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Richard Backderf Obituary

Richard H. Backderf, passed away peacefully on July 3, his birthday, he was 84.

Richard was the only child of a B.F. Goodrich plant manager and a career stenographer. He grew up on W. Long St., in the middle-class neighborhood just north of the Firestone plant. His childhood was a happy one and several of his boyhood chums remained lifelong friends. He inherited his mother's brains and his father's drive, and flourished academically at South High School. He graduated in 1945. A boyhood chemistry set (still in the family) set him on a career path.

He joined the Navy and served aboard the U.S.S. Arkansas in the Pacific during the last months of World War II. ``I wasn't much of a sailor,' he said. But he never forgot his sailor's knots and never missed an ``Arky' reunion. After the war, he attended Akron U on the G.I. Bill. He majored in chemistry and quickly stood out as a brilliant student.

In 1948, he met Mary Anne, a pretty South High senior, at a youth group meeting at the Wooster Ave. Methodist Church. They soon became inseparable. Richard always needled her that he saved her from ``life as an old maid.' Quiet and brainy, Richard was a man of few words, but had a dry wit and loved to tease. Mary Anne, on the other hand, was famously chatty and outgoing. Their mix of brains and personality was a seamless fit. They were the perfect couple.

He was well liked by his classmates and brothers at Phi Delta Theta. He graduated from Akron U in 1950 and he and Mary Anne were engaged. The following year, he went off to grad school at Ohio State University, the only time in their lives the couple would be parted. They were wed at St. John's Lutheran Church in downtown Akron on June 9, 1951. They spent the next four years in Columbus, while Richard studied for a master's and then a doctorate. The subject of his research earned him the nickname ``Fatty Acids' Backderf from colleagues. Upon graduation, B.F. Goodrich made him an offer he couldn't refuse and the couple moved back to Akron.

Richard worked at the B.F. Goodrich Research Lab in Brecksville for the next 36 years and attained the rank of senior chemist. He was awarded many patents during his career. The couple built a house in small-town Richfield in 1959. Their two sons came along shortly after.

He was a hack golfer and a decent bowler. He loved chopping wood and roaring winter fires. He taught himself German. He was the worst amateur barber ever, as his boys tragic, grade school pictures attest. He built a log cabin by hand, just for fun. He grew giant tomato plants and canned dozens of jars of wild strawberry and raspberry jam every Fall. Card games of all sorts were a favorite pastime. He was an avid bird watcher and no local avian went hungry with Richard's many feeders. He was famously mellow and never showed a hint of temper, although God help the son who misplaced one of his tools. Always a Depression kid, he never threw anything away that could be somehow re-used in one of his many domestic contraptions. He took the family to Florida every Christmas and to a lakeside lodge in Canada every summer. He was a pie fiend and his mother's sour cherry pie was his favorite, a recipe later mastered by his daughter-in-law, much to his delight.

He was a devoted son and a fine father, supporting and prodding his boys all the way to adulthood, even though neither inherited his scientific brain. He could only shake his head when John was forced to drop freshman Chemistry at Ohio State after a disastrous midterm exam.

Richard retired in 1992. He and Mary Anne spent winters on the ocean in Hilton Head. He enjoyed Saturday morning breakfasts with other Richfield dads and catching up on the news at the town barber shop. He and Mary Anne hiked and birded in the parks. In the summer, they resided in the family cottage on the Portage Lakes, where they entertained family and their many friends.

In June, he and Mary Anne celebrated their 60th anniversary.

He is survived by wife, Mary Anne; son, John (Sheryl Harris); grandchildren, Max and Chloe; and son, Eric (Diana Orendi).

``Rich' to his boyhood chums, ``Dick' to his friends and colleagues, always ``Richard' to his beloved wife, and ``Dad' and ``Grandpa' to those who carry on the Backderf name. He'll be greatly missed.

Services will be held 3 p.m., WEDNESDAY, at the Billow FAIRLAWN Chapel, 85 N. Miller Rd. Interment at Fairview Cemetery. Friends may call at the funeral home from 1 to 3 p.m. on Wednesday. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the American Red Cross.

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Published by Akron Beacon Journal from Jul. 4 to Jul. 5, 2011.

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Dave Anderson

July 14, 2011

We are all thinking of you during this difficult time.

Ricki Ethington

July 6, 2011

What a great obituary. It is obvious that he will be missed. Sorry for your loss,

Barb Nagel Rosene

July 6, 2011

I liked him so much. I picture he and Mary Anne and my parents playing pinochle in our kitchen. Lots of love to you.

Diane Lynch

July 5, 2011

Mrs. Backderf, Derf, Sheryl & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a fascinating man who had a wonderful life and you have memories to last a lifetime.

Tommie Wittmann

July 5, 2011

Eric, you and your family are in my prayers. May your memories be a support for you.

Bob and Chris Schlatzer

July 5, 2011

We are greatly saddened by Richard's passing. He was a wonderful friend. Please accept our sincere conolences.

Dee Burnison

July 5, 2011

My sincere condolences to Eric and his family on the recent passing of his Father. From a friend from APSI

Gavrilo Gnatovich

July 5, 2011

So sorry to hear, my best you and your family.

christopher reilly

July 5, 2011

My condolences, Derf. He sounded like a remarkable man.

The Staff of Billow Funeral Homes

July 5, 2011

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Donald Witenhafer

July 4, 2011

All though Dick only worked with me for a few years, I will always remember his simple but profound communication style. One day while we were walking on the beach in Florida, where we traveled on business, we were having a discussion about freedom. Dick said, "Always remember that society is never to restrictive for the orthodox," That thought has always been with me. Dick, God will love your style more than I do.

Kim & Keith Riew

July 4, 2011

Dear MaryAnn, John and Eric:

Ever since Richard has been ill, we have been in a great sadness for thinking of him and all of you.

We feel sad because such a sweet and gentle Richard is suffering. And yet, we are so frail and pathetic and could not help in any way for you and your family.

Kim and I have been continually praying for God to alleviate your pain and sorrow. However, we are sure and thank our Lord for His merciful hands and steadfast love must be upon you and your family in these days more than ever.

It is time when a time of difficulty, we pray that most precious to have God's gracious hands upon your spirit. God be with you and your family.

Grace and blessings

In Jesus,

Marvin Lehr

July 4, 2011

I am deeply saddened to read of Dick's passing, and my heart goes out to his family. Our association goes way back, further than I can remember and throughout our many years at BFGoodrich.

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