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Kurt Milliman Obituary
He was born Jan. 31, 1963, in Park Ridge, to John and Lorraine (Stone) Milliman Sr.
He was an avid Harley-Davidson enthusiast and often organized charity rides. He was an entrepreneur, starting many business, was an insurance agent for Farmers Insurance, was a former employee with the McHenry County Sheriff's Office, and was owner of the Dirty Hog Saloon in Island Lake.
He was a true friend to thousands.
He is survived by his mother, Lorraine Montalbano; his fiancée, Karen Pratscher; his children, Nicole (Dan Witczak) De Neve, Kassi De Neve and Joseph De Neve; his granddaughter, Kayla De Neve; a sister, Karyn (Dominick) Ross; a brother, Scott (Wendy) Milliman; his nieces and nephews, Bob, Jenny, Jessica, Jon, Scott Jr., Dominick Jr. and Tony; and many extended family members.
He was preceded in death by his father, John Milliman Sr.; his stepfather, Philip Montalbano; and his brother, John Milliman Jr.
Friends may visit from 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. Thursday, June 2, at Querhammer & Flagg Funeral Home, 500 W. Terra Cotta Ave., Crystal Lake. The visitation will continue from 10 a.m. until the service at 11:30 a.m. Friday, June 3, at the funeral home. The Rev. Ronald R. Pratscher will officiate. Cremation rites will be accorded.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given to the family.
For information, call the funeral home at 815-459-1760. For online condolences, visit www.querhammerandflagg.com.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Kurt Milliman
Steve Schneider
July 10, 2019
We miss you Kurt. You were always very kind to me and I will never forget that.
Marty Pixius
June 10, 2011
To Scott and Jessica and the Milliman family. Kurt was a great friend and co-worker.I just learned of the tragic loss of Kurt.I miss his laugh already. Keep a cold one for me up there Kurt.
Kurt I know you were so happy the day I begged you to take this pic! lol miss u tons
Jessica Milliman
June 9, 2011
Kurt, my life will never be the same without you. You always knew how to brighten even the darkest of my days and you could always make me laugh! You were not only my uncle, but also a 2nd father to me. I will never forget you and wil carry you with me down every path I go. Everytime I see a motorcycle, I will look up to you! Oh, and I was telling people the other day that I'm going to become a poser harley girl! Ha you know I cant ride, but I will still be sporting the harley davidson gear for you! I love and miss you so much. In old Kurt fashion....... OKCYABY! Not goodbye, but untill we see eachother again! And btw, I bet you have the best Harley in Heaven!
Cindy Magle
June 4, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the family. I was a relative of Kurt. Karen was married to my brother Dale. So sorry to hear of this tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jenny Martinez
June 3, 2011
To my dear Uncle Kurt,
How will we ever get used to not seeing your smiling face or hearing your deep, soulful chuckle anymore? I will carry your memory with me always. I look forward to the day when hearing the roar of a Harley will make me want to smile instead of making me want to cry. Going from one day to the next without you will surely be toughest for us all. Please give us signs from above that you're okay and that your spirit is surrounding us.
Also, tell Little Gram to take it easy on ya up there....
love, kisses and hugs
Tony Kotlarz
June 3, 2011
I will always remember your positive attitude and sense of humor. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Mariann
June 3, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the Milliman Family. My prayers are with all of you. Rest in Peace Kurt! God Bless all of you.
Chris and Angie Santis
June 3, 2011
Karen, Nicole, Kassi, and Joseph. I am so sorry that you are having to experience this loss. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
James Covington
June 2, 2011
Kurt we met over 30 years ago back in 7th grade. I was new to Des Plaines and a very very shy person. You went out of your way to show me friendship and kindness. A gift you shared often. To all his family and friends.
With tears in my eyes.
God Bless you all.
3 Wheel Steve
June 2, 2011
Ride in Heaven brother!
3 Wheel Steve & Beth
Jo~Anne M.
June 2, 2011
22 131 K was the license plate that I saw on my way home from work, the day I received this devastating news of your passing. 22 for Peace, front to back, 1/31 pretty obvious, and of course the 'K'. Please watch over us from your heavenly dwelling place.
You were loved by many! You touched our hearts and souls...
~God Bless your Family~
Jo~ & Scott S.
June 2, 2011
Heaven must have needed a leader for their Angel Harley summer run. 'Kurty', words can never express the special place you will always have in my heart. You were a true & caring friend, helpful & loving to all you knew, moreover, a much valued human being! Please say Hi! to my brother Michael, he will give you the grand tour. Peace ~ God Bless your fiancée Karyn, and your precious loving family.
June 2, 2011
God bless the Milliman family. What a great family. What a sad ending for Kurt, who we all loved. God please take good care of this family with open arms. We all love each and everyone of you.
Jo-Ann Lakemacher
June 2, 2011
So sorry to hear of your loss, Lorraine! I remember your sharing about your great son, Kurt; in our times together w/ PDNA! Losing a child has got to be so difficult! Praying for you!
dominick
June 1, 2011
Kurt you put so many smiles on so many faces good times and bad I couldn't of asked for a better brother inlaw I love you more than words can tell I will miss you alot
Kat Politick
June 1, 2011
“Uncle” Scott,
When you told me the news on Sunday, I must say I was quite shocked. You have been through so much in the past few months- I cannot possibly imagine the pain and weakness that you feel at this moment. Just know that God would never give you too much to handle. Just try to go on knowing that we will all see our lost loved ones again someday. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With Love,
-Kat, Landyn James-Scott, and Jason
christine wells
June 1, 2011
Jenny Im so sorry for your loss.you have such a wonderful family Im just so sorry that i didn't have a chance to meet him he sounded like a amazing person. I love you all.
Tom Svoboda
June 1, 2011
Scott- My deepest sympathy and condolences to your family at this time of loss. Kurt was always a positive presence in the government center. Take care-Tom Svoboda
Scott Sr
June 1, 2011
Kurt, ..On Friday I have to do the impossible..I am going to give the eulogy..There is not enough time over the next 40 years to share all the good things about you, you were the best, you will always be the best, and i love you and miss you so bad Bro,.
A Varville
June 1, 2011
Dear Scott and Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences and thoughts at this time. Your photos posted were so warm and friendly!
God bless you as you traverse this rocky road.
Adrienne, Dekalb, Il.
Tom Little
June 1, 2011
Scott I'm very sorry for your loss.
Cynthia Terrill
May 31, 2011
This was a shock to me to hear about your loss... Kurt was a great & fun guy to know.. I am glad that I got to know him when I did... He will be truly missed...Kurt you will be missed...
The Nellessen Family
May 31, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
The Zekens
May 31, 2011
What a loss. May you use your memories and be able to smile because they happened. In our thoughts and prayers to all of you.
Ana Schnettler
May 31, 2011
My deepest sympathies to all of the Milliman family. I am still in shock after hearing of Kurt's passing. Kurt was always a great friend to me and Kevin, when Kevin died he was there for me. I will truly miss Kurt's laugh and all the good things that he did for everyone. I know that he is in Heaven with Big Kev....may they ride through heaven together. Kurt you will be missed by many. Rest In Peace big guy!!!!
Jim and Eula Monahan
May 31, 2011
God Bless you Aunt Lorraine and family. We know how it is to lose loved ones. Kurt will be missed, remember the good times to go forward.
Herman Rodiek
May 31, 2011
Kurt was a true friend, and was held in high regards to many. He employed me for years when he had Classic Towing. He will be missed by many!!
Gina Carlino Gary Cwajgenburg
May 31, 2011
Our Prayers and thoughts along with hugs to out to all of you guys! I knew Kurt though my best firend Jenny, and the memories I have of him all all funny and good ones. He would help anyone in need, he will be missed
Doug Gardner
May 31, 2011
to the Milliman family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember Kurt from our days in Des Plaines. I am sorry for your loss
May 31, 2011
TO MY BROTHER..MY HERO..MY WORLD. YOU GAVE ME SO MUCH AND ALWAYS ASKED FOR NOTHING. YOU WERE MY STRENGTH MY SECURITY AND I AM SO LOST WITHOUT YOU. I DONT EVEN HAVE WORDS FOR HOW LOST I NOW AM. IM EMPTY. THANK YOU FOR ALLWAYS MAKING ME FEEL SO SPECIAL. THANKS FOR ALWAYS "HAVING MY BACK". STAY WITH ALL OF US ALWAYS KURTY..THANK YOU FOR BEING THE TRUE BROTHER TO ME YOU WERE. I LOVE YOU KURTY...I MISS YOU... PLEASE KEEP HELPING US TO TRY TO GET THROUGH THIS CUZ WE CAN'T. TILL I SEE YOU AGAIN MY BEAUTIFUL BROTHER..ALWAYS KARYN
Michelle (LaVoie) Wordel
May 31, 2011
Lorraine and family God Bless all of you!
Amy Podgorski
May 30, 2011
Kurt was like a second father to me.....he was there fr me when most others weren't......he would give you the shirt off his back and be there for you if you needed him at the drop of a dime.....he had the most amazing soul and a heart of gold.....Kurt you will be forever loved and forever missed.....my prayers and heart goes out to your family......I love you always.....RIP
Gary & Heidi Rothermel
May 30, 2011
God bless all of you during this difficult time. You're all in our thoughts and prayers.
Stuart Mcintosh
May 30, 2011
I didnt know Kurt very well but I do know his family, and my heart goes out to them during this time. Kurt was a good man and loved by many. He will be missed
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