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Herman Gray Obituary

Herman D., 64, after a 2 year battle, he lost his fight with cancer Sunday, August 16, 2009 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Herman was born December 9, 1944 in Minco, Oklahoma to Aubry and Stella "Spence" Gray. Herman loved his family and playing with his grandkids. He enjoyed watching O.U. football and fishing. Herman was a truck driver for Triangle Express for 29 years. Herman is survived by his wife, Barbara; three sons, Herman Gray and his wife Dana of El Reno, OK, Shelby Gray and his wife Shannon of Grain Valley, MO, and Brian Gray of Blue Springs, MO; three daughters, Pamela Hyde and her husband Larry of Davenport, OK, Sheila McKenzie and her husband William of Ft. Drum, NY, Billie Seeman and husband Ronnie of New Year, AZ; two brothers, Dan Gray and his wife Margie of Midwest City, OK, and Hershall Gray and his wife Linda; three sisters, Nadine Musgrave, Wanda Statzer and Charlene Everhart; sixteen grandsons; six granddaughters; and six great-grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his parents and three brothers. Funeral services will be held 2:00p.m., Thursday, August 20, 2009, in Resthaven Funeral Home Chapel with interment following at Resthaven Memory Gardens.

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Published by Oklahoman on Aug. 19, 2009.

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Dana Everhart

May 18, 2022

Never got to get to know my uncle.but I'm sure he was a great man.and now he will be in heaven to with mama charlene.i send my condolences to his family.

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