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Patrick Mills Obituary
Patrick Daniel Mills was born in Bay City on March 10, 1948, to the late LaVerne and Clara (Schaefer) Mills. He was raised in Bay City and graduated from Handy High School in 1966. He joined the U.S. Air Force, where he served for 23 years. On Feb.10, 1968, Patrick married his high school sweetheart and soul mate, Kathleen Ann Madigan.
In their 38 years together, they raised their two children, Stacie (Ronald) Brethour and Shaun (Tammy Rowe) Mills. They were also blessed with five wonderful grandchildren, Ryan and Katherine Brethour, and Cameron, Kaelynn Rowe, and Karianna Mills. Patrick also leaves behind is special friend, Katherine MacNeil; brother, Terrance (Vickie) Mills of Florida; sisters, Margaret (Fredrick) Grace of Australia, Judy (Eugene) Carroll, and Beatrice (Paul) Fath. He is also survived by his sister-in-law, Dee Madigan; and brother-in-law, Robert Chute; many cousins, nephews, nieces and friends. Besides his parents, Patrick was also predeceased by his brother, Theodore; sister-in-law, Colleen Chute; and brother-in-law, James Madigan.
Patrick enjoyed many things in life especially his work with miniature doll houses and being a member of the National Association of Miniature Enthusiasts. He shared this love with his family and was very involved in his hobby. He was well known for his craftsmanship with miniature woodworking in the community.
To all who knew Patrick, found the true meaning of unconditional love. For Pat always put the other person first and sent them on their way with a smile. For his wife, children, grandchildren, family and friends he left many loving memories, memories that will make us cry and laugh at the same time, memories that we would like to share with you.
We will be gathering to thank our family and friends at the Gephart Funeral Home, Inc., 201 W. Midland St., Bay City, on Saturday from 7 to 9 p.m. and on Sunday from 2 to 9 p.m. with the Vigil for the deceased taking place at 7:30 p.m.
The Funeral Liturgy will be at 10 a.m. on Monday Dec. 11, 2006, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Kawkawlin. Patrick will lie in-state at the church on Monday from 9 a.m. until time of services. Officiating will be the Rev. Fr. Gerald Kukla. The Rite of Committal will be in Floral Gardens Cemetery followed by Military Honors conducted by the U.S. Air Force Honor Guard.
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Memories and Condolences
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Stacie Brethour
December 12, 2006
To my Mom and Shaun, I am at a loss for words (which doesn't happen often). The loss of your soul mate is too over whelming to think of. When Dad looked at you Mom, the world stopped and there was just the two of you. The fact that you had thirty-eight years of that true love is wonderful. I hope it is a comfort to you.
Shaun, The fact that you lost your hero and the one man you looked up to is also a great loss. There is a saying that you have to be with a man to become man and the way I see it you had a great man and so you too are a great man.
When you said that I lost my best friend, I never looked at it that way, but now I have to agree.
The days will get easier, and time heals but Daddy will forever be in our hearts and deeply missed by all,
Love Stacie
Tammy Saunders
December 12, 2006
Kathie,
I was very surprised to here of the news about uncle Pat. I am very sorry for your loss and my heart and prayers go out to you and your family during this time. Although it has been 15 years since my own father passed away I still feel his loss even today. I was happy to here that Uncle Pat was able to enjoy his grandchildren as my own father was not. I can hardly believe that he was only 58 at his time of passing. I often find myself remembering my childhood, and how some of the funniest memories I recall are those that include Uncle Pat. He was such a funny guy. I know that my father always held a special place in his heart for him. He will be greatly missed.
Love to all,
Tammy (Mills) Saunders
3916 Doeskin Dr
Apex, NC 27539
Marilyn Martin
December 10, 2006
Kathie: My heartful sympathy to you and your family during the loss of your beloved Pat. The love you had for one another was so evident; you were exceptional as a couple in love and you both were wonderful people who touched the lives of anyone you came in contact with. Kathie, I know there is nothing I can do to take your pain away; please know that if there is anything I can do for you, I will. The staff, residents and families at Alterra love Pat and You. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Marilyn Martin
The Staff of Gephart Funeral Home
December 9, 2006
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Robin Peterson
December 9, 2006
Kathie, Stacie and Family,
The Miniatures World has suffered a double whammy in so short a time with the loss of Pat and Colleen. I didn't see Pat very often but he always had a smile and a hug. I'll miss them both. I wonder what project they're they're dreaming up. My prayers are with all of you.
Ralph Spangler
December 8, 2006
Kathy, Stacie and Shaun,
I want you to know how sorry I am for the loss that you are feeling right now. I can honestly say that Pat Mills is one of the greatest men I have ever known and one of those people that leaves an impression on you and no matter how many years may seperate you you never forget them. The times I spent at your home laughing with all of you are times I will never forget. Pat ALWAYS made me laugh and was there to lend an ear if you had a problem as many of us kids from the neighborhood did. So many memories. You all are in my prayers and I want you to know that I will miss Pat dearly. I love you all.
Christy Parent
December 8, 2006
Stacie & Ron,
Know that you are in our hearts and prayers. We're sorry for your loss.
Christy, Tony, Kyle and Brennan
Barbara Bower
December 8, 2006
Kathy, Stacie and Shaun,
Words can not express the sadness I feel at the news of Pat's passing. I will always remember the good times we had planning the A-3 regional, and you and Pat dressed up in the style show as the hip grandparents.
I know that Pat is up in heaven busy making and designing miniatures.
Love, Barb
Debbie Berg
December 8, 2006
Dear Kathy, I hold you so in my heart and prayers. You and Pat were solid and helped my kids and I in so many ways. We Love you for that and "Thank You" Both of your Vibrant engery and caring hearts helped my family through difficult times. Your loss is everyone's loss. Kathy hold dear to your soul-mate he will always be with you. We love you all.
Rosanne Jacobs
December 8, 2006
Kathie, I cannot begin to imagine your sorrow for the loss of your beloved Pat. He was a special and gifted person admired by many. I'm certain he will always be with you in spirit. My sincere sympathy!
Roger D. Harris
December 7, 2006
Kathy, Shaun and Stacie, I am terribly saddened to learn of Pat’s passing. I am a better man for having your family in my life. Pat represents the finer qualities a person can achieve in life. A fine example of what a hard working, loving, caring, family man should be. The love and respect I learned from him growing up will forever be cherished in my heart and soul. I’ll never forget his sense of humor, his wit and overall great guy who you could always depend on. From cub scouts to the stands at our wrestling tournaments he was always there and always will be.
Sharon Courter
December 7, 2006
Kathie and family, I am so sorry. But Shaun is right, hold onto your memories. We all know Pat is the love of your life. I will always be here for you. Sharon
Susan Koelling
December 7, 2006
Kathie,
You and Pat made the Pittsburgh NAME Convention the best time ever for me. You assistance in delivery of the crazy Nightly News will never be forgotten
Shaun Mills
December 7, 2006
To my Mom. My deepest sympathy and condolenses to you for losing the love of your life. However, I do want you know that beyond your sorrow and weeping, there are alot of people who admire and envy. For they may have never found their true love. So hold on to your memories of dad, because within them I have found savation to my own true love.
Julie Kasperski
December 7, 2006
Shaun & Family,
No words can express the sympathy I feel for you all. Given the pain you have all endured, there will be peace. Remember this, what the caterpillar thinks is the end, the butterfly knows is just the beginning. God Bless you all.
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