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INGE STAFFORD Obituary

STAFFORD--Dr. Inge Paul. Dr. Inge Paul Stafford, 76, of Essex Fells, NJ, died peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on Monday, April 23, 2012. A funeral service will be held on Friday, April 27, 2012, at 11am in the First Presbyterian Church at Caldwell, NJ. Interment will be private. Born in Frankfurt, Germany, Dr. Stafford lived in North Caldwell before moving to Essex Fells in 1976. A psychologist, Dr. Stafford had a private practice in Montclair for 18 years. Before practicing Dr. Stafford was a teacher in the Verona and West Essex School Systems. A Phi Beta Kappa graduate of Dickinson College of Carlisle, PA, she received a Masters of Teaching from Harvard University School of Education, a Masters in Counseling from Montclair State University, and an EdD in Psychology from Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ. She also received an Honorary Doctorate from Dickinson College. Inge served on the Board of Trustees of Dickinson College for 22 years and retired as a Trustee Emeritus, having served as Vice Chairman for several years. She was an ordained elder at the First Presbyterian Church at Caldwell. In addition to the great joy Inge took in spending time with her family, she was an avid gardener, with particular pride in her roses. She enjoyed boating with her husband, Jack, cruising the Atlantic seaboard from Maine to Florida, as well as traveling the world and reading. Surviving are her beloved husband of 52 years, Jack; devoted daughters, Carolyn Stein and her husband, Dr. Eric, Jennifer Farrow and her husband, John, Christina Chapin and her husband, Jason, and Charlotte Stafford; a brother, George Paul; 12 cherished grandchildren, and four adored great-grandchildren; also sisters-in-law Barbara Stafford, Susan Paul and Nancy Stafford and brother-in-law Gordon Stafford. In lieu of flowers, donations to the First Presbyterian Church at Caldwell, 326 Bloomfield Ave., Caldwell, NJ 07006 would be appreciated.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 26, 2012.

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Jerry Patterson

April 19, 2019

Inge Stafford was a wonderful person. She lived her live in such an exemplary way that she set the standard for the rest of us.

Judit Kapalin

May 22, 2012

Dear Jack -
I have known Inge since we were professional colleagues at Seton Hall University. After we both left the university, we kept up our friendship by phone calls, yearly lunches and holiday notes. I feel I know your family well through the joy-filled stories she related about your Florida vacations and boat trips. She has been such a good friend to me and many others who were blessed by life journeys intersecting with hers. She touched me deeply with her understanding and compassion. I will miss her greatly and my heart goes out to you and your beautiful family at this difficult time. I send my most sincere, heart-felt sympathy. Judit Kapalin

Susan Black

May 15, 2012

Dear Stafford Family, So very sorry to hear of your loss. Dr. Stafford has helped me thru some very difficult times in my life and I will always remember her . I often think of her and was heartbroken to hear she passed. She was a very kind, considerate and one of the sweetest people I have ever known. I wish I knew sooner I would have come to the service. Dr Stafford helped me be the person I am today; she would have been very proud of me. She will forever be in my heart. Susan Black

Katy Buermann

April 27, 2012

I grew up next to the Stafford's,they were a second family to me. So sad to hear about Mrs. Stafford's passing. Thinking for all of you. Katy

Michelle Guacci

April 26, 2012

Dr. Stafford affected my life so dramatically, I will never forget her. Suffering from anxiety after putting my career on hold and the birth of my first child, I was blessed enough to have been guided to her office. I looked so forward to my time with her...I will never forget her words to me the first time I met her. She hugged me and said "Don't worry...everything will be okay". And I believed her. She was the kindest, most generous and intelligent woman I have ever known. I offer you my most sincere sympathy at your loss. I feel so lucky to have known her...and will keep her and your family in my prayers.

Kindest Regards,
Michelle Guacci

April 26, 2012

Inge Stafford was one of the most wonderful and considerate people I have ever known. No one could match her combination of talent, caring for others, accomplishments, superb personality, and wonferful rapport she had with everyone she came in contact with. She will be missed and will leave us all the poorer with her passing.
Jerry Patterson

April 25, 2012

Dear Jack, so very sorry to hear about your wife. I knew she had been ill,but hoped I would be hearing about her recovery.

Very disappointed we never got to know her. She sounds like a wonderful person.

We will remember you and her in our prayers.

Our sincerest regards, Jack and Brigitte McGrath

Marissa Hairston

April 25, 2012

I give my condolences to the family duuring this difficult time.Draw close to God, and he will help and comfort you and your family.

April 25, 2012

Jack, Just a word of condolence from an acquaintance at the Sanctuary. I am sorry for your loss. If there is any comfort it has to come from knowing she is with her eternal father and no more pain and suffering!
Sincerely,
Ken Trudell

Frank De Gennaro

April 25, 2012

God bless her, may she rest in peace! To the stafford family my condolences. She helped me very much in my life!!
Frank De Gennaro

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