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Robert Henry Stangel

1940 - 2018

Robert Henry Stangel obituary, 1940-2018, Riverside, CA

BORN

1940

DIED

2018

Robert Stangel Obituary

ROBERT HENRY STANGEL
Robert "Bob" Stangel was born in a small farm house in Orchard, Nebraska on October 7, 1940. He was the second child of Frank George Stangel and Aileen Veronica Feichtinger, both of German, Catholic descent. His education began in a small public school in Tecumseh, where he attended kindergarten through the eleventh grade. The Stangel family then moved to San Diego, California, where he attended St. Augustine High School, a Catholic, all boys' school. After graduating from high school, he received an athletics scholarship from the University of Oregon, where he attended from 1958-1959. He then transferred to Lower Columbia, Washington, in 1959. From 1959 to 1960, he attended Chaffey College in California. In 1960 to 1964, he attended Long Beach State, where he earned his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Physical Education in 1964.
Bob was the quarterback for his college football team, and during that time, he met his wife, Elaine Renee Stangel. He earned his Master's degree in Physical Education from Azusa Pacific College in 1973. Bob began his coaching career as an assistant coach at Cantwell High School from 1964 to 1967. He then accepted a teaching/coaching position from 1967 to 1972 at Notre Dame High School in Riverside, California. Bob led Notre Dame to a CIF title in 1970. In 1973, he accepted a coaching position at Sunnyvale High School. From 1974 to 1999, he served as the Head football coach at Mt. San Jacinto College. During his tenure, Bob was named Conference Coach of the year seven times, and Region III Coach of the Year three times. In 1998, he was named State Coach of the Year. When he retired after the 1999 season, the Eagles were ninth in the nation, and fourth in the state in the power rankings.
Bob was added to the State Coaches' Hall of Fame, and in 2010, was inducted into the inaugural MSJC Hall of Fame. In 2013, the Hemet Sportsman's Club created a "Stangel Trophy" award that is presented annually to the San Jacinto Valley's top senior football player. Bob dedicated many service hours to his coaching profession by serving as the California Community College Football Coaches Association Membership Chairman/Treasurer from 1975 to 2011. In 1998, he was named the CCCFCA State Coach of the Year, and in 2003, he was inducted into the Hall of Fame. Bob instilled pride and motivation into his football teams, and is best described as a hard worker and a player's coach. He was forced into retirement due to a medical condition and was diagnosed with Hypersensitivity Pneumonitis, a pulmonary disease. He received a lung transplant at UCSD, and enjoyed good health for 14 years during his retirement.
During his retirement, he, his wife, and daughter worked together at Supporting Unlimited Possibilities Inc., an organization that provides services and support for adults who have developmental disabilities. In November 2017, Elaine, his wife of 57 years, passed away. Grieving his loss, he joined his true love on Valentine's Day, 2018. Bob leaves behind his daughter, Debby Stangel; his son, Robert Stangel Jr., and his four grandchildren, Chasen and Savannah Stangel, and John and Katie Joseph.
Services will be held at St. Francis De Sales Catholic Church, located at 4205 Mulberry St. Riverside, CA 92501. Rosary will be held on February 27th at 6 pm. Individuals will have the opportunity to share personal experiences and memories after the rosary. On February 28th, the funeral service will be held at 6 pm and a reception will follow. Graveside services will be private for family.

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Published by The Press-Enterprise from Feb. 24 to Feb. 25, 2018.

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Mark Jackson

March 7, 2021

Coach Stangel was one of the most influential men in my life. I to was saddened to learn of his passing. I played football for coach at MSJC in 82-83. Before the 83 season I decided I no longer wanted to play football and went to Texas to work construction so I wouldn't have to face coach Stangel, lol. Well coach called my mom in Banning to get my number and called me in Texas. Coach told me that there were several coaches from universities inquiring about me and I need to get back to MSJC right away and not waste this opportunity to get a scholarship. I told coach I was done with football and he persuaded me to come back right away in typical Stangel style, lol. I Reluctantly came back finished the 83 season and earned several scholarship offers and chose the University of Utah. I went on to earn a BS degree, met my wife (34 years of marriage and courting), have six beautiful children and 4 grandchildren. I just retired from a successful career in law enforcement. I owe the majority of my happiness and wonderful life I have to coach Stangel a man who didn't give on on me and saw something in me that didn't see in myself at that time. I always knew he cared about me as a person as he did for all his players and he showed it to me and I am eternally grateful to him. Thank you coach Stangel!

Mark Jackson

Mark Jackson

March 7, 2021

Coach Stangel was one of the most influential men in my life. I to was saddened to learn of his passing. I played for coach at MSJC in 82-83. Before the 83 season i decided i no longer wanted to play football and went to Texas to work construction so i wouldn't have to face coach Stangel. Well coach called my mom in Banning to get my number and called me in Texas. Coach told me that there were several coaches from universities inquiring about Me and i need to get back to MSJC right away and not waste this opportunity to get a scholarship. I told coach I was done with football and he persuaded me to come back right away in typical Stangel stlye. I Reluctantly came back finished the 83 season and earned several scholarship offers and chose the University of Utah. I went on to get a BS degree, met my wife. Have six beautiful children and 4 grandchildren. I just retired from a successful career in law enforcement. I owe the majority of my happiness and wonderful life i have to coach Stangel. I always knew he cared about me as a person as he did for all his players and he showed it to me and I am eternally grateful to him. Thank you coach Stangel!

Mark Jackson

Andy Stetkevich

February 15, 2020

Dear Bob and Debbie,
Your parents were wonderful people. I said a prayer for both of them today.



Andy Stetkevich

February 13, 2020

Thank you coach Stangel for giving me an opportunity to learn the game of football by hiring me as an assistant coach and showing me the ropes. I learned a great deal from you and the other coaches about football, life and being a man. RIP and my condolences to the Stangel family.

Vincent coach used to say if everybody tried as hard as Big Al we would be Alcantara

September 6, 2018

Today I thought about Coach Stangel so I looked him up on the internet and I was sad to find out that he had passed away I just wanted to say thank you to coach Stangel. I was a student at Mount San Jacinto junior college in 1991. I wasn't the most talented football player by far and even though the assistant coaches said I might hurt myself Coach Stangel allowed me to be on the football team. Now that I'm 48 years old it doesn't have the impact now that it did when I was young I remember being grateful and thankful to coach. I enjoyed it very much and it gave me direction at the time. Coach used to say if everybody tried as hard as big Al we would be state champions. He doesn't have an ounce of talent but he's trying harder than all of you. That year coach awarded me most inspirational player. It's funny cuz I use that award he gave me to get jobs and I appreciate it he's helped me out even more than he has ever known.
I will miss you, "Big Al" Vincent Alcantara

Lawrence McCrary

May 18, 2018

I was a member of the 1975 MSJC Eagle Championship Football Team Coached by none other than Robert H. Stangel. I continue to live my personal life with principles and values he taught both on and off the field.Coach was always honest and straightforward as he treated his players and assistant coaches like we were his own family.I always admired his determination and will to win! Three Cheers for Coach Stangel! Blue!Blue! Hut!!! Your loss is also mine family...Bobby Jr.! Bless you and the rest of the family...Lawrence E. McCrary Jr.

Kathy Ross (McDermott)

February 28, 2018

Bob was an excellent example for young men. I had the pleasure of spending time with him and his family During his early Norte Dame coaching days, As my husband Ed McDermott was his assistant coach. His character as a family man was a great example for a young married couple, Thought of him and his Elaine often. May the LORD bless your family, rest in HIS arms.

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CJ

February 26, 2018

Coach....Thanks for always being there. Thanks for trusting in me to lead. Thank you for allowing me to trust Coach Jr to turn me into a Two time All American. Thank you for paving the way for me to graduate and play football at the University of Utah. Thanks for just being "Coach"

Andy Stetkevich

February 25, 2018

Dear Debby, Bobby, and Family,
On behalf of my family, I want to express our deepest sympathies. Your father was a great coach, but importantly he was a great man. He helped our family when we were kids. Both Bob and Elaine made a tremendous impact on the lives of so many kids and young adults through their teaching and coaching. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Andy and Mary Pat Stetkevich, and Kids

Nord-Schroeder

February 24, 2018

The Nord & Schroeder Family send our love to the Stangel Family. Amazing memories! From my dad coaching for Coach to my husband playing 2 years for Coach before getting a scholarship to SUU out of the JAC. Thank you for the memories. You will be missed but we all know you are reunited with the love of your life and rejoicing! Love sent from Idaho!

Debra Serna Brauer

February 24, 2018

So sad. To lose mom stangel and now dad stangel. During college and after, he was my second dad watching out for me. It was great to work with him and the other coaches in the football office. To be a athletic trainer with the team. Deb and Bobby i know this is heard for you both and your families. Your parents were great people and will truely be missed. And i will cherish all the happy memories i have of them both.

Myron Angel

February 22, 2018

Coach,
Thanks for helping to develop my strong foundation to become a winner in life and as a man. May you rest in peace and know your life was successful for the many. Thank You......Much Love for you and your Family.

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