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WALTER FELDESMAN Obituary

FELDESMAN--Walter, noted lawyer and author, 95, died on Saturday, June 22, 2013, at his Manhattan home. He attended New York University (1937) and Harvard Law School (1940). At 23, he received the Medal of Army Accommodation from the Secretary of War for a supply plan adopted by all military branches. After his own law firm, he partnered with Summit Rovins & Feldesman, then retired from Brown Raysman Millstein Felder & Steiner. He worked in many areas of law, later specializing in pro bono Elder Law. He gifted Medicare with their first dictionary of terms, releasing in April his 707-page Dictionary of Eldercare Terminology, 3rd edition, the only text of its kind used by Medicare and lay people. In 1983, The New York Times named him among six lawyers to sit on the most public boards. Accomplishments: Board Member for Sterling Bancorp until age 90 and E.G. Bowman Co. to his death; first Lawyer of the Year awardee from National Conference of Christians and Jews; Trustee of Beth Israel Hospital; Founder of Albert Einstein College of Medicine, Yeshiva University; member Fenway Country Club and Friar's Club. His wife of 58 years, Lucille Abramson Feldesman, predeceased him in 2000. He is survived by children: Alyn and Steven Dauman, Manhattan; Jan Rudicoff, (widow of Michael) Boca Raton; Jill and James Feldesman, Rye Brook; and grandchildren Robert, Jonathan, Richard, Jared, Jennie and Jessica.

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Published by New York Times from Jun. 23 to Jun. 24, 2013.

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Sol Zambrano

July 18, 2013

I allready miss you so much!! We will always love u honey!

Jeffrey Volk

June 29, 2013

Jenny, Susan and I extend our condolences to the entire Feldesman family. Walter and Lucille were lifelong friends of our parents and the many good times we shared as young adults at Fenway will remain in our hearts. Jeff Volk

June 25, 2013

I'm sorry to read about your loss. Draw close to God in prayer, especially during this difficult time. (1 Peter 5:6,7)

June 25, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I know losing a loved one is hard to go through. May you draw close to God at this time.

M. Joseph

June 25, 2013

My condolences to the family and friends of Mr. Feldesman. May you draw close to the hearer of prayer during this difficult time. Psalm 65:2

June 24, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Please find peace and comfort in knowing God cares for you and will help in your time of need. 1 Pet. 5:7

Cheryl

June 24, 2013

Sorry for your lost. May the family find comfort in God's word the Bible. 2 Timothy 3:16

Theresa and Peter Rey

June 24, 2013

Our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of a true "gentle man". We were honored to have called Walter a friend and will cherish the memory of our times together.

June 24, 2013

Our "Grandpa Wally" was a shining light in the family, our family "lighthouse" who helped us navigate out of many a rough water. More than that, though, he was our inspiration and he kept up our faith and hope, as he gave new meaning to the words hard work, dedication and perseverance. It is a proud achievement – and no surprise – that Grandpa was able to finish the 3rd volume of his Magnum opus, his "Dictionary of Eldercare Terminology," at the age of 95! Each moment spent with our Grandfather was precious and you never knew what to expect; indeed, it was like opening up an oyster and wondering if there was going to be a pearl – or a diamond! He will be missed but his light will still shine as a beacon guiding our family – and we will follow.

Love,
Robert and Jonathan, his grandchildren

Don Carter

June 23, 2013

My condolences to the Feldesman family on the loss of dear Walter. When I was still young in the business of Wall Street, Walter and his partner Justin hired me, even though I was a relatively unknown. I loved being around Walter because he carried himself like the royalty he was. A step into his office and you knew he was the legal brain right out of central casting. I always got a kick out of visiting him and never left him without having a deeper respect for his ability. Rest in peace, Walter, you've earned it.

Leslie Modell

June 23, 2013

Walter was an extraordinary man whose brilliance , kindness .patience and kindness could not be compared. He was a class act and had the ability to make you laugh in the midst of chaos. His character or integrity couldn't be compromised
You are one of the few attorneys who gave your profession a good reputation My sincere condolences to his family and hopefully all the memories of your wonderful father will help support you during this difficult time.
I will always love and miss you. Rest in Peace.
Blessings,
Leslie Modell , Shelby and Shawn Modell

James Firman

June 23, 2013

The leadership of the National Council on Aging (NCOA) mourns the passing of Walter Feldesman, age 95, who was the first recipient of NCOA's Vital Aging award. He was an exemplar and an inspiration for all of us about how we can keep making important contributions to the lives of others well into our 80's and 90's. His Dictionary of Eldercare Terminology was and still is a groundbreaking opus. Walter was our friend and he will be missed. We are proud to carry on his commitment and his work on behalf of vulnerable and disadvantaged older adults.

June 23, 2013

What an extraordinary man Walter was. He lived a long, good life, and will be missed by many. Our love to you all.
-lyn and alexander

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