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BATOR Stanley J. Jr., 54, of Rutherford, NJ died on Nov 23, 2009. Born in Secaucus, NJ. , Stan was the devoted husband of Patricia Westervelt Bator and the son of the late Stanley and Dolores Bator. He was a devoted "dad" to Bogey and Eagle, his two furry children. Stan was an avid sports enthusiast and spent most of his time tracking his beloved Yankees, Jets and Devils. Prior to his illness, he enjoyed skiing, golfing, kayaking and biking. He was a volunteer at Hackensack Hospital and a supporter of the Brain Injury Association of New Jersey, which was instrumental in his rehabilitation. He was a graduate of Hudson Catholic High School and Montclair University where he received his undergraduate and Master's degrees.He is survived by his wife Patricia, sisters: Elaine Fenwick and Dr Elizabeth Bator; in-laws Mary Westervelt, Margaret and George Critelli, Helen Westervelt, John and Vera Westervelt and ten nieces and nephews: Chrissy, Andy, Mickey, Jason, Sean, Katelyn, John Paul, Samantha, Jacqueline and Rocky.Funeral Saturday 8:45 AM from the Collins Calhoun Funeral Home at 19 Lincoln Avenue, Rutherford, NJ. Followed by a 9:45 Mass of Christian Liturgy in St. Mary's RC Church Rutherford Entombment Holy Cross Mausoleum, No. Arlington.Family will receive friends Friday 2-4 and 7-9 PM. The family would prefer donations in his memory be made to Brain Injury Association of New Jersey, 825 Georges Road, Second Floor, North Brunswick, NJ 08902 www.collinscalhounfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Nov. 25, 2009.

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Catherine Dipasquale

December 1, 2009

Stan will be greatly missed by the Hackensack Hospital Volunteers. We enjoyed working with him, and he was a great help with the children.
Catherine Dipasquale, manager of volunteer services.

Mark Bulwicz

November 30, 2009

I am so saddened to hear about the passing of Stanley. He and I were quite close at Hudson and MSC. He was a great supporter of Hudson and the special needs of inner-city education. In the early days of setting up the alumni association as the president, whenever I called him, he was ready to help the school. We had many fun times to reminisce together over the years including a particularly great week at Cape Cod one college summer never to be forgotten. I saw him at every HS class reunion, met Patricia, and enjoyed our conversations, there's a little less to look forward to at the reunions now, I'll miss him, as will many others in our class. Many best wished to Patricia and his sisters,
Mark Bulwicz

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