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for IAN STUART
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Eric R. Stuart
May 25, 2025
Thinking of you Ian on this special day.
Love Feija & Eric.
Eric Stuart
May 25, 2025
Thinking of you Ian on this special day.
Love Feija & Eric.
Eric Stuart
February 25, 2025
I miss you Ian, especiaily our chats on the telephone.
Merril Stevenson
February 17, 2025
Feb 2017, 2024
Missing you so much today, dearest bro-in-law. Who else knew every twist in every plot Patrick O'Brian ever wrote?
Gina
February 15, 2025
Hope you´re still winning at poker.
Lots of love
Gina
Xxxx
William D Gilinsky
February 14, 2025
I miss my friend. Be it on stage, going out to dinner, listening to Gilbert and Sullivan, glaring at passer by cars that displayed political messages on their bumpers that were offensive, and the list goes on. Ian was never anything but genuine. He loved his job as an actor, he loved his J. W. Red and he loved showing everyone his Resume and Pix. How could you NOT LOVE that man. Most of all he made me laugh. I miss that a lot! Gone but never forgotten. Ian Stuart, my friend. Bill G.
Eric Stuart
May 25, 2024
Happy Birthday Ian.
We miss you so much.
Love Feija & Eric
xxx
Merril Stevenson
May 24, 2024
It was a treat having Ian's brother Eric and his wife Feyja (I always mis-spell this!) visit us in France for a few days. We spoke a lot about Ian, a rather godlike older brother, about coming together for Ian and Alex's wedding in Madrid, about how much Ian enjoyed spending time with his friends John and Gina Esmond. Sadly, Eric had some health problems and spent almost much time in the Castelnaudary hospital as he did in our house! I hope they'll be back from the Netherlands before long and we can do all the things we couldn't this time.
Thinking of you with much love, birthday bro.
Merril
Gina
May 22, 2024
Do you know it was your birthday 25th of May?xxx ha te ha
Bill Gilinsky
February 17, 2024
Merrill and Gina and everyone who comments each & every year. I love you all for remembering. It's the greatest gift we can give.
Bill Gilinsky
February 17, 2024
I finally realized just how important Ian was to me, as a friend. I never really knew how much I depended on his friendship until just recently, when someone asked me a very Woke Question. I won't go into detail, but I realized that this world is now on the brink of what-ever-you-want-to-call-it, and NOW, more than ever, we need unbiased & smart answers from free thinking individuals who lived through times like the one we're going through now. So to say I remember the hours we would sit at the counter of a cheap Diner and have the worst coffee on the Upper West Side, only makes me miss my buddy more. God bless your Ian. Bill
Kj
February 16, 2024
Gina esmonde
February 15, 2024
Always remembering you Ian. Love Ginaxxx
Merril Stevenson
February 14, 2024
Dearest bro-in-law. It is so hard to believe that a whole decade has passed since Ian left us. I'm still in touch with his younger brother and nephews and will send them messages on the 17th.
Bill, dearest almost bro, are you there?
Stephanie Z.
February 18, 2023
Ten years. Ten years ago on Feb. 17th, dear Ian passed. Rush Limbaugh, same date, two years ago. Daresay the best of each is having a go at the other, in merriment and good will .
Gina esmonde
February 17, 2023
Love always Gina xxxx
Stephanie Z.
February 22, 2022
Thinking of dear Ian, one of my many treasures in Heaven. My precious Grandpa Efrem the great violinist stepped out of time 37 years ago today. And my wonderful godparents Chuck Bowden and Paula Laurence are also interred at Trinity Cemetery, Reverence Wall, Tier 7. God bless them all, and us, who remain
Gina Esmonde
February 21, 2022
Sorry this is late, I have had uncontrollable problems.
I send my love as always in spades.xxxxxxx
William Gilinsky
February 14, 2022
Ian, your friendship continues, even today. The 17th is approaching, and I can't believe it's been so many years now that your premature death took you from us. Things have changed but not our tears for such a great man and a great friend.
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love" - Washington Irving
Miss you, my friend. Bill G.
Merril
February 14, 2022
Thinking of you, bro, and I wish you could know that I am in frequent touch with your brother Eric and occasionally with your nephews. You are not forgotten!
Daughter Livy and I were talking about Ian the other day, remembering when he took her, newly arrived in New York for an internship, to IKEA to furnish her new flat. After many, not always helpful, suggestions from Ian, they staggered forth and loaded the car to the gunwales. Hours of amusement followed as Ian directed operations from the sofa and little Livy somehow screwed it all together (assembling Ikea items has remained a core life skill, she says.) Such a shame that they missed what would have been a happy year together, Ian teaching Livy to drive, she running an eclectic mix of new acquaintances by him, to say nothing of her very superior puppy. She adored Ian, and to this day has kept the account he helped her open at the Actors Credit Union, even though she has lived everywhere except the US.
Gina esmo de
February 18, 2021
Thank you Bill .xxx
Bill Gilinsky
February 17, 2021
BTW, For everyone who asked me to deliver their own private messages I was able to get the messages delivered.
Gina esmonde
February 16, 2021
Bill Ian always knew when he was being funny.
Merril Stevenson
February 16, 2021
"A Lump of Falling Coal", Bill. I'll find it and send it to you now.
Hope it exists in printed form. Lovely to think of you high on the Trinity hill overlooking the Hudson. Xx M
Bill Gilinsky
February 15, 2021
This Wednesday, Feb. 17th, 2021 I will, for the 8th year since his passing, be standing beside the final resting place of Ian Stuart. I'll be at Trinity Cemetery & Mausoleum at 155th and Riverside/Broadway. It's interesting to note that this Cemetery is almost directly across the Hudson River from Ft. Lee N.J. Ft. Lee is where Ian & I would play outdoor tennis where & he would wear his Tom Selleck(ish) tennis shorts (in public if you can believe it) and frighten me just enough that he'd win almost every match. If you have to ask why I share this image with you, then you really don't know who Ian Stuart was or what his legs looked like. I remember the humor he intentionally challenged each and everyone of us with and sometimes he didn't even realize that he was being funny. I loved his serious moments on stage and his fierce positions on politics but mostly, I miss the moments that weren't planned out or rehearsed and just happened by accident. He could laugh at himself as much as he laughed at the world. He defused situations, used logic in everything he did, came well prepared to discuss any and all subjects with a wisdom and sensitivity that he could have used had he been a politician. This posting is not a tribute of a man we all knew and loved, it is, however, a reminder of a man we considered to be, a wonderful human being . Please send me ANYTHING you would like me to read while I'm at Trinity this Wednesday. Any passage from Shakespeare, any personal message for Ian or Alex. Any joke you feel appropriate or NOT! lol. I will read what you send me to read. My email is [email protected].
Merril Stevenson
February 14, 2021
Missing you, dear Bro. With love from Merril and Robin, Chloe and Livy, who still remembers your joint break for IKEA when she was setting up her little nest in Manhattan.
Bill Gilinsky
February 14, 2021
Ian and Alex. Happy Valentines Day. It's a day to remember two wonderful friends. You both live on in my thoughts and prayers, especially on days set aside to celebrate love and friendship.
Gina Esmonde
February 14, 2021
The 17 th of February is not only the day I remember you Ian, you and John are remembered always. Love always xxxxx ♥♥♥.
Gina Esmonde
May 28, 2020
Always thinking of you, always will. Love Gina xxx
Bill
May 28, 2020
Ian, we miss you and love you very much. Much has happened on this planet since you left us, most of it not good. I mention this because at times like this, when we need a friend and that friend is no longer here, the realization of how much you are truly missed becomes clear. Wherever your soul rests in peace, know that your memory lives on in those of us who loved you. Bill
Merril Stevenson
May 27, 2020
Missed your birthday by a couple of days, bro, as usual. Thinking of you and missing you. Sure hope you're with Tanny, and a selection of late lamented pets. Live you always.
Merril
Bill Gilinsky
February 14, 2020
Ian is sorely missed in my world. He was my go-to person when I couldn't understand, let alone pronounce some Shakespearean phrase. He was my buddy who enjoyed eating Greasy French Fries while nursing an over priced Johnny Walker Red. He was a real nice person too, except for the time I asked him why a man such as himself, a actor-type, skinny, well read and one of the most honest men I ever had the pleasure of meeting would want to spend any time with a unbalanced Stage Manager-type like me. His answer was; "I always gravitate to people who are much less talented, less beautiful and less charming that myself". I had to laugh out loud cause it was true. I can't believe he's gone but recently, after Alex's passing, I had the distinct privilege of sorting through their remarkable possessions and donating them to charities and acting studios throughout New York City. Some crazy jewelry, 2 starter pistols, 900 rare and glorious plays, some buttons from the Nixon and Kennedy presidential race, some cups and plates from shows they both performed in and some really terrific love letters to their friends and family. This man and this woman were spectacular human beings. Their lives positively affected everyone who was fortunate to meet them and get to know them. On the 17th I'll smile and say a prayer.
Gina Esmonde
February 14, 2020
Hola Ian . Thinking of you today of course and every day hope you enjoy a few Tizers and have fun. Love always Gina xxx
Stephanie Z.
May 29, 2019
Ian, I thought of you a lot recently. On May 25th,your b'day, I gather, we buried my great nephew Mika, almost 11, cerebral palsy. It's "normal" when "patient" goes first. But in your case, when caretaker goes first, ohh, so difficult. But Alex seems to be pressing on, God bless her. Enjoy a few touchdowns with brave handsome Mika, who never ambled here, but is zooming around there! Love you forever, dear Ian, Stephanie Z.
Kj Rink
May 28, 2019
Remembering you on your Birthday, Ian. In loving light, Kj
Marilynn Murphy
February 15, 2019
Dearest Ian,
You were with us when Professional Artists opened...
We have moved again to The Film Center Building...
We call it "Professional Artists Chapter 3"
I think you would have loved this new space
Wherever we go, you and Alex are always with us.
It is true : love never dies.
Merril Stevenson
February 14, 2019
Thinking of you and missing you, dearest bro. Love always. Merril
Gina Esmonde
February 14, 2019
Hello friend. I still think of you as being here and I would like to be able to pick up the phone and have a silly chat, I still miss you of course. Hope you are celebrating something with John. We are all thing of you. Love always. Gina xxx
Paul Schoeffler
May 26, 2018
Thinking of Ian and the great memories I have of our time together. First equity job with Ian!
I hope you are doing well Alex.
Time passes so quickly.
I am well. Family is well. 2 kids. Phew.
Keeping our heads together in these scary times is very stressful.
A huge hug to you.
Paul
William Gilinsky
May 25, 2018
Good morning everyone. Today is Ian Stuart's birthday and I believe he would have been 78 years old today. I have the distinct pleasure of visiting his wife Alex at least once a week. She is doing great. Her memories of Ian live on and our weekly visits, though short, almost always center on good thoughts of Ian and his wonderful life, both personally and professionally. This year I would like to ask all of Ian's friends to reach out to me, Bill Gilinsky, via my email ([email protected])or my cell(917-951-5554) with messages you might like to send to Alex. She misses so many of you these days and a simple update to what's going on in your life would mean SO MUCH to her. Even just sending your love via an email to me which I could print out and bring over to her to read (which she still loves to do) would mean the WORLD to her. In honor of Ian's friendship and love I am asking everyone to contact me via email and allow me to share your memories of Ian and Alex with her. It would mean everything to Alex. EVERYTHING. Love, Bill Gilinsky
Gina Esmonde
May 24, 2018
Hello remembering you particularly 25th of May all the fun we had, unforgettable.love always gina xxx
February 16, 2018
Still thinking if you and the fun we had, always will.
Hope you and John are still doing things together
without damaging anything. Lots of love gina xxxxxx
Gina Esmonde
May 28, 2017
Hope all your days are happy now. Still think of you of course.
Hope you hav fun with John. Do not breaks any glass doors.
Love always. Gina xxx
Remembering Ian
Bill Gilinsky
May 27, 2017
Ian's birthday was this past Thursday, May 25th. Most of us try to celebrate the memories of those who are no longer here, who made our lives happy, fun and honest. Ian was such a friend. I think back on the best times I had with Ian and the one's I remember the most are those spent listening to him talking about himself and his career and then suddenly catching himself, looking at me and starting to laugh out loud. I was either pretending to snore or obvious with a yawn or simply getting up, shaking my head and starting to leave the room. I miss his sense of humor. I miss his wit and charm and endless hours of babbling on about how much better he was than Richard Burton or Richard Harris, but mostly I miss his friendship. You will always be remembered Ian.
May 26, 2017
Thinking of you, Ian, and Alex misses you with every breath. M
Kj Rink
February 16, 2017
A Cupcake for your Birthday, Ian.
Blessings, Light, and Love, Alexandra
Gina Esmonde
February 15, 2017
Remembering you today as always Ian replete of neasdon. Xxx
May 27, 2016
May 25, 2016
Happy Birthday Ian. Today the temp. in New York will be 85 degrees and sunny. I shall venture uptown for a Cuban Coffee, a Danish danish (I don't need) and a walk in the cemetery where you're laid to rest. Today is also our May Board of Directors meeting at the Actors Federal Credit Union, where you were a volunteer for over 25 years. I plan on bending the Roberts Rules of Order a tad by bringing in a bottle of Johnny Walker Red to the meeting where Gil, Denise, Jeff, Paul, Jay, Gena, Mel, Stephen B., Steven G., Chuck, Milena, Sandra, Uriel and I will toast your memory. "Tomorrow a stranger will say with masterly good sense precisely what we have thought and felt all the time, and we shall be forced to take with shame our own opinion from another." Ralph Waldo Emerson. It is only fair that Ian and Waldo share the same Birth Day. May you rest in peace my friend Happy Birthday Ian. Love, Bill
May 24, 2016
Stephanie, contact me at :[email protected].
Remember we were at New Harmony one summer? Alex and I have not been in contact for some time, but I believe I still have her phone number and perhaps an email address.
Susan pellegrino
Stephanie
May 24, 2016
Does anyone know how Ian's wife Alex is, and where? I never heard anything since Ian passed. Precious, dazzling Ian, a light and spark to all who knew him, what a joy.
Gina Esmonde
May 23, 2016
Remembering you especially 25th and thanking you for all the
fun and love. Still laugh at the smashed glass door incident.
Much love as always. Besos Gina
February 21, 2016
Gina Esmonde
February 15, 2016
Hello Ian. Thinking of you as always and remembering the fun you jJohn and I had, hoping you are both still having fun as promised much as besos Gina x
Your friend Bill
Bill Gilinsky
May 31, 2015
This year, on the 25th of May, I decided to visit Ian in the Cemetery where he's laid to rest, & personally wish him a Happy Birthday. It doesn't get easier, does it. Actually it becomes more difficult and I say this in the most selfish of ways. We all miss Ian in different ways and for different reasons, but the one thing Ian was to all of us was honest. He was truly an honest man. I miss that most of all. From compliments to criticisms to hard love suggestions (which we didn't really know if they were compliments or criticisms), but we knew they were honest. I miss Ian, honestly! PS: Ian once asked me to lose 20-30 pounds so I would be around for another 10 years. I finally took your advice my friend. I'm down 23 pounds and counting. Don't worry Ian, I'll be around another 10 years if only to keep your memory alive. You're the brother I never had. The friend I didn't deserve and the role model for so many of us who watched and listened and learned. Your friend, Bill
May 30, 2015
Correct Birthday wishes from Gina, La Herradura, Granada Spain,,,,,Still thinking of you after your birthday, besos, Granada, Spain NOT Kansas
May 29, 2015
Love to you and your beloved "A" at the time of year, your birthday.
Gina Esmonde
May 20, 2015
Ian will be thinking of you on the 25 th your birthday.
Besos Gina
February 24, 2015
For times remembered and your fast-paced clever quips that always cracked me up! Love to you and your beloved "A"
Kj
February 22, 2015
February 22, 2015
It is Feb. 22,2015 and the anniversary of Ian Stuart has come and gone. The anniversary of Ian's death is the 17th of Feb. and each year I recall where and what I was doing when I received the call from Alex that Ian was no longer alive. I know that it's the privilege of everyone on this earth to remember those who have added so much to our lives and so much to the world. It is for that reason I remind everyone that Ian Stuart's memory is still alive and that his all too short length of time on earth is remembered with a smile and a tear by so many of his friends and relatives that loved him so much. Bill
Gina Esmonde
February 21, 2015
Remembering 17th of February and hoping you are
happy in your new life
Love Gina xxx
Bill Gilinsky
August 18, 2014
It's August 18th in New York City. A beautiful day outside. I'm in town, not on tour, and Ian and I should be having lunch at Big Nicks Burger and Pizza. I should be listening to his advice of how I should be losing more weight and how he doesn't want to lose me as a friend because of a heart attack I could easily avoid just by dropping a few extra pounds. I miss you Ian. Your friendship, your advice, your caring nature and your huge ego. August 18th, sitting at Big Nicks's thinking about Ian. I think about you all the time. Love, Bill (losing pounds and making you proud my friend)
June 7, 2014
I miss you Ian. A void that can never be filled. Thanks for the years we were friends and thanks for introducing me to Alexandra. The two of you were the highlight of my New York Experience for so many years. I can only say thank you. Love, Bill
Beth Banks
June 5, 2014
Ian never forgot my Gemini birthday, but I missed his, this year. What a joy to the world that he was born, and lived to enlighten the lives of everyone he touched. He was the eiptome of great friendship and unconditional love.
As with all who knew him, his influence will live with me for my lifetime.
My best to you, Alexandra, knowing that his influence gives you strength, and inspires you to continue as he hoped for you to do.
Paul Schoeffler
June 4, 2014
Thinking about Ian a year after his passing. In addition to Ian passing I lost my best friend last year. Take nothing for granted and express gratitude for all those who have passed through your life and affected you in a positive way. Namaste Ian. Thought and prayers are with you and Alex
Gina Esmonde
June 4, 2014
Sorry forgot 25th May birthday
Besos Gina
June 3, 2014
Happy Birthday, Ian
March 21, 2014
Alex, I shall never forget Ian, even though the anniversary of his death has come and gone. He lives on in so many of our hearts and souls. He reminds us of what a true friend is and that the responsibility of being that friend doesn't end with the passing of their life. In Judaism, "life after death" is often defined as "remembering the person after they have passed on". If that is true than Ian is alive and well, just on a plain that I can't define. His memory is alive in my mind and heart and his deeds live on in my memory and my soul. God Bless Ian and God Bless the love of his life, Alex. I miss him so much it hurts. I will say a prayer for Ian. He loved so many and was loved by them all. With love to Alex. Bill G.
February 6, 2014
For the 17th February am remembering you today
Besos gina
Kj Rink
January 16, 2014
Thinking of you, Alex, and your Beloved Pal, Ian. Much love and many blessings.
Marcia Bennett
September 24, 2013
Alex, my heart goes out to you on the loss of your dear, beloved Ian. Just opened the SAG-AFTRA magazine to see this sad, awful news. Could we but turn back time... My deepest condolences to you. Much love, Marcia
Jeffries Thaiss
August 26, 2013
Ms. O'Karma, I just read the news. I'm so sorry. I first saw Ian brilliantly play the father in "The Homecoming" in 2001 at the Olney, and then I was lucky enough to have him play my father, if you remember, in "Holiday". I loved our long nights of stories, Celebrity, Cribbage, and the occasional libation. I'm sorry I fell out of touch with him. Such an excellent actor, man, friend.
Stephanie Zimbalist
June 17, 2013
Dearest Alex,
I feel like such a fool...I zipped Ian an e-mail a couple of weeks ago saying I was coming into NYC for a few days, I didn't hear back, which wasn't like him, but I was scurrying around the city, and I'd just buried my sister in CT. Just now I happened to glance at the "Final Curtain" list on the back page of the June 2013 Equity News - and gasped. My heart is SO heavy with this unbelievable news, Alex, I am devastated. Ian was IT. He was a gentleman and a scholar if ever there were one, a man of old cloth, and no one knew this better than you. I wish I'd known, my darling, I would surely have attempted to see you, if you're still in New York. Know that my heart will always hold a special place for this incredible soul [for interested parties, we met when Ian played my father in "The Philadelphia Story" at the Cleveland Playhouse, 1992/93].
My deepest condolences, letter to come, and my love always,
Stephanie
June 16, 2013
Susan Pellegrino
June 16, 2013
Dear Alex,
I just read my Equity News and saw Ian's name---- dear,dear Alex I am so sorry for your loss.
I have thought of you so often in the past several years and although I didn't really know Ian, I knew what you meant to him and the commitment you both made to each other.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Susan Pellegrino
Cynthia Carle
June 15, 2013
Toured with him, drank with him, played Risk all night with him. "Guess I have to conquer bleeding South America again, haven't I?" I'm glad to have known him and sorry to learn he's left us.
elizabeth dennehy
June 14, 2013
Our revels now are ended. These our actors,
As I foretold you, were all spirits and
Are melted into air, into thin air:
And, like the baseless fabric of this vision,
The cloud-capp'd towers, the gorgeous palaces,
The solemn temples, the great globe itself,
Yea, all which it inherit, shall dissolve
And, like this insubstantial pageant faded,
Leave not a rack behind. We are such stuff
As dreams are made on, and our little life
Is rounded with a sleep.
William Shakespeare
From The Tempest, Act 4 Scene 1
Herb DuVal
Herb DuVal
June 12, 2013
I only learned of Ian's death with this issue of Equity News. Ian gave me a tremendous opportunity to work with him at Sharon Playhouse. I got to do some of my favorite roles ever and had the benefit of doing them with Ian. I saw him once in the intervening years when he was on a tour of Twelve Angry Men in Cincinnati, where we no live. A great regret is that there wasn't more contact over the years. a true mensch and a great actor. Love, from Herb DuVal
Gina Esmonde
May 25, 2013
Happy birthday Ian
Besos Gina xxx
Bill Gilinsky
May 22, 2013
My name is Bill Gilinsky. Yes, I consider Ian Stuart to be my best friend, the brother I never had, the person I most admired, not only as a mensch, but as an actor and friend. He never gave up on the people he loved. He always had the highest standards but accepted those who weren't quite as disciplined. I can't say enough about the man who let me win tennis games so I would feel superior, if for only a few minutes. I turned to Ian for help writing eulogies for my friends and loved ones, and now I'm writing one for him. Where is Ian when you need him? I'm sure he's in heaven having a neat Johnnie Walker Red. I miss him so much. He remains my best friend. He's physically gone but lives on in my heart and my thoughts. God bless you Ian Stuart. You are my hero!
donna sorbello
May 19, 2013
Alex, I am still shocked,not quite believing this event. You know Ian and I were long-time friends. In a somewhat transient life as actors have, it's so special to somehow emerge consistent friends after a show ends. I TREASURE my last visits with him this past year and of course, all my visits with him. ANd with you,though fewer. Ian was truly a man of wit and the kind of grace towards others, that is rarely shown now. HIs remembrances and regards to friends was a gift to us. I'll so miss coming to the city and meeting him for a drink or a coffee and hearing that resonant voice of his. You have always been a great complement to each other. Love Donna
In celebration of your lives together.
May 3, 2013
Beth Banks
March 20, 2013
Forever in our minds and hearts.
Beth Banks
March 18, 2013
Ian played an important role in my life when he was the Best Man at my Wedding in 1966, and remained a caring, thoughtful, dear friend. My first remark upon hearing of his passing, was that this is now a darker world without that great light he provided to all who knew him. Rest well, my dear man.
Sean Keating
March 17, 2013
Ian was a dear friend to my family and colleague of my father's, although I feel I got to know him best during our production of Romeo and Juliet for Riverside. He was a consummate performer and a true gentleman. Our deepest sympathies, Alexandra; he is sorely missed.
F. Paul Driscoll
March 17, 2013
Dear Alexandra: I met Ian in Riverside Shakespeare's production of Romeo and Juliet in 1990. He was a consummate professional, a terrific artist and a dear man. I feel privileged to have known him and to have worked with him.
Linda Mangino
March 7, 2013
Just minutes before I heard of Dearest Ian's passing, I found some old photos of our time at "Once Upon A Stage" in Orlando, Florida...as well as his performance as King Arthur..."In short, there's simply not / a more congenial spot / for happily ever aftering than here in Camelot." My love and prayers are with you Alexandra.
Chuck Tooley
March 6, 2013
Dear Alex,
I came back from Vietnam in 1972 and helped my old friend Tony Mendez build and operate Once Upon A Stage in Orlando. We hired Anthony Ian Stuart to act in "Poor Richard", kept him on to do Elyot in "Private Lives" and then he was hired to replace the departing general manager of the theater. Ian helped me when I was experiencing serious PTSD and we became good friends. I haven't seen Ian since he left Orlando in 1973, though we did correspond for a while afterward. I read about St. Ignatius College yesterday and thought I'd try to get in touch with one of her more distinguished alumni. I'm so sorry my Google search revealed this very sad news. Those who have signed this guest book have already cited many of Ian's wonderful qualities and I second them all. Most important to me, though, is that Ian was a good friend at a time when I needed it most. My deepest sympathies to you, Alex.
www.chucktooley.com
Paul schoeffler
March 2, 2013
Alex...
I am so very very sorry for the passing of Ian. He gave me my first professional job in theatre in 'Betrayal' at the Boston Post Road Stage Company in 1986. I looked up to him on many levels. He was smart, informed, helpful, supportive, gentle, very funny and insightful. I feel badly that I didn't keep up with him over the years but he had a profound impact on my life and gave me confidence that I could do well in this crazy world. He was a great guy. I just doesn't seem real. Please accept my deepest sympathies and know that I will only have the warmest feelings toward Ian and will keep him in my thoughts and prayers as I will you.
With much love.
PAUL
February 27, 2013
I first knew Ian when my husband John and He worked for Robert Maxwell as sub editors in the '50's in Fitzroy Square, London. I consider him to have been our closest friend for almost 60 years. I remember him sleeping on our sitting room floor in the 1960's.....so much fun. lots of things changed in all of our lives but we always
had such great times together. I hope he is having fun with John now.
Ian, you are a bugger and so are we, let's hope that the future will
permit us to have many fun times together again, muchos besos,
Gina xx
Sheldon Lubliner
February 27, 2013
My dearest Alex,
I was so saddened to learn of Ian's passing. As you know, Ian was not only a great friend with whom I spent many a social occasion as well as business,
but also has the distinction that will never be duplicated of being the longest Professional Artists client spanning over three decades.
Please know that you can always reach out for any assistance you may need.
With much love,
Sheldon
Jay Aubrey Jones
February 24, 2013
I was quite saddened to learn of Ian's passing. He taught me what it meant to be a professional in the theatre. Ms. O'Karma, please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Annie Newhall
February 23, 2013
A grand fellow. Loyal, steadfast and true beyond compare, fiercely loyal to his friends, a wag, a wit, a storyteller rich in anecdote relating tales oft repeated...known to relieve his friends of the page on which the London Times Crossword was printed in their papers...while they were reading their papers. He penned keenly observed and deeply impassioned letters to the Editor (NY Times) on a wide range of subjects. He utterly loved this country. And he had opinions. A player of parts, a player of poker, a preparer of taxes, a professor of history - any time, any period. Ian defined the word 'friend' for so many of us. And he simply burst with pride when introducing us to the dream of his life - the fine, so very talented and lovely Alex.
Fare thee well, true gentleman and very dear Friend.
Ian Stewart as King Arthur
Ed George
February 22, 2013
John McCollum
February 22, 2013
Ian, this is so out of character. Are you sure this is in the script? Alexandra, we grieve with you.
Deborah Fezelle
February 21, 2013
Ian was a vibrant part of my life for almost 10 years. Am saddened to hear of his passing.
Marilynn Scott Murphy
February 20, 2013
Dearest Alex,
I was in California when I heard about Ian's passing. My heart goes out to you . My heart also holds a special place for Ian. He shall truly missed.
With love,
Marilynn Scott Murphy
Elizabeth George
February 20, 2013
Dear Ian, you shall always be King Arthur to me. With love from your queen.
Ed George
February 20, 2013
Was so sad to hear of my old friend's departure. We performed together, played poker together and did taxes together. We were together the night of John Lennon's assassination, and while we lost touch over the years, I still remember him with the greatest of fondness. I learned many, many things from Ian and I shall keep them, along with my thoughts of him, in my heart always.
Alex, my deepest condolences.
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