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for DEBORAH HOFFMAN
Dr. Dorita (Dori) Berger
February 6, 2024
I continue sending condolences to Deborah's three wonderful brothers Joel, Gary, and Toby - who are left to continue the wonderful musicianship of the Hoffman family, and some of whose offsprings are following the tradition. May Deborah's memory be for a blessing to every member of her extended family, and may we only know music and light in her memory.
Dr. Dori Berger
February 6, 2023
You are missed and thought of frequently. You left us all too soon and too young. RIP sweet gal.
Herb Baker
March 7, 2014
I remember how Deborah smiled and what a friend and lovely young Woman she was during my final years with the Met, Orchestra and I was shocked to hear of her early passing.. RIP , Herb Baker
Laura Esther Wolfson
March 7, 2014
I met Deborah about eight or nine years ago, when I was newly diagnosed with the same lung disease she had. I was very encouraged by our meeting; she had made a vibrant recovery following her transplant, and had helpful words for me. We met in a restaurant on the Upper West Side of Manhattan, along with our mothers, who had gone to elementary school together in Chicago in the 1930s. (My mother is Betty Wolfson, nee Bunes.)
My entire family is shocked and saddened to hear of Deborah's death and we extend our heartfelt condolences to her family.
Sandy Buscemi
February 25, 2014
My heartfelt condolences to the Hoffman family.
Diane Antista
February 24, 2014
I read the NY Times daily in my home in Colorado Springs, and I was checking a dated obituary on Sid Ceasar when I spotted the lovely smiling photo of Deborah. I have never read such a wonderfully written tribute, and though it sounds over-reaching on my part, I just kind of wanted her family and friends to know that this stranger sends sincere condolences to those who mourn this beautiful woman.
Sabrina Berger Kuratana
February 21, 2014
I was so sorry to learn about Debbie. She was amazing and I know how much she was loved and respected. Sending you many hugs and lots of love.
Dori & Larry Berger
February 21, 2014
May the light of her smiling face and her beautiful music continue always to illuminate the lives of her family,friends, and all whose lives she touched.
February 21, 2014
Larry and I just heard of Deborah's passing and were very shocked and upset. It has to be a devastating time for the family. She was a dear sweetheart, and we will always recall her very foundly. We miss you all, and are sorry we hadn't heard of her passing so that we could attend the memorial. Please know that we are thinking of all of you, and sending our very best thoughts and prayers.
Dori and Larry Berger
February 21, 2014
I belatedly just heard the news and received it with shock and sadness. A wondeful person, a brilliant musician.
Michael Feldman
John Dyer, former FGCS bass trombonist
February 19, 2014
Very sad to lose such a person who, from a very young age, showed an amazing musical aptitude.
February 19, 2014
February 19, 2014
Could not believe the tragic news! Have not seen her in many years, but Deborah was a very talented, lovely young lady. My heart goes out to the Hoffman Family.
Denny Grotz, Former staff member, FGCS/Florida Orchestra, Tampa, Florida
Dahlia Falk Zaguri
February 18, 2014
Over the years I heard much of my cousin Deborah, especially from my grandmother Clara. I send my deepest condolences to Esther and the entire family.
Steve Starkman
February 17, 2014
With much sadness I learned of Deborah's untimely passing.I will always remember her from our days in Florida,her humor,
and great musicianship and talent.She will certainly be missed.My sincere condolences go to her parents Esther Glazer and Irwin Hoffman and to Joel,Gary and
Toby as well as to her extended family.
Steve Starkman
New York 2/17/2014
Norman Krieger
February 16, 2014
It was privilege to know Deborah. We were class mates at Juilliard and I always admired and respected her both as a musician and personally. My sincere condolences to her family and friends.
Dan Chan
February 15, 2014
Until today 02/15/14 night 8:00 pm , I am so shock to hear my dear patient Deborah had passed away . I wish my deepest sympathies to her family !
February 15, 2014
Although I never met Deborah, she was my cousin & there is always some feeling of loss whenever a family member dies. My thoughts & prayers go out to her family & friends.
Randy Parada
Greg Fiocca
February 15, 2014
Not knowing who she was or where she came from, one day at opera rehearsal break at Juilliard (1980s), I asked Deborah if she knew 'The Swan". She chuckled and looked at me like I had three heads, but she was in a way disarmed by the innocence of my question. Then with a glint in her eye she said "Sure", and so we played the piece. It was sublime. Deborah's depth of tone and musicality was as honest and poignant as she was in life. She loved people watching and her sense of humor was always a source of joy. Her laugh was warm and distinct. She taught me tolerance, patience and sensitivity, and frankly how to be a better thinker and musician. She showed me how to navigate New York City - how to fight the crowd for a limited supply of chocolate croissants or just take a warm spring day in Central Park and turn it into a journey. Yes, Deborah was an incredible musician but the human being behind that harp was the true gift to all who knew her, worked with her and loved her.
Susan Spector-Oboist, MET Orchestra
February 15, 2014
I was unable to attend the service for my dear colleague Deborah. I wish to convey my deepest sympathies to her family since I was unable to do so at that time.
Although Deborah and I had been in the orchestra together for all of the 21 years I have been in the MET Orchestra, I got to know her better recently during a run of one of the last operas she was to perform. As colleagues in the onstage Banda in Julio Cesare, we spent lots of time in the Artists' Dressing area offstage, waiting for our call to the Stage. It was during these idle moments that we had conversations in which I saw even more than ever before what a quiet, but intense and deeply passionate person she was. Her dedication to her art, to her job, to her friends, and to her family was palpable. And her love for all those things was just as obvious. And what a delightful smile and laugh she always had!
She is already missed in our ensemble as well as in our every day lives.
sioned williams
February 15, 2014
So very sad to hear the news about Deborah... she found the courage to just carry on playing and being a wonderful harpist and human-being despite suffering. My personal condolences to all her family and all who knew Deborah.
Sioned.
Deborah will be remembered by many of my friends and colleagues in the United kingdom Harp Association, so I also send our condolences (as President of the association), Sioned Williams, London
John Gingrich
February 14, 2014
What a wonderful artist. And what sad news to learn of her death. I join the thousands who have loved her artistry in sending condolences to all of her family and friends on this tremendous loss.
John Gingrich
Anne Stevens
February 14, 2014
My deepest condolences to to the Nierenberg and Hoffman families. Deborah was a gifted musician and fine person. I will carry her, and you all, in my thoughts.
Tony & Carol Skey
February 14, 2014
Our sincere condolences to the Hoffmans, Esther, Irwin and sons, for their tragic loss.
Carol Habich-Traut
February 14, 2014
I had the great pleasure of playing Debussy Trio with Deborah at Juilliard, what a fabulous musician and person! My condolences to the families Hoffman/Nierenberg. Such a great loss.
Zsuzsanna Varosy
February 14, 2014
I am deeply saddened to hear of Deborah's passing, your
enormous loss. My deepest condolences goes out to the
entire Family and to all those who loved her and enjoyed her
angelic sound on her harp. My thoughts and prayers are with
you at this difficult time.
Zsuzsanna Varosy, Cellist ,TFO
St.Petersburg, Florida
Margaret Fischer
February 13, 2014
While I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Deborah, I have been blessed to work with her husband Roger during his trips to Dallas. My deepest condolences to Deborah's family and loved ones as they cope with this enormous loss. The world is a more beautiful place because of the music she made, and because of her presence in it.
veralyn
February 13, 2014
sorry for your recent loss, continue to rely on the God of all comfort
Sara Wiedt
February 13, 2014
I am deeply saddened to hear of Deborah's passing. I was a member of the Met Chorus since '91 and remember so many wonderful performances where she was featured. So sorry for your loss. Sara Wiedt
veralyn
February 13, 2014
please turn to the hearer of Prayer in this time of grief. Psm:65:2
Rosina & Dion Paul
February 13, 2014
Deepest condolences.
Kathy Phelps Hunt
February 13, 2014
I am so sorry to hear this news. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Aloysia Friedmann and Jackie Parker
February 13, 2014
Deborah was extraordinary in every way, and so courageous beyond words. We are deeply saddened and send our most sincere condolences and love to the Hoffman/Nierenberg families.
Tonya
February 13, 2014
Sincere condolence to the Family during your time of grief. May God's loving-kindness comfort you and help you through this difficult time. Psalm 119:50,76
February 13, 2014
I was manager of the building that Deb moved into. We became fast friends. Part of my job is knowing what people do for a living. Had it not been for that, I probably would never have known, she was that modest and humble. She was an amazing person! She saw the world through love and respect, and treated everybody as such.
Mark Baker
February 13, 2014
A Beautiful Lady.
Arthur Busby
February 13, 2014
I have worked with Roger quite a few times in the Dallas area. So very sorry for this tremendous loss.
Sarah Voynow
February 13, 2014
A great loss of such an extraordinary person. She will always be that " big sister" colleague I always looked up to from 35 years ago.
Sidney Williams
February 12, 2014
It's been many years since I had the pleasure of working with Irwin and his extraordinary family, and I have not forgotten the brilliant musicianship that Deborah brought to our stage. My most sincere condolences go out to the family.
Diane Cipollini
February 12, 2014
Deborah was myson Matt's teacher at Manhattan School of Music.From the moment I met her I felt she was the right teacher for him.She was kind,intelligent,inspiring and a gifted musician.I feel blessed to have known her having only spent a few dinners and moments together.I am so grateful to her for all she has given my son.My deepest sympathy to her family,friends and students.Sincerely,Diane Cipollini-Matt Tutsky's mom
anthony McGill
February 12, 2014
Deborah was a peaceful, wise beautiful presence everyday at the Met. Her sound was one of the most beautiful, heavenly sounds I've ever heard from any instrument. You are truly missed. Love to all of your many loved ones.
RIta Sloan
February 12, 2014
My deepest condolences to you all. I am saddened to hear this and am so sorry for your - and our - loss.
Stefanie Jacob
February 12, 2014
Though we did not know Deborah, we have so many fond memories of your family from our years in Tampa, and of Gary from IU. Our sincere condolences on your great loss--may her memory be for a blessing--
Stefanie Jacob and Scott Tisdel
Robin and David Korevar
February 12, 2014
Our condolences...may happy memories and a loving community carry you forward. Thank you both for sharing your gifts with the world.
Robin and David korevaar
Trudy Kane
February 12, 2014
Deborah was an extraordinary human being. Her beautiful playing and enthusiasm for life, music, friends only deepened as the years went by. She was so strong in the face of so much adversity. My love goes out to the entire family. I will be with you in spirit tomorrow.
Janie Kesselman
February 12, 2014
3 years ago , my daughter and I were welcomed into her home for a sample harp lesson as if we were old friends -- Deborah's warmth was palpable. May you be comforted by her gorgeous music and lovely memories. Truly sorry for your loss.
Ted Rubright
February 12, 2014
I am so sad to see this. Deborah was an incredible musician and a witty, caring person. I have fond memories of spending time with her and her fellow harpists as well as her brother Toby while studying in New York. My deepest sympathies to her family.
Diane Elias
February 12, 2014
My heart goes out to Deborah's family, the MET family and all those who loved her, her playing, and her bright spirit. I will never forget her playing the Introduction to Lucia's first aria in the MET rehearsal room, as she came back after her lung transplant. It was my first orchestra rehearsal, the room erupted in applause for this beloved colleague. God speed, the harps in heaven now have a more beautiful sound...
Daryl Coad
February 12, 2014
I have played for Roger on several occasions in the DFW area. I am so sorry to hear of this. Condolences to Roger and the entire family.
Gretchen Langlitz
February 12, 2014
When I was first in the (then) Florida Gulf Coast Symphony,I met Deborah and was impressed by her musical maturity, her kindness and great spirit. Condolences to her family, friends and colleagues. Sending much love to all. Gretchen Langlitz, Cellist TFO.
John DiMura
February 12, 2014
My deepest condolences to Maestro Hoffman and family. I had met Deborah long ago. She had a beautiful spirit.
Deborah Nyack
February 12, 2014
Deborah was an inspiration to harpists around the world. I loved her playing. I am very sorry we have lost her so soon.
Mary & Joseph Keesling
February 12, 2014
We are saying prayers for the whole family. I never knew Deborah, but had the tremendous honor of singing the Verdi Requiem with Maestro Hoffman in Florida years ago. My husband and I mourn your great loss and pray for God's comfort and blessings in the difficult days and years ahead. What a loss.
February 12, 2014
Very sad to hear this news. My deepest condolences to the entire Hoffman family. Deborah has always been a bright light from the first time we met, over 35 yrs ago. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Toula Mahalas Bonié
Marna Seltzer
February 12, 2014
I was so saddened to read this news. She was so vivacious and this just isn't fair. My condolences to the entire Hoffman family. My heart goes out to all of them.
Julie Ranti
February 12, 2014
Deborah was my inspired duet partner while we were students at Juillliard together. She is still the best harpist I have ever worked with. Her sublime musicality was what first caught my attention 35 years ago; her legacy will live on. My sincere condolences to the family.
Shelly Finkelstein
February 12, 2014
Deborah Hoffman enriched and transformed the lives she touched. Deborah's smile, once experienced, was unforgettable. She was a perfectionist in the best sense of the word. Deborah cared, truly and deeply. And she was sweet, kind and understanding. There is no one who understood the meaning and importance of time better. Please take a few moments to listen to Deborah's solo in "Ancor non giunse" from Lucia di Lammermoor or selections from “Chopin Reflections: Transcriptions for Flute and Harp.” All those who knew Deborah, who had the immeasurably good fortune to have known her, were graced by her presence. May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest. My heartfelt condolences to Deborah's family, friends and colleagues.
Debbie Brooks
February 12, 2014
Many musicians in the Dallas-Fort Worth area know Deborah's husband Roger through his work here. His introduction always included his family . . . "married to the beautiful Deborah Hoffman, principal harpist of the Metropolitan Opera Orchestra." I feel like I've known her through hearing so many introductions. Deepest condolences to Roger and the Hoffman Family. We feel your loss.
Dan Stevens
February 12, 2014
I knew Deborah when we were students at Juilliard. What a sad loss. My deepest condolences to Roger, Gary, Toby and all who loved her.
Louisa Woodson
February 12, 2014
I studied with Deborah while earning my doctorate at MSM. Her depth of knowledge and passion for music was a never-ending source of inspiration. The world has lost you way too soon. Peace to all of us who will miss her here on Earth.
Andres Cardenes
February 12, 2014
Deborah was a major force in my life both musically and personally. I first met her in the mid 80's and she inspired, challenged and humored me over the years. She was an adventuresome spirit, a fearless life-liver and treasured friend. She altered my life in so many ways and brought a refreshingly honest attitude to daily life. I will miss her tremendously.
February 12, 2014
May the God of all comfort bring you peace at this time of loss.
New York
Garry Spector
February 12, 2014
As the spouse of a MET Orchestra member, I am greatly saddened at Deborah's passing. She was a marvelous musician, a great colleague to all and a friend. My family and I will miss her terribly.
Deborah Ziskind
February 12, 2014
To the Hoffman family,
Deborah graced many lives with extraordinary music and great joy. She was a champion of many things and I was happy to know her as both a friend and gifted artist. Our family extends their deepest sympathies to you on the passing of Deborah. She will be missed. I will always treasure the memories I have with her both in friendship and in music.
With deepest condolences,
Deborah S. Ziskind
February 12, 2014
I enjoyed more than one concert where Deborah performed with the Costa Rica Symphony under the baton of Maestro Irving Hoffman. She was beautiful to watch and wonderful to listen to her, especially knowing that father and daughter were together communicating on stage. Thank you both!
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