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LuVerne Tomhave Obituary

LUVERNE LADDIE TOMHAVE LuVerne Laddie Tomhave, died 10/3/2010. She was born November 24, 1928 in Arpin, Wisconsin. LuVerne was an enrolled member of the Ho-Chunk/Potawatomie tribe of Wisconsin. She had lived in Riverside, CA for 38 years. Cause of death was multiple myeloma. She died surrounded by her six children in Riverside, CA, at her home while receiving hospice support. She was divorced and her ex-husband died in 1991. Before marriage she was a secretary for the Army, stopped working to raise her children and returned to work in 1974 as a social service aide in the residential department at Sherman Indian High school. She retired from Sherman Indian in 1994. She completed high school and some vocational training at Haskell Indian Institute in Lawrence, Kansas. She was Miss Haskell in 1947. She was a member of St. Thomas the Apostle Catholic Church in Riverside, CA. She was also a member of NARFE, a member of the American Indian Elder community of Riverside and was very active at the Janet Goeske Center. Lu got her first passport in 1998 and began traveling the world, including England, France, Italy, Canada, Germany and Switzerland. She also cruised extensively and loved to travel. She loved physical activity and exercise especially walking, yoga, water aerobics and tai chi. She loved her grandchildren (who called her "GoGo") and was very proud of all of them. Until this year, Lu was very fortunate to have great health. She walked her first 10K at the age of 80. The family would like to extend thanks to all LuVerne\'s friends, and to Melissa Tomhave, Dorothy Young, and the staff Sherman Indian High School for their love and support. A memorial Catholic mass will be held on Thursday, October 21st, 2010 at St. Thomas the Apostle Church at 3774 Jackson St., Riverside, CA. She was buried on October 6, 2010, in Wisconsin in a traditional Potawatomie ceremony. There will be a potluck reception following the mass at Sherman Indian High School, Bennett Hall, 9010 Magnolia Ave., Riverside.

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Published by The Press-Enterprise from Oct. 17 to Oct. 18, 2010.

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Fernandi Family

November 9, 2010

Our deepest and most sincere condolences to your entire family on the loss of your beloved mother.

Brenda Collins

October 20, 2010

To the family of Luverne Tomhave, my deepst condolences to you....Just continue to hold on to GOD'S unchanging hand, cause joy comes in the morning...Meslissa my sista i will continue to pray for your strength and if you ever need me don't hesitate to let me know.....

Sandy Anger

October 19, 2010

Mitzie, Cheyenne and Dakota,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of a mother in law and grandmother.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Bobbie Helton

October 18, 2010

I was very fortunate to have a special Aunt like Lu, she always looked at the good in people and was able to see so much humor in life. Aunt Lu will always be in our hearts.

Susan Minarik

October 18, 2010

We were able to spend a weekend with Lu when she visited Spokane last fall. She was a hoot out in the backyard playing baseball with her grandsons, David and Joseph! We loved how she was so excited about life and participating in it to the fullest! She even liked my rhubarb jelly. We were hoping she would make another trip to Spokane someday. Hope your trip to Heaven was the best trip you ever made, Lu!
Susan and Rod Minarik

Jeannie Berwick

October 18, 2010

May Lu's goodness and gentle heart continue to shine in the lives of her children.

October 17, 2010

May her memory be a blessing

Harvey Kurland

Laura Gazaway

October 17, 2010

I will miss Lu's bright eyes and smile. She was a sweet woman.

Diane Tomhave

October 17, 2010

Mass will be at 10 a.m., on the 21st.

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