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James Murphy Obituary

James (Jim) Clifford Murphy, 82, passed away Wednesday, August 19, 2009, in Oklahoma City, OK. Jim was born on April 27, 1927, to Helen (Seiler) and Clifford James Murphy, in Oklahoma City. He is survived by his wife Virginia (Fallaschek) of 59 years whom he married on June 24, 1950. He is also survived by his sisters, Patty Maier, Margaret Ann Vater and husband Frank, and his brother, Thomas Murphy and wife Jane. Jim and Virginia have 6 children and 11 grandchildren who he loved dearly, sons Mike Murphy wife Paula and grandsons Sean and Brian, Steve Murphy and grandsons Patrick and Tim, Tom Murphy wife Anne and grandchildren Chris, Mary Kate and Andrew, sons Rick Murphy wife Carol and granddaughter Jaclyn, John Murphy wife Barbara and grandsons Kyle and Zachary, and daughter Katie Harney husband Jay and granddaughter Ruby. He was the most loving husband, caring father and best grandpa and papa anyone could ever have. Jim enjoyed gardening, spending time with all his grandchildren and traveling with his wife and family. Jim graduated from Bishop John Carroll High School and served in the U.S. Navy in WWII until August 20, 1946. He went on to graduate from Oklahoma State University in 1949. He was President and co-owner of Murphy and Perkins Ready Mix Concrete Company in OKC until 1992. Jim and Virginia were founding members of St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church and were extremely active in the Parrish. He was very proud of his service as an Extraordinary Minister of the Eucharist. Jim was also a charter member of the Christian Family Movement and participated actively in the civil rights movement, sponsoring refugee families and delivering mobile meals. Wake Services will be held at St. Charles Borromeo Church on Friday, August 21, at 7:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, August 22, at 10:30a.m., at St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church (5024 N. Grove, Oklahoma City, OK 73122). In lieu of flowers, please send donations to St. Vincent de Paul Society at St. Charles Borromeo. Arrangements made by Guardian West Funeral Home.

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Published by Oklahoman from Aug. 20 to Aug. 21, 2009.

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August 30, 2009

Dear Mrs. Murphy, Mike, Steve, Tom, Rick, John, and Katie-

You were a big part of my childhood as was Mr. Murphy (he'll always be Mr. Murphy to me).

I have too many memories of our years together on Barr to share in this venue.

But I will say, if it wasn't for Mr. Murphy building the basketball court in your backyard, I never would have perfected my left-handed bank shot.

I hope this greeting finds you at peace.

With deepest sympathies,

Rob Colbert

August 21, 2009

Your loved one was truly a member of America's greatest generation. His service to our country in the U.S. Navy merits him the status of a true American hero. God bless you all as you celebrate his life.

Vince and Cindy Brady

August 20, 2009

Dear Virginia and family,

Our hearts are so heavy after learning the news of Jim's death. It seems impossible that we will never again share a hug with him or hear one of Jim's dry jokes. Though we are in Colorado and can not be there at this time, we are carrying you tightly in our hearts and we are there in thoughts and prayers.
We love you,
Vince and Cindy Brady

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