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McCALL--James Wilson James Wilson McCall, of Hillsborough, California, on July 13, 2012, after a courageous struggle with cancer. Jim was the beloved husband of Jennifer Jordan McCall; devoted father of Peter Lewis Livingston McCall and Andrew James McCall; stepfather of Caroline Debevoise Clark and Hillary Sage Clark; son of Lewis Livingston McCall, Jr. and Dixann Wilson McCall; and brother of Mary Margaret McCall. Jim was knowledgeable in many subjects from sports, to history, politics, photography, music and Formula 1 racing. Jim was an avid reader, particularly of American history and international relations. Jim was always fun to be with. An entertaining conversationalist, Jim's wit and humor will be deeply missed. His family and friends admired him greatly for his insight and sensitivity, and for his thoughtfulness, modesty and courage. Jim set an example with his intellectual curiosity, dynamic yet gentlemanly manner and high moral character. He was a trusted advisor to many, and a loyal friend. Jim especially enjoyed advising his four children, and was proud that all four of them attended Princeton University. Jim took special pride in his sons and their accomplishments, both in sports and academics. Born in Norman, Oklahoma March 10, 1953, Jim graduated from the University of Oklahoma in 1974 with a B.A. in Letters with Honors, in History, Philosophy and English. Jim completed his undergraduate degree in five semesters, was a member of Phi Beta Kappa and was a Rhodes Scholar nominee from the State of Oklahoma. Jim earned a J.D. from the University of Oklahoma in 1977, where he was a member of the Law Review. In 1974 Jim attended Oxford University as a Scholarship Resident at University College in Economics. Jim earned his M.B.A. in 1984 from Harvard Business School and served as a member of the Faculty Judicial Review Board. Jim's work experience included McKinsey, Goldman Sachs and Security Pacific/Bank of America Venture Capital Group. Jim joined Intel Corporation in Santa Clara, California in 1997 where he remained to the present. He became an Assistant Treasurer for Mergers, Acquisitions & Strategic Investments and Managing Director, Digital Enterprise and Digital Home for Intel Capital Corporation, the venture capital arm of Intel. Jim was a talented athlete and sports enthusiast throughout his life. As a thirteen-year-old, Jim shot even par in a golf tournament; in high school he played football, golf and ran track, holding the State of Oklahoma record for the 220- and 440-yard dash. At the University of Oklahoma Jim played golf and followed professional baseball. Jim's love of golf stayed with him throughout his life. Jim was a member of the San Francisco Golf Club and Burlingame Country Club, San Francisco, the Merion Golf Club, Ardmore, Pennsylvania and The Creek Club, Locust Valley, New York. Jim's family and friends loved to play golf with him, not only because of his entertaining and friendly manner, but also because of his shot-making finesse. Jim gently offered tips to those who requested them, and was always a patient teacher. Jim was keenly devoted to his family and to the memory of his predecessors. Jim was a proud member of The Society of the Cincinnati, whose members are descendants of the Officers who served in General George Washington's Revolutionary Army. He belonged to The Society of Colonial Wars, The General Society Sons of the American Revolution, The Order of St. John of Jerusalem, the General Society of the War of 1812, the Order of Indian Wars of the United States, and the Aztec Club of 1847 - Military Society of the Mexican War. Jim's warmth, enthusiasm, and intellect will be greatly missed. A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, July 17, 2012 at 4:00 p.m. at First Presbyterian Church of Burlingame, 1500 Easton Drive, Burlingame, CA 94010. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Cancer Center, Stanford University Medical Center, 875 Blake Wilbur Drive, Stanford, CA 94305, ATTN: Dr. Sandy Srinivas for research in kidney cancer.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 15, 2012.

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Peter

June 22, 2020

Thinking about you a lot on father's day this year. Love you and miss you. You have a granddaughter now! I'm sorry that you can't meet her, but she is wonderful and we're telling her all about you.

Kevin Scott

August 2, 2012

Jim, I miss you. We had such a great friendship that spanned Goldman Sachs in New York, house hunting with you in the Bay area and fun in Southern Caifornia. My condolences go out to the the McCall family. Andrew and Peter, please know that you can call on me at anytime (213-926-2626, [email protected]) In closing, Jim and I would periodically have an anchor steam. Jim, I am raising a "Pint of Steam" in your honor.

July 31, 2012

My prayers for all the family. From Margarita Scatori Wilson. a friend of Dixann and Lew.

pamela stevenson

July 27, 2012

Pamela and Larry Stevenson of Toronto deeply grieve the loss of this tremendous friend and gentle soul, known and loved since the Fall of 1982 at HBS. Always a smile and a humorous word--you will be very missed. Pamela and Larry

Steven Burner

July 21, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I am a high school classmate, and remember Jim as a gentle and kind individual with a great sense of humor and a generous spirit. Make God comfort you in grieving his passing, and encourage you in remembering his life and accomplishments.

Susan Reinhart

July 21, 2012

I am so very saddened to hear of Jim's passing. I was lucky enough to work with him at Goldman Sachs for three years. We shared neighboring cubicles, worked very long days together and shared many dinners and laughs. I really appreciated his intellect, his warmth and his incredible sense of humor. My thoughts are with you and the rest of his extended family. Much love, Susan Matthews Reinhart

Roy McCall

July 19, 2012

Deep condolences from the Roy K McCall family in Beijing
We miss him greatly

Steve Martin

July 17, 2012

Dear family, as a former family friend and classmate of Jim's (from McKinley Elementary School through the University of Oklahoma) I extend the deepest condolences of our entire family to you all. Though Jim and I had not maintained any kind of relationship over the years, I always respected and admired him for many of the qualities mentioned in his lovely obituary. I am very sad to learn of his passing. May God comfort you in your great loss!

Nancy Mac

July 17, 2012

May the love of friends and family guide you through your grief

July 17, 2012

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Schreiber's

July 16, 2012

Mary, Jay, Jack & Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Jim was an accomplished man who had a wonderful life. It was a pleasure reading about his character and courage as a man who set examples for others. Our thoughts are also with Lewis and Dixann as they bury their son. A task no parents should ever have to do. We send special love to you all,
Carrie and Paul Ferry & Family

Bruce Leaverton

July 16, 2012

Jim and I became close friends in high school but lost touch as the years and distances intervened. I am sorry that happened.

I think Jim must have been born an old soul. In high school, he was an early bloomer and so far ahead of us developmentally. we all looked up to him and admired (and imitated, at least in my case) his precocious, easy sophistication. There was not a lot of that around Norman, Oklahoma in those days!

Even as a 16 or 17 year old kid, Jim loved exploring new ideas and new experiences. He loved debates and competitions and had a scholarly inquisitiveness even then that made it no surprise he would later polish off college in record time. Years before that achievement was reached, we took to calling him "Dr. X."

He explored and grew to love opera and photography and many other endeavors. He was voracious and in 1972 or 73, he convinced me we should drive in the summer heat to Sante Fe and see La Boheme under the stars in the outdoor opera facility they have there. He took a picture of me in Monument Valley he developed in a dark, black and white exposure with heavy conrtrasts. My mother still proudly displays this framed photo at her home in Norman.

Jim loved the psychology of competition and achievement. I remember debates about whether golf and chess were just mental "games" or whether the physical demands of their mastery entitled Boris Spasky or Arnold Palmer to be considered "athletes" of a kind.

He had a deadpan humor that was infectious and led to extended riffs on themes. I remember one such conversation that started with his wry observatioin that "you know, Bruce, occasionally the big talented guy will win out over the scrappy little guy."

We played touch football, chess torunaments, golf "invitiational" tournaments--you name it. He was fiercely competitive then but at the same time, a quiet, considerate, gentlemanly and refined boy-man. He was not stuffy. He had a cultivated sense of fun and groups of us coalesced around him, we came to him (usually at his place on Crest Drive) and just hung out and laughed...I still find myself imitating some of the subtle wry converstational strategies he used to make us laugh.

I have taken up golf in later life and regret I never was able to play the game with Jim. I was in the gallery and watched him shoot that amazing round of golf at the South Base Golf Course in Norman. Only now, after taking up the game myself, do I understand that achievement and how well-suited Jim's unique skills and temperment were to his early mastery of this diabolical game: perserverance, calm rectitude, focus, self-deprecation, generosity of spirit, finesse,patience, self-confidence, but above all, a sense of fun, a sense of humor...because it is afterall, like life itself, a game.
I think one's friends from childhood leave an indelible mark on you and Jim certainly did on me. I will miss him but am grateful for having known him as well as I did.

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July 16, 2012

Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time.

Spencer Stuart

July 16, 2012

our thoughts and prayers are with you, Peter and Andrew.

Meg Shea-Chiles and Jeff Hayman

Eugene Covington

July 16, 2012

I will miss Jim. He and I won a golf tournament together long ago and played tennis together. I always enjoyed being with him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lindsay Bates

July 16, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Donna and Lindsay Bates
(Parents of Coach)

Steve mclin

July 15, 2012

One of the Great Guys

Sue Adair-Thrift

July 15, 2012

Some of my favorite memories of Jim were when (back in the day) we would decide to have a poker night. We would go downtown to McCall's Men's Store (which at the time rented tuxes), & everyone would get a tux to dress up in. We served chocolate chip cookie dough on silver platters, and played late into the night. We always played dealer's choice (this was waaaay before Texas hold 'em), so we learned many esoteric variations on the game, some of which were very funny -- to us! It was nickel, dime, quarter--just for fun. Whenever that group got together, it was laughing all night long, & Jim was one of the biggest instigators. Godspeed, Jim!

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