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Dr. Reuven Gal
January 31, 2022
You are missed very much, Alan -- a friend, colleague, mentor and leader. Rest in peace.
Reuven Gal
February 21, 2011
Alan was immortal to me. We had spent so many hours, days and nights together: When he first came to our Carmel Institute in Zichron Ya’akov, Israel (was it 1987? ‘88?), together with Gene Weiner – another dear soul who’s gone – and we had long hours of conversations about the co-existence institute to be – The Abraham Fund; when we travelled for almost two weeks in Northern Ireland, to have a first-hand experience in conflict management; in all our meetings, in New York, Jerusalem, the Galil or the Negev, at his home in Jerusalem, or at my home… In our conversations, Alan was always attending, even when he did not seem responding. His curiosity was endless, his creativity unparalleled. He would always come up with a unique angle, usually looking for the next move that will turn ideas into actions. While not an utter optimist, Alan never gave up on ideas he believed in.
As it goes in that Israeli song: “Where can you ever find people like him..???” -- This is how I feel with the loss of my friend, Alan Slifka.
My deepest condolences to Riva and to the family. Alan has left behind a big vacuum.
Bob Katz
February 15, 2011
Alan we had so much fun, both your family and mine at Stratton, Vt. It is about 40 years ago. It is a pleasure to have known you. GOD BLESS!

Leslie Mandel-Herzog III
February 14, 2011
Alan, touched so many so many ways. We first met in his NY apartment, when he chaired and I was the first fund raiser for the Big Apple Circus. Alan, Paul, Richard, all so much younger then. On to Financial Deals, airport landing equipment for safety, On to Our annual summer party, and watching him play croquet with my husband Arthur...Alan always smiling, calm and strong...now wonderful memories and photographs on my computer. My sympathies go out to his entire family. Leslie Mandel-Herzog III
Steven H. Scheuer
February 12, 2011
Alan's life was a testimony that with courage and vision the impossible can become not only possible, but a reality. To his entire family and all those whose lives he changed, profound sympathy and appreciation for his life. A dear and and old friend has left us but his legacy and his generosity of spirit and heart stays with all of us. May his name be for a blessed memory.
February 10, 2011
We send our most sincere condolences to the Slifka family. We have wonderful memories of Alan that will remain with us always.
Esther Blumstein, Joseph Blumstein and Timmie Rome
Michael Donahue
February 9, 2011
Though I never met Mr. Slifka, I was very aware of his contributions over the years and his death is a blow to the peace building community. Many will no doubt live and honor his legacy of generosity and dignity. We here at the Bold leaders Project will do that!
February 9, 2011
I join all those who mourn the passing of Alan Slifka. I admired his passionate commitment to Arab-Israeli coexistence. When he founded the Alan B. Slifka Foundation through which he could impact his love for Israel and his commitment to Jewish life and coexistence, I knew this was a man I could talk to.
I did not have a personal relationship with him, but I had a deep respect for him. We had a professional relationship. As President of Meretz USA I called upon him for funding support. Always willing to see me, he was always cordial, a true gentleman. He was a man of few words but a man of his word.
In 1991 he published a definitive catalog of all the groups working on co-existence. This proved to all the naysayers that there were partners on both sides. Alan was gracious enough to support Meretz USA, and I in turn became a supporter of the Abraham Fund. We will miss him.
--Harold M. Shapiro
jane robbins
February 9, 2011
jane marla robbins
deeply grieves the loss of a great friend--
to myself, my work, and the world
Talia Aharoni
February 9, 2011
To the Slifka family, the Slifka Foundation's team and the Abraham Fund's team,
My heartiest condolences on the loss of your leader. He will be always remembered as a visioner and an enterpreuner whose work motivated change in Israeli Society.
Talia Aharoni, Founder of Maala - Buiness for Social Responsibility in Israel. Tel-Aviv, Israel
February 8, 2011
Alan was so kind and generous that it seemed effrotless for him. Among his many charitable interests, he was a steady donor to Rainforest Action Network.
February 7, 2011
A while back, some of us were doing Donut workshops on socially responsible investment. Alan would add an occasional dose of reality, gently and with humor. What a guy!
Blessings to you especially during this difficult time.
Tamsin
February 7, 2011
He was a man full of wisdom and compassion. I enjoyed working with him on Rhe Board of The Abraham Fund during the years in which i had the opportunity to serve with him. May he rest in peace! Jim Awad
Sharon Gantz Bloome
February 7, 2011
Alan changed the direction of my life over 25 years ago. He has been a blessing to me and many others. I will never forget him and his loving generous heart.
Sharon Gantz Bloome
Melisse Lewine-Boskovich
February 7, 2011
Peace Child Israel, and Melisse Lewine-Boskovich send condolences in memory of a giant.
Jane Gill
February 6, 2011
Pop Pop, Your love and unending devotion to creating peace in every area of your life has inspired us all. Grace and i both have beautiful memories we will always hold in our hearts. And you were always there at every ballet performance :)
Jane and Grace Gill
Rena Shulsky David
February 6, 2011
Dearest Alan,
Your life was a blessing and an inspiration to everyone you touched.
This fragile Earth is a better place because of your presence on it. All of us who truly love you will carry you in our hearts forever. May your wonderful deeds on Earth bear fruit always and may your soul soar with the angels to Hashem.
With love,deepest admiration and gratitude for a wonderful friend and a truly great man,
Rena Shulsky David
Jacob Ner-David
February 6, 2011
see my blog posting on Alan, may his memory be a blessing:
http://vcinjerusalem.typepad.com/vcinjerusalem/2011/02/alan-b-slifka-of-blessed-memory-one-of-the-greats-a-true-lamadvavnik.html
Walter Beebe
February 6, 2011
Alan we will miss you. You encouraged so many people to realize their personal and institutional potential by your insights, your warmth and your very presence. You have been an inspiring, unique leader here for so many, including the holistic values represented by the New York Open Center. Your impact on humanity’s consciousness will go forward, reminding us to be like you – strong and loving, with a compassionate twinkle in your eye. May your family and the world appreciate what a blessing your have been for so many others.
From your deeply admiring friend,
Philip Slifka
February 6, 2011
To Alan's entire family my condolences and symathy to you all love Naomi and Phil
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