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NINA ENGEL Obituary

ENGEL--Nina Phillips, died peacefully at the age of 100 on Thanksgiving, November 27th, also the birthday of her late husband Louis Engel. The daughter of Dr. John C. Phillips of Boston and Eleanor Hyde Phillips of Bath ME, Nina was born on August 21, 1914, the month made famous by "The Guns of August" at the beginning of World War I. A descendant of a distinguished Boston family, Nina was the quintessential grande dame, but one with as much substance as style. She graduated from St. Timothy's School in Stevenson MD and studied at the Sorbonne and Sarah Lawrence before her first marriage, in 1937, to Stanley Washburn, Jr., an airline pilot. They had three children, Nancy, Nina and Stanley, III ("Brodie"). Nancy, of Gymea Bay, NSW, Australia and Brodie, of Eugene, OR survive her as do four grandchildren and two great grandchildren. She also leaves three stepsons, James (Tucumcari, NM), Thomas (New York City) and Jonathan Engel (Austin, TX). Nina returned to Sarah Lawrence in her 70s to gain her Bachelor's degree in sociology and three years later, at the age of 79, was awarded her Master's degree, also from Sarah Lawrence, in health advocacy. Active in public health her entire adult life she worked in patient screening and advocacy at many hospitals and community organizations, including St. Luke's-Roosevelt, Phelps Memorial Hospital, Westchester County Medical Center, the Ossining Drug Addiction Center and the Ossining Open Door Family Medical Center. Her long life will often be recalled by those she served for her energy in addressing the urgent public health issues of her time and her devotion to the many patients who were lucky enough to come her way. And to her family, her many younger friends and those who knew her best she will be remembered for her steady enthusiasm and sense of fun and for an elegance, ebullience and charm that will outlive her for many, many years. A memorial service will be held at St. Mary's Episcopal Church in Scarborough NY at a date yet uncertain in the early part of next year. Contributions in Nina's memory may be made to the Open Door Family Medical Center, 165 Main Street, Ossining, NY 10562.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 2, 2014.

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Carolyn Lane VanNess

December 9, 2014

Nina will always embody for me, the gracious persona of an earlier era. She truly did things with verve, with that kind of spirit & enthusiasm that makes the world a better place. I will always remain grateful for the wonderful ways our lives became intertwined.

Phoebe Lindsay

December 7, 2014

Nina was my "Nana" and, as with Robin and Sarah, a friend and always such good company. I have so many fond memories of our times together and the laughs to go along with. I will miss her and am so grateful she was part of my life.

December 5, 2014

Nina, my friend of many years, I miss you. We had a wonderful time celebrating our August birthdays together, and I remember the time we did it by riding on a Ferris wheel, when you were about 80 and I was about 70. We sailed up the Hudson one time, and we had many dinners together, many long chats, fun at your swimming pool, and much much more. I was lucky to have you as a friend. Sadly, Betsy

Robin Godfrey

December 3, 2014

Nina Engel: August 21st, 1914-Thanksgiving, 2014.
My grandmother and pal, Nina Engel said on her 100th birthday, "I'm ok being 100, but I do not want to live to 101." She passed away on Thanksgiving, and on her late husband Louis's birthday in her own bed, aged 100.

Thanks, Mama, for being there for me in so many ways. I love you so much, and am truly lucky to have had you as a grandmother, and as one of my best friends. My sisters and I agree that time with you could feel like visiting an oasis. My life has been so wonderful, and yet these little spells of time with you add much peace, humour and luxury to my memory bank.

Sarah Washburn

December 2, 2014

I will always remember your cheer, enthusiasm, remarkable stories, and the incredible legacy you built to benefit others. And at home you had extra energy to make all our family gatherings special and so memorable that you will live on in us forever. Thank you. Love you and miss you Nana.

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