010
I went to school with Ben and am so sorry to hear of this great loss. I wish I would have stayed in touch with him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family
Dennis Click
Michele Smith
September 14, 2010
Scott and Family... My thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Curt Rosen
September 14, 2010
I grew up with Benjamin and his brother Scott. Man, I am soooooo sorry for your loss. My best to the Wheatley family.
TINA ZIRKLE
September 14, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Herbie Roberts
September 14, 2010
They say that "God only takes the best ones" Once again its seems to be proven true.I have always had a brotherly love for Ben.His kindness,and seriousness was always a step above most. He will be sadly missed yet warmly remembered. Love you Ben!!! RIP BRO
Frank Breckenridge
September 13, 2010
Ben,you was a good friend you will be missed
Julia Womble
September 13, 2010
Ben was a sweet guy, this is a sad loss. My heart goes out to his family.
Dora Shiflet
September 13, 2010
Benji, you certainly will be missed.
September 13, 2010
Jamie, you were a sweet and gentle kid and a soft spoken man.
I've got lots of good memories of our youth in Delaware and I love you.
Your Uncle Tom
Tish Branch
September 13, 2010
Rest in peace Jamie....
Ben Gochenour
September 13, 2010
Ben was a great guy! its such a terrible loss for everyone he ever touched with his kindness and love. we will miss you Ben!
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