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MERCER DISTLER Obituary

DISTLER--Mercer David, Attorney (Harvard, 1958), longtime member of City Club, board member and advocate for Greenmarket. Predeceased by his beloved wife, Betsy. Missed by sons Daniel and Josh, his three granddaughters, his sister Amy, and wife Adele. Services December 30, 2:30pm, Plaza Community Chapel.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 29, 2012.

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Ellen & Newt Meiselman

December 23, 2022

62 years ago, Dave gave his friend my telephone number. We just celebrated our 61st anniversary. Knowing Dave he would have asked us now,
"Did the blind date work?" And then laughed!!

Newton & Ellen Meiselman

December 23, 2020

We knew Mercer as Dave. It goes back to Hempstead when we were kids!
When we think of Dave we remember a wonderful funny guy. His hearty laugh that went well with his personality.
Believe it or not, we still can hear his laugh!
Ellen & Newt Meiselman

Lisa Armiento

January 4, 2013

My condolences to you all. David was one of a kind. When he called our office he would say "Mr. Baller" to which I replied "Mr. Distler", he then said "Lisa how are you...it amazes me that you always recognize my voice". Rest in peace dear sir, I shall miss recognizing your voice on the other end of the phone.

December 31, 2012

Long time friends. We'll miss David and send our condolences to his family.
Gail and Michael Goldstein

December 30, 2012

We are sadden at the passing of a good friend and a great man, David Distler.He will live in our hearts forever.
- Barbara Eber-Schmid
- Robert Schmjid

Ellen Meiselman

December 29, 2012

My husband and I are so sad to have read about your dad. Your dad was a friend of my brother, Shelly Bloom, and my brother-in-law, Irwin. It was your dad who introduced me 51 years ago to my husband, Newt. Fortunately we did get to see your dad at a dinner party last summer at the Goldsteins and then again in NYC. I loved your dad and will always think of him, lovingly. He was probably one of the funniest guys with quirky humor. I'm only sorry that we didn't get to see him more often!

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