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J. Grout Obituary

J. Adrian Grout went to claim his place of grace with his heavenly father and divine brother, the Lord Christ on July 21, 2009. He was born on September 28, 1932, the son of Pastors Adrian and Mabel Grout of Radford, VA. Adrian completed his BA by age 19, he was enrolled at Asbury Theological Seminary and graduated in 1955. After completion of seminary, he was called to be assistant minister at the First Pilgrim Church in High Point, NC. His academic achievements include a CLU and ChFC designations from the American College Bryn Meir, PA. He managed MONY Agency in Phoenix, AZ and Oklahoma City. In 1989, he returned to sales and was honored by the MONY group with the Hall of Fame Designation which he subsequently received 6 times. Recently he enjoyed serving with the Jasmine Moran Children's Museum. Preceding him in death was his father, Adrian Grout, Sr. in 1984. Surviving is his mother Mabel Grout Venable, his wife of 13 years Janie, daughter Babette Grout of Annandale, VA as well as step children Sherri Lanier of OKC, Don Lanier of Rusk,TX, Chance and Alisha Fleming of McKinney, TX, John Nicolaides of Phoenix, AZ, and granddaughter Alison Fleming. Special thanks to the staff and family of The Crossings Community Church of Oklahoma City who have shown special concern and support by prayer. Funeral services will be held at 10:00 AM, Saturday, July 25, 2009, at Vondel L. Smith & Son North Colonial Chapel. Burial will follow at Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to: The Jasmine Moran Children's Museum, 1714 Highway 9 West, Seminole, OK 74868.

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Published by Oklahoman on Jul. 23, 2009.

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Eric Taylor

December 10, 2009

Janie-Adrian was like a surrogate Father to me after my own Father's passing, as you know. His strength and calming demeanor also helped me manage my Mother's passsing this past May. This past Thanksgiving induced a flood of special memories for me. Adrian had such a profound influence on me that I am certainly a better person after having known him. He was never too busy to speak, even up to his final days. What an unbelievable friend! My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Eric Taylor & Family

John Wesley Groce

August 2, 2009

Adrian was my roommate when we were freshmen at Asbury College and a good friend for the rest of our college years. Although we have not seen each other since, I have spoken with him by phone several times over the years. I greatly admire him and what he has done with his life. It is with deep regret that I learn of his death. My sympathies are with all of his family.

Debora Lamberth

July 30, 2009

Janie - my deepest and most sincere sympathy to you and your family. I was out of town from 7/21 to 7/28 and just found out, I am so sorry. You and Adrian are so special to me and I thank God for allowing you both to cross my path in life. I pray for your strength, your peace of mind and I ask God to continue to rock you in his loving arms. Please know your are not alone.........I love you dearly Debora Lamberth - AXA

Mark Ephraim

July 28, 2009

I wish to convey my sympathy for your loss of Adrian. Always a gentleman and on top of his game. It was always a pleasure to visit with him. I learned something from him each time we met. A good friend.
Mark Ephraim

Nancy Daggs

July 27, 2009

Janie-

I want to extend my heartfelt sympathy. May you find tranquility in knowing that friends share in the loss of Adrian. I will truly miss him.

Love, Nancy

Chuck Locascio

July 23, 2009

Don I wish to convey my sincere sympathies to you and your family.
Chuck Locascio

July 23, 2009

We wish to convey our sincere sympathies to the family. Adrian was a very special person and we had such fun talking and sharing little stories with him. He will be greatly missed.
Monte and Grace Creps

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