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J. Hoban Obituary
J. DENNIS, Ed.D, professor emeritus at Wake Forest University School of Medicine, died of a heart attack on October 21, 2008 in Charlotte, N.C. He is predeceased by his father, Charles Francis Hoban Jr and his mother, Mary Elizabeth Hoban. Dr. Hoban is survived by his wife, Gaynell Sue Hoban and son, Jonathan David Hoban of Winston-Salem; daughter and son-in-law Emily and Kevin Kirby of Silver Spring, MD; brother Michael T. Hoban of Philadelphia, PA, and one grandchild, Nicholas Charles Kirby. In lieu of flowers the family asks that donations be made to MCV Foundation and mailed to the MCV School of Medicine, Attn: Tom Holland, P.O. Box 980022, Richmond, VA 23298. VOGLER AND SONS FUNERAL HOME on Reynolda Road in Winston- Salem, NC is assisting the family. Send online condolences to: www.mem.com
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Frank Dennis
August 31, 2009
To the entire Hoban Family: It was with great sadness that i learned just Saturday 8-29-09 of Dr.Hoban(Denny's) passing. I am a distant cousin of Denny's and another distant cousin Kathryn Louise Goodarzi was the one to tell me the bad news. I am from Pennsylvania Anthracite
Coal Country(where Hoban family settled from County Mayo Ireland) and just in last few years got to coorespond with Denny. I was very excited that i was able to find him and then forward most of our family history to Denny. He said the picture i emailed of his Grandfather Dr. Charles Hoban 1st that i sent in his Grove City College graduating Cap and Gown bore a tremendous resemblance to himself! I really regret that we were never able to meet up face to face. I will treasure our phone conversations and email letters. All the great things i have seen written at this site asbout him makes me wish even more that we could have met up. I am certain we would have gotten along just great!If the family ever need anything please just let me know. Not sure how i can help but would love to if i could in any way. By the way education does run within our family. I am a public school Science Teacher for the last 24 years. God Bless and please accept my sincere sympathy. Frank and Jenny Dennis Tannersville, Pa.
Nancy Haynes
April 2, 2009
Dear Gaye, Emmy, and John,
Your husband, and father, is one who left a legacy of sincere warmth, love, and dedication to his family, and career.
You were so very blessed to have had him.
Love,
Nancy
Teck Penland
December 2, 2008
Gaynell and Family--------I worked with Denny at Wake Forest in the early 80's and 90's. We spent most of our time talking about families and especially sports. We often compared stories of our children playing soccer and how we as fathers were learning so much from them. He was one of my best friends ever and I'm so sorry that I only learned today that he had died in October. My very deepest condolences to all of you. Your family will always be a wonderful memory for me because of your husband and father and the times that we shared together.
Teck Penland
Teri Dillen
November 20, 2008
Dear Hoban Family,
You don't know me, but Dr. Hoban touched our life this summer and left a footprint that we will always carry on. Last summer my son met him on the track at Wake Forest during an internship he helped him unknowingly until the day he passed away, on my son's b-day. They had been emailing and talking to each other all summer and fall as he is applying to VCU Medical, and Wake Forest. Dr. Hoban's love for both schools was very evident and his helpfullness will NEVER be forgotten. We were shocked to hear of his passing. My son got an interview at VCU and was hoping to see him there. The interviewer told him the news. Sorry this is so long, but when God puts people in your path some things change forever, Dr. Hoban is one of those people for my son. Thank you, and I am truly sorry for your loss. Teri Dillen (Bill Dillen's mother)
Anita Zeiders
November 3, 2008
Dear Gaye and Family,
My mother and I were saddened by the news of Denny's passing. Eleanor sent my mother a note informing us of the news. We both had fond memories of Denny's warmth and intelligence. When I was a child I always looked forward to our trips from Harrisburg to Drexel Hill to see my cousins and visit with Aunt Mary and Uncle Charles. Denny was very much a part of why I enjoyed those visits. Please know our thoughts are with you.
David Linton
November 2, 2008
Dear Gaye and Jon,
I was so sorry to hear the news about Denny. I was out of town last week visiting my parents and did not hear the news until church today. Denny was my friend, a very gentle, sincere and inquisitive man. I enjoyed so much visiting with him. Please know that you and your whole family remain in my thoughts and prayers. May God continue to hold all of you in his tender loving care.
Graham Watson
November 2, 2008
As one of my preceptors at Wake, Dr. Hoban was a masterful facilitator of the learning process. The thing I'll remember most are our hallway chats, though, about sports or just life. He quickly became a good friend and trusted advisor of mine and many students here. He will be deeply missed.
Van Williamson
November 2, 2008
Dr. Hoban was a great friend to the medical students at Wake Forest. I loved running into him in the hallways to discuss class, sports, and any other topic that might arise. It was always apparent that he cared about the students. I would like to extend my condolences to his family.
George Nowacek
October 29, 2008
Denny had been a beacon for me in my career in medical education. He was one of the first professionals I met when I started in medical education and had continued to be a valued friend and colleague. I will miss him very much.
Eleanor Hoban
October 29, 2008
Dear,
Gaye,Emily,and Jon. Thinking of you
and praying for you at this most
difficult time. Denny and his brother
Charles are up there discussing what
they spent hours on the phone chatting about. Sports, politics, work, family, and friends.
Denny was so caring,kind,and so much in touch with the feelings and
concerns of his family,friends, and
associates.
We had many happy visits and I will
miss his laughter and smile.
May the many happy memories in some way ease the pain of your loss
Love,
Eleanor Hoban
Lori Sasaki
October 28, 2008
Mrs. Hoban, Emily and Kevin, and Jon,
Mr. Hoban was such a part of my childhood - he was always there cheering us on at cross-country meets. He believed we could run 5k, even when we didn't believe it ourselves. He listened with a smile to our complaints about running and school, and always had wise words of encouragement. I remember fondly the twinkle in Mr. Hoban's eyes when he talked about sports and academics. I will miss him. You all are in my heart and my thoughts.
Much love,
Lori
Skeet Godow
October 27, 2008
Dear Gay, Emmy and Jon
It's impossible to tell you how important Denny was to me. He was a boss, a mentor, a friend, a protector, a role model and one of the best people I have ever known. My heart goes out to you because I know that as big as my loss is, yours is vastly larger. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Vicky Messier
October 25, 2008
Dear Gay,
Please know that I am thinking about you and your family at this most difficult time. My memories of Twin City Soccer and Denny's enthusiasm on the sidelines sure bring a smile to my face. This is such a difficult period of time for all of you, but I do hope that in time, your wonderful memories of Denny will bring you peace.
Vicky Messier (formerly Hoskins)
Annie Leist & Stephen Cass
October 24, 2008
Dr. Hoban was a wonderful person and a very special father, even to the friends of his children. He will truly be missed. Wish we could be there in person to hug each of you and tell you how much you are in our thoughts and prayers. All our love, Annie & Stephen
Jay and Barb Waller
October 24, 2008
We both would like to send our condolences to you. We got to know Denny at Winston-Salem National Little League. He was always ready to talk baseball. He was a special person who will be missed.
Ed Manning
October 24, 2008
To Gaye and to all Denny’s family:
My name is Ed Manning. I am Denny’s boyhood friend, grade school and high school classmate, classmate at St. Mary’s Hall, Villanova University, and email correspondent over several years. I am deeply saddened by the news received today of Denny’s death. I got to know the depth of his caring and his integrity of character through our correspondence regarding our faith, our church, and the ethical and moral principles by which our lives have been guided over these many years. He made me realize that there is no substitute for the grounding we received from our parents as he and I grew up together and the education we received in our formative years. He was a loyal friend to me and he will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all in your time of grief and know that the respect he has gained from all who knew him is eternal.
John R. McCurdy
October 24, 2008
I remember Denny in our Monsignor Bonner High School class as a mediator and friend, never a troublemaker. He was also a good e-mail pal in recent years.
Velma Watts
October 24, 2008
Gaye, Emily and Jon,
My deepest sympathy goes to you in this note, which is a very weak expression of all that I am thinking.
Denny was proud to tell me he had an Obama sign in his yard. Your husband, father, was a fine, gentle, man and always fair.
God bless you all.
Velma Watts
Boyd Richards
October 24, 2008
Denny was an important mentor and friend during my transition into medical education. I will be forever grateful for his gentle leadership and enabling manner.
Katie Collins
October 23, 2008
Dear Gaye, Emily, Jon and family,
My thoughts are with all of you now as you remember and honor the life of your husband and father. I remember how he had such a passion for soccer and loved to watch Jon play. He was so proud. Jeff and Jon always talked about him so fondly. His character and successes can be seen through both of his children.
Sincerely,
Katie Collins (Paterson)
Joe Brancato
October 23, 2008
The Hobin Family:
I was so sorry to here about Denny's passing. I knew him at Bonner. I know he will be greatly missed.
Joe Brancato
Bonner 59er
Gwendie Camp
October 23, 2008
Gayle, Emily, and Jon,
It's hard to put into words what a loss I feel. Denny was a truly Good Person, a decent, kind, compassionate man. I value him so much as a past colleague and a forever friend.
Gwendie
Matt Hoskins
October 23, 2008
My thoughts are with your family at this tragic time. I fondly remember Dr. Hoban at soccer games and practices throughout the years. His unparralleled enthusiasm will be deeply missed.
Suzanne Barbour
October 23, 2008
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I worked with Denny on Curriculum Committee for the VCU School of Dentistry and will always remember his enthusiasm and compassion. He has left us with enormous shoes to fill.
Shirley Dockery
October 23, 2008
Gaye and Jon - Please allow me to extend my sincerest sympathy. It is really hard to know what to say at a time like this. I have a fond rememberance of being encouraged most recently by him to go to the gym. The laughter and contagious smile, I will always hold dear.
Armand Perez
October 23, 2008
I was saddened to hear and read of Dennis' untimely passing. I will always remember him as a pleasant, gentle person, anxious to help a neighbor in need.
My thoughts are with you, Gaye and Jon.Please accept my sincere condolences.
Amber (Evans) Bishop
October 23, 2008
Gaye, Emily and Jon - I have no words. My thoughts go to you at this sad time. When I think of the 3 of us growing up, Denny is there, such a strong presence, in my memory - he was like a 2nd dad. I remember a few years ago, I caught a ride with him one weekend when we were both going home from Richmond to Winston - we didn't stop talking the entire way and the 4 hours flew by in a blink - topics ranging from his beloved sports to books and everything else - I can hear his laugh as I sit and type this and, I don't know, he was just an incredible, unique, and special person. I will miss him. I am sending love and peace to you all. Much love always, Amber
Dee Vaughn
October 23, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Hoban Family during this difficult time.
The Monsignor Bonner Community
Marti McMahan
October 23, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Susan Cross
October 23, 2008
Please accept my heart-felt sympathy on the passing of a dear friend, Denny. I will surely miss his smile and laugh, it was contagious. He was one of the sweetest people that I know.
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