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Strother R. "Sonny" Shiley Jr.

Strother Shiley Obituary


Strother R. "Sonny" Shiley, Jr., 77, of Winchester, died Monday, September 6, 2010 at Blue Ridge Hospice Residential Center.

Mr. Shiley was born February 12, 1933 in Frederick County, VA; the son of Strother R. Shiley, Sr. and Stella May Dyke Shiley. He was a member of the John Handley High School Class of 1953. He served in the U.S. Navy from 1953-1957.

Upon discharge from the Navy, he returned to Winchester and worked for Novick Transfer Company and later became Sales Representative for Snyder Motor Freight. In 1968, he was hired as Traffic Manager for Rubbermaid Commercial Products, Inc. After a successful career in transportation logistics and distribution, he retired in December 1994.

Mr. Shiley was a current member of the Lutheran Church Council, a member of the Parish Council and a member of Hebron Lutheran Church in Yellow Springs, WV where he served as Vice President of the Lutheran Brotherhood. He was Past President of Shenandoah Traffic Club, Past President and Chairman of the Board of Eastern Shipper- Motor Carrier Council, a member of Council of Logistics Management, National Industrial Transportation League, Virginia Standing Rate Committee, Speakers Bureau Loss and Damage Claims and Delta Nu Alpha Speaker.

He was past President of the Winchester Jaycees, Vice President of Virginia Jaycees and a JCI Senator, past President of the Winchester Exchange Club where he received the "Book of Golden Deeds" for community service. He was a member of the American Cancer Society, past President of the Winchester American Heart Association, an Assistant Scout Master, Vice President of the Adult Care Center and Vice President of the Judges' Athletic Association. Mr. Shiley volunteered with United Way of the Northern Shenandoah Valley, a member of the Loyal Order of the Moose, a member of the Chamber of Commerce, AARP, Vice President of the Adult Care Center, and served as Advisory Board Chairman of the Salvation Army. He was a member of the Winchester Development Committee, a member of the Reduction of City Council Committee and served as Moderator of the Joint City-County consolidation meeting. He also served as Vice President of the Young Democrats, was a member of the Democratic Committee and served as Committee member "Vision 20/20". Mr. Shiley received the 1965 Edition "Outstanding Young Men in America".

Mr. Shiley was devoted to his family. He enjoyed golf, the seashore, football, March Madness, gardening and refinishing antiques.

He married Patricia Mae Shank on June 29, 1953 in Winchester.

Along with his wife of 57 years, he is survived by two sons, Tagg Shiley of Cross Junction and Rudy Shiley of Winchester; a sister, Geri S. Brunson of LaGrange, NC; a brother, Carroll R. Shiley and his wife Lea of LaGrange, NC ; and four grandchildren, Stephanie Shiley and her fiancee, T.J. Clarke of Winchester, Briana Shiley of Cross Junction, Rachel Shiley of Winchester and S.R. Shiley, IV of Cross Junction.

A funeral service will be held on Friday, September 10, 2010 at 1:00 p.m. at Jones Funeral Home Chapel in Winchester with Pastor David Twedt officiating. Burial will be in Mount Hebron Cemetery.

Pallbearers will be John Ringer, Woody Sirbaugh, S.R. Shiley, IV, Peter Knapstein, Bill Shendow and Lincoln Jones. Honorary pallbearers will be members of the Super Bowl Gang.

The family will receive friends on Thursday evening from 7-9 p.m. at the funeral home.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Sonny Shiley Scholarship Fund, c/o The Judges' Athletic Association, P.O. Box 2213, Winchester, VA 22604.

Online condolences may be left at
www.jonesfuneralhomes.com

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Published by Northern Virginia Daily on Sep. 8, 2010.

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September 14, 2010

Dear Tagg and Rudy, I am Greg Martin Sonny (Gaither Martin's son) I'm sorry to hear about your father. Mom and Dad called me tonight to let me know of the passing of your father. My daughter lives in Winchester I"m not sure where you all are living now. Would love to hear from you. You can email me at [email protected], Keeping you all in our prayers. Greg

JERRY AND JANNA CATHER

September 14, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. He was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Michael Fauver

September 10, 2010

Dear Pat,Tagg and Rudy, I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Sonny. I have so many fond memories of Sonny and Pat being with Ruth and Dick Fauver, The Flemings, the Petrie's and more. Sonny was always so friendly and a joy to be around. I know he will be missed greatly.
Sincerely
Michael Fauver

David Thompson

September 9, 2010

Dear Pat, Tagg and Rudy- Sonny was such a special person. i can remember watching football on TV with Dad and Jim and Donnie Homar at Jim and Jackie Fleming's house on Dunlap Street. He had such a great laugh, and boy did he get excited at football games. The Handley Judges will miss him "whoopin' and hollerin' " at them on Saturdays. We're all going to miss him a bunch. You're in our our prayers (as you have been these last few months)- David and Renee Thompson

David Bailey

September 8, 2010

On behalf of the Virginia JCI Senate organization, I'd like to express our condolences to the Shiley family. May the comfort of family and friends help ease the pain during this difficult time.

God Bless,

David Bailey
Virgina Senate Chaplain

Debra Szablak

September 8, 2010

Shiley Family....I am so sorry to hear of Sonny's passing. I worked at Rubbermaid for 12 years back in the late 70's and 80's. He was a fine man who treated me with the utmost respect. I will always treasure our conversations and contact. He will truly be missed.

Scott Grantham

September 8, 2010

On behalf of the Virginia Jaycees Life Member Association and it's members, I would like to express our condolences to the family and friends of Mr. Shiley.

Scott Grantham
LMA President 2010-2011

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