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Joy Schkolovyi
July 28, 2009
Happy Birthday, Kaitlin!
July 28, 2009
Happy Birthday sweet angel. We love you always!
Love, Mommy, Daddy & Alex
January 4, 2009
Merry Christmas Angel
Debbie W
October 7, 2008
Kalene, Jay, Alex, Monna, Julie, Carmen and extended family,
It took me until now to be able to read and sign Kaitlin's guest book without crying. Life just seems so unfair when a child is taken from us so soon. Your faith will give you strength to get you through this and your memories of Kaitlin will keep her alive forever. As you told me, she's in a better place--singing, laughing and playing in heaven.
Take care, good luck and stay in touch.
Love, Deb, Curt, Stef, Jaki & Mia
Geoff Thorp
October 3, 2008
To Julie and Family: We heard of your unfortunate loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of need.
Your friends at Faster-Form Corporation
Francis Elinore Henninger
September 29, 2008
We will be with you in our thoughts and in our prayers, dear Carmencita and with J.J., Kalene and all of the family.
Love, Frank and Ellie
Alice Fragola
September 29, 2008
John and Family
I'm so sorry for your loss, I remember when you and your wife were trying to adopt and the day you came into the office (AMPS in Stuart) and shared with me that you might have a baby, then the next time I ran into you and your wife you had Kaitlin. May our Lord give you peace during these difficult times.
Tricia Borsch
September 28, 2008
The service last night was beautiful -as is your Kaitlin. I want to stay in touch with you - like I said last night, I am glad that you are leaving but so sad that you are. I am so glad to be part of the RLC family b/c it includes families such as you all. I will miss, of course Kaitlen, but also seeing you in car line or in the lobby... my heart breaks for all of you....please use your passion and love to help other children like Kaitlin - I call my job at RLC my "fill me up Job". I wanted to say goodbye last night but knew that we would connect again...God bless you all....xoxoxo Tricia
Kristine Silva
September 28, 2008
Dear Sweet Kaitlin,
You will always be loved in the wings of angels. Thank you for looking out for all others suffering from autism. You will never be forgotten.
We are so sorry for you loss. Forever in our prayers,
The Silvas
Marsha
September 27, 2008
God didn’t promise days without pain,
Laughter without sorrow,
Nor sun without rain.
But he did promise strength for the day,
Comfort for the tears,
And light for the way.
Our daughters are now friends where they will play for eternity.
Troy (KatyBug's Dad) Church
September 27, 2008
We know exactly from where you are coming and where you have yet to go. Our daughter, Katy, walked out of our house in very similar circumstances, drowning in a retention pond on September 21, 2006. Our prayers and thoughts and pieces of our hearts are with you during this time. I know from news reports that you and your family are moving from the area, but if you ever need anything to get through this time, please contact us. Katy's website is www.katyfund.org. You can find all our contact information there. Be it a phone call or cup of coffee at 2am. We (and our church - Westside Baptist) pray that God holds your family tight to Him during this most impossible moment. My heart breaks for you.
George Bryan
September 27, 2008
I am so sad for your loss brother and I know she's gone to a better place. I will be in touch.
Kate Cardenas
September 26, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss, Kaitlin will be missed and her beautiful face, Our class at Renaissance will not be the same without her sweet face and smile. We will always remeber her and continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. All our love, Kate, Joe, Jack and Sara Cardenas.
Kristen Seles
September 26, 2008
It was such a pleasure to work with Kaitlin at RLC. She was a joy to have in class, with her gentle spirit and beautiful smile. Kaitlin expressed her love for music in so many ways...the way her eyes lit up when we started singing, to the way she reached for the guitar, to the way she jumped up to clap and dance! I will miss her dearly, but I will never forget her! I pray for God's peace and love for you in this time. With much love, Kristen (Music Therapist)
Michael Laughlin
September 26, 2008
I'm so sorry for the terrible loss, of your beautiful child. I can't imagine how devastated the family must be. May God bring you peace.
Margie (Van Beke) Cheston
September 26, 2008
I am so sorry to read of your loss. I believe by reading the obituary for Kaitlin that I know some of the family. I grew up in Miami Springs a block away from Alberta Dunning her great grandmother and knew Jimmy and Bobby Dunning. I hope my condolences will extend to those members of your family. Margie Van Beke Cheston . (lived on corner of Albatross and Plover) [email protected]
September 26, 2008
We are so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
Richard and Connie Hicks and family.
Toby Honsberger
September 26, 2008
Jay, Kalene, & Alex,
Kaitlin is a wonderful little girl. I will miss her infectious laugh and heart-warming smile. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family. She will always be remembered fondly in our hearts.
J B
September 26, 2008
I'm sorry for your loss of an angel. I am your neighbor in Wiltshire Village and to searched. May God help your family through this.
Lisa Freeman-Salazar
September 26, 2008
I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl. I know how difficult this is.She is a very beautiful little girl and will live on in your hearts and memories forever. I lost my 5 yr old daughter almost 4 yrs ago in a car accident. My family and I send our deepest sympahties.
Scott DeSena
September 26, 2008
To The Bacile Family,
Athough I do not know you, or Kaitlin, I am deeply touched by her passing. From her pictures, you don't have to know her to see that she was an Angel even here on earth. My hopes and prayers were with you the second I heard the news that she was missing, and my heart sank on Sunday Morning.
God Bless you in these difficult times.
Look into the night sky, a brand new Star is shining down on you.
Leslie McAfee
September 25, 2008
John and Kaleen - I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Kaitlin. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting her the picture shows exactly what a beautiful little angel she must have been. My thoughts and prayers are with you both and your entire family at this time.
Wilkerson Family
September 25, 2008
On Saturday night as I was helping to look for little Kaitlin, I prayed and prayed that she was just hiding somewhere. When I woke Sunday to hear the sad ending, it was heartbreaking. Although I never knew Kaitlin or her family, she has touched my life as much as anyone I do know. What an angel. God bless the family and help to get them through.
Jeannie DePalma
September 25, 2008
Dear Parents & Family,
I am a neighbor, living across Big Blue Trace, at The Shores. (All Saturday night we heard the helicopters overhead, searching for your little girl. We knew what was going on, because we spoke to a police officer, outside our condo. We prayed and hoped for a better outcome.) I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your young daughter. I am a long-time educator of small children, and so this tugs at my heart-strings, in an even deeper way. In my mind, Kaitlin is in Heaven, without Autism, speaking, sharing feelings, playing, and waiting to be with you, again.
Jeannie DePalma & Mykal Hemphill
September 25, 2008
Kalene and Jay, words can not convey how sorry we are to hear of your family's terrible tragedy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. With our deepest sympathy, Trudy and Dave
Joan Mosher
September 25, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Your cute little smile will always stay in our hearts. Your Friends and Teachers at RLC
September 25, 2008
Ilena Rotundo
September 25, 2008
I enjoyed greatly teaching and playing with Kaitlin during our speech therapy sessions. I will miss her laughter, her simple words, and her life full of joy. I know she is with the angels and she is in a great place. Your family will always be in my prayers and I may God provide you with the strength that you need during these difficult times.
Anne-Paige Darby
September 25, 2008
John and Kaylene,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Paige Darby (Stuhr)
Melina Rorie Slotnick
September 25, 2008
An email arrived in my box last night, from my friend Gudrun. We have know each other since 1981 and share a true passion for teaching and children. Her thoughts were of the lovely visits with the smiling faces in the red rider wagon.
I felt her tears flowing as I read her sharing the events of the weekend.
I responded to her sadness and confusion with the best explanation and comfort I could. She has asked me to write you and I hope you and everyone will take comfort in what I share. My words come with great feeling and hope.
Our life, is precious and each of us have a gift or message we bring to this life. A child dying hurts greater than any death I know of. Each of us, have a purpose and a time. Lift your eyes from the pain, and think of what Kaitlin wants you to feel.
Without any reservation, I can tell you that Kaitlin was surrounded by angels and did not feel a thing! I know this because as a 6 yr old child I was drowning in a lake in Texas, my parents were on our barge, not too close by and as typical in a drowning state, there is no noise, no one heard me. But It was not my time.
Sometimes these little earth angels we call our kids, are here for such a short time, to humble us and make us aware of how precious life is. They are here to deliver a message to us, and make us aware of our own life's calling or new stage of growth.
As an Army wife, I was called on many many times to help a Chaplain comfort a family who lost a child, soldier or family member to drowning.
Before anyone blames themselves, or blames the water or any situation, please, honor the gift Kaitlin has left. A priceless gift we must see. My gift, from the time I was 6 was to learn why I nearly drown, and what I was to do with this message in my heart. This gift, one I take very seriously is one of the reasons I live for.
I work with and teach autistic kids, regular kids, special needs and adults how to make friends with and understand the relationship we have with water. It is my life's work.
~We are all connected and drawn to water. Water is faith, it is cleansing, it is part of our beginning, our birth, our nourishment, and, yes even in death.
Swimming is not a hobby, a sport or a part-time pleasure. It is a need, a safe guard. a part of us. However, the innocence without knowledge is often the victim. But I do believe those souls are our water messengers, and it is the survivors who carry the weight of the message. I love the water, remember, so did Kaitlin!
Kailin, was not alone, nor was I.
She has delivered her message and moved on. That little angel was not found Sunday. She left way before, her body was just a sign of closure, now, what can each of you do with this?
I beleive...~Bringing you all together, to make sure that another child or adult learns to love and be careful around the water is a very powerful message. I pray you heal and be her voice. Make a difference in her name. Do not let this break you part. Let it strengthen you.
You . . .
We . . .
Are 'Kaitlin's voice . . . '
Claudette Nys
September 24, 2008
John and Kalene....I wish there was something I could say to make the pain go away but I know that's impossible. May it help to know that so many people are thinking of you in your time of sorrow.
liz
September 24, 2008
im very sorry for your loss but shes in a better place right now. and i'll put her in my prayers.
John & Ann Bader
September 24, 2008
Ann and I were so deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter Kaitlin. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tracy Maybee
September 24, 2008
It has been such a joy working with Kaitlin these past two years. I looked forward to her springing into class each morning, smiling and swinging her ponytail. It was an honor to have had your family a part of our RLC family. Please know that no matter where you go you will always be in our hearts. We loved Kaitlin and will miss her everyday. Always in my prayers.
Amy Winn
September 24, 2008
Very sorry for your loss.
May God provide your family with loving peace during this difficult time.
Terri & Don Malak
September 24, 2008
John:
You will be in our thoughts and prays at this terrible time. She was such a beauty little girl.
Jess C
September 24, 2008
I know it doesn't help but I'm so sorry, I just can't stop thinking about what has happened.
Nobody should lose their life at such a young age and no family should have to go through this.
Linda Farral (Slebodnik)
September 24, 2008
John- I was very saddened when I heard the news. My heart reaches out to you and your family.
Charlescia Longmire
September 24, 2008
My heart goes out to you and your family. Sorry for your lost And may GOD be with you at all times.
Beth Keeney Ewing
September 24, 2008
John,
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jeff Gianinoto
September 24, 2008
John,
My deepest sympathy go out to your and your family. May your fond memories of Kaitlin help get you through this difficult time in your lives.
Beth Anne Cmar
September 24, 2008
Although I don't know you my heart goes out to you. Take comfort in knowing that your beautiful little girl is with Jesus. My prayers are with you.
Jeff Rumph
September 24, 2008
John,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You and your family are in my prayers.
ILEANA COLON
September 24, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Ken and Susan Deischer
September 24, 2008
Jay and Kalene,Alex
We are all saddened by the loss of your daughter and sister. You always referred to Kaitlin as your "little angel". She was so precious. White feathers began appearing,Alex mentioned,they are from the "Angels of Katlin". Katlin always has been and will continue to be an "Angel".
May the Lord, give you the strenght to continue on.
Katlin is an Angel, and will continue to look down upon you and your family.
Our love will always be with you and family.
Andy Stotz
September 24, 2008
Even though I don't know you I feel for you in every way. May god bless all of you though this terrible time.
Keep the faith, it will help you!
Bill Brown and Larry Costner
September 24, 2008
Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with the Bacile and Lincoln Families. May your memories of Kaitlin bring you comfort during this time of sadness and in the days ahead.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
Love,
Oral Walters
September 24, 2008
May the peace of God, embrace you and your family in these times, may you be comforted knowing that she is in His care now..
Rick & Bernice Wirling
September 24, 2008
Hebrews 4:15&16 says, "We have a high priest (Jesus) who can sympathize with us and was tempted in all ways we are, yet without sin. We can boldly go before the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help us in time of need." Our prayers are with you and your family as you mourn the loss of you child. God Bless.
Jodanis Padilla
September 24, 2008
Kaitlin was here Friday, now on Monday she's gone. She left her friends at RLC alone to carry on.
We'll miss her very much, but we know that she's safe, but when we get to class we'll always look for her pretty face.
To her parents we say please don't cry, she's waiting for us all in the big blue sky...
Till then we will miss you..
Love You, JOJO & Familia
September 23, 2008
Dear Bacile Family,
I am very saddened to hear about your loss. I cannot imagine the devastation you must be feeling. I pray that God gives you peace and strength during this difficult time.
James B.'s Aunt
Maya Cohen (classmate)
September 23, 2008
May God comfort and keep you in this time of sorrow. Kaitlin will always be loved...and in our hearts.
Heather Johnston
September 23, 2008
John and family-
We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
God Bless you- Heather & Chris Johnston
Lisa Meyer
September 23, 2008
My love and prayers go out to you. My heart breaks for this beautiful little girl. It is difficult to accept this because, these children have no sins.
When we are confronted with the unbearable,we must give our troubles to god. That's what my mother tells me. God will take your pain and carry you through this.
Let kaitlin be bathed in light,and wrapped in god's embrace. Let her parents find comfort and strength.
Dave Ohlschwager
September 23, 2008
May your many memories provide you with constant comfort.
Please know that we are thinking of you often in these difficult times.
Sydnei
September 23, 2008
Although I was never lucky enough to meet Kaitlin, her Aunt Julie spoke about her often. Our thoughts are with all of you in this challenging time.
Kristin Sims
September 23, 2008
John, Kalene, and Alex,
I loved Kaitlin and loved being her teacher! I am so thankful to have been able to be a part of her life! I hope that you will be encouraged by all the beautiful pictures of Kaitlin and great memories of Kaitlin. I am praying for you and pray that God's comfort will encompass you at this time.
Debi Johnson
September 23, 2008
Dear Bacile Family,
I has been such a priviledge knowing your family over the past three years. You are very special people and the best parents!! Watching Kaitlin blossom over the years has been a blessing. We will never forget you and never forget our little Kaitlin with her sassy personality, her pony tail (with matching bows, of course!), and the love that she shared with all of us. She will forever be in our hearts.
You will always be part of our RLC family. Gather strength from each other, family, friends, and God to get through this difficult time. My prayers are with you.
Louis & Sonia Cardoso
September 23, 2008
Dear Bacile family,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your beautiful daughter. I pray God will provide you with abundant peace and strength to cope with this difficult time. We will be praying for you continually.
In Christ,
Donna Stegall
September 23, 2008
Dear Friends-
We are all mourning the loss of your beautiful child. Thank you for letting us care for her and love her for the last few years. I will always remember her and hold her memory in my heart. You are the best and most caring parents that a child could wish for. God bless you in your time of need.
Lindsay
September 23, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Bacile family during this difficult time. Kaitlin's memory will remain in all of our hearts forever. Keep all of the good memories alive.
Craig & Rev. Kandi Strock-Moesel
September 23, 2008
Dear John:
Our deepest sympathy to your family over the loss of your precious daughter, Kaitlin. May the God of all comfort, comfort you and yours during this trying time. May God continue to hold you up when you think that you just can't stand any longer. May you experience the fullness of the Lords presence in ever increasing measure. May Gods reality and presence become so real to you as you suffer through your deep loss. We are praying for you.
toni ahern
September 23, 2008
my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joey Rios
September 23, 2008
I'm JoJo uncle from N.Y. My sister Rosalie told me of your lost. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. God Bless Her!
Miguel and Rose Garrido
September 23, 2008
John, I am soooo sorry for your loss. I was shocked when I saw you on the news on Saturday and then deeply saddened when we saw the update on Sunday. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.
Susanne Cate
September 23, 2008
Our family was deeply saddened to hear about the tragic loss of beautiful Kaitlin. We know how difficult this must be for you. Please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and your family during this time and always...Carol Fee (Susan Deischer's sister) and Family
Dan Sullivan
September 23, 2008
John - My deepest sympathy to you and your family over the loss of your daughter. My thoughts are with you in this difficult time.
Daryn Zentz (PSM)
September 23, 2008
John,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am deeply saddened by your loss. May God comfort and strengthen you. You are a pillar for your family, trust in God in everything you do.
Frank Leon
September 23, 2008
John, my deepest regret for your lost.
Jeanette Van Husen
September 23, 2008
I remember your Little Kaitlin at Easter Seals, My Thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Tennille Alexander
September 23, 2008
I am sadden to learn the outcome of this search, thumbs up to PBSO!!! Lord knows they put their every effort and concern into this heart-breaking search, May the gates of heavens open to shower the family with strength & courage in their times of sorrow! Remember although the family loved her, the Lord loved her best and called his angel home for eternal rest.
Chris Gainey
September 23, 2008
My extreme sympathy and condolences to you and your family at this time of great loss. May God be with you during your time of need. My prayers are with you.
Terry Hollis
September 23, 2008
John,
I'm so very sorry for you and your family. You have my deepest sympathy. May God bless you and your family.
The Raresheid Family
September 23, 2008
John,
We are deeply saddened by the news of Kaitlin. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. May God bless you all in the times ahead.
Bob Muccino
September 23, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with Kaitlin and the entire Bacile family
Laura Heron
September 23, 2008
John - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. There just aren't words to express how I feel. I know you will get through this. Just know that we all are thinking about you.
Jim & Tracy Brackett
September 23, 2008
Words cannot express the sadness we feel in our hearts for the loss of your daughter. Our Thoughts & Prayers are with you and your family!
Mike Barrett
September 23, 2008
John,
I can not even imagine the pain of the loss of that beautiful girl your family has suffered. My prayers are with you to get through this.
Jeff Taylor
September 23, 2008
John,
words can not express how sad I was to hear about your daughter. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. There will come a day when you will be reunited with her. God bless you.
Barbara Schrader
September 23, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I joined in the search Saturday. We were in town for our Aunt Rose . She is not too far from your area.When we heard the news myself,my sisterlaw and my friend,who lives across the street in (Meadow) .We went out to search. how we wished that she was sleeping someplace. Our prayers and sympathy go out to your family. Barb Rochester,New York
Jess Mengel
September 23, 2008
John, I know you from some years back at Pratt and Whitney. I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your family's loss. Kaitin was taken too soon. I wish your family the best for your future in Idaho.
Laura Becher
September 23, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace.
Brenda
September 23, 2008
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious little girl. My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to the Bacile Family. Not right now, but in time, your memories will give you peace.
Jackie Schneider
September 23, 2008
For a little girl that I never had the pleasure of meeting, you sure did make an impact on my heart... when I saw your face, that of an angel, I just knew that if I ever doubted before... I have no doubts anymore. I too joined in the search Saturday evening, along with my young children. How we wished we would find you asleep somewhere...
The blue bear by the fence is from my son and the little princess is from my daughter.
I heard you love Barney. I hope in heaven you get to see and hear and sing Barney whenever you want!!
Kaitlin, I will never forget you, we will never forget you... and for your family... God Bless Them!!
Jackie Schneider and family
Cindy Valverde
September 23, 2008
May heart and prayers go out to your family. So sorry to hear about the your loss. May the memories of Kaitlin remain in your heart and thoughts forever!!
Roy Struble
September 23, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter Kaitlin. May God bless your family and comfort you in this trying time.
Suzanne Dyer
September 23, 2008
I was in town for a 50th Wedding Anniversary celebration and we saw the cars and heard the helicopters. We are all so saddened to hear of your loss. This is such a tragedy. May you find peace. God bless.
Dawn Reeves(Easter Seals)
September 23, 2008
May memories of your beautiful, precious Kaitlin bring you comfort as time passes. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers for days to come.
Dennis & Sally Kennedy
September 23, 2008
John,
We were devastated to hear about your beautiful daughter Kaitlin. We want to extend our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. God bless and comfort you at this time of need.
Dan McAdams
September 23, 2008
John and Family,
I am so sorry to hear the news of you daughters passing. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Karen Town
September 23, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. No words will ever be enough but just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.
Bette Janes Oramas
September 22, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know your family but I am Truly Sieli's sister.When I heard about what happened, my heart filled with sadness. Kaitlin is now a beautiful heavenly angel and you can be assured that our mom is taking care of her for you. God Bless your family and I hope that you find comfort in knowing that others share in your sorrow.
Zack Poerio
September 22, 2008
I will miss you Kaitlin. Thanks for being my friend.
I love you!!!!
Yvonne Rivera
September 22, 2008
Words cannot express my sorrow and heartbreak during this difficult time. Kaitlin has the face of angel and she will be missed. My deepest and most sincere sympathy in the loss of your precious daughter. She is in my prayers!
Beatriz and Michael Crosse
September 22, 2008
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Your family touched so many hearts with your kindness, know we admire you and pray for you.
Tracy Andreassi
September 22, 2008
We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest condolences, and know that our hearts are with you.
The Andreassi Family
Beth Potter
September 22, 2008
May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times spent together. I will always cherish those moments when Kaitlin would label pictures and look at you and I would cheer for her and she would be so proud of herself. It has been a privilege to teach her and she is greatly missed in our classroom.
Victoria Berardesco
September 22, 2008
There are no words that I can say that will convey how sorry I am for your loss. My son was in school with Kaitlin and Alex at Easter Seals and I feel lucky that I had the chance to work with Kaitlin there. She was an absolutely beautiful child. I pray that memories will help to comfort in time. Just know that my thoughts prayers are with the entire family.
Nany Hernandez
September 22, 2008
As a mom with 3 autistic children, I have had feel a deep pain in my heart. My prayers for your family. God bless.
Isis Ryan
September 22, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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