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Margaret Lee Anderson PORTSMOUTH - Margaret Lee Walke Anderson, 85, loving mother, beloved grandmother and widow of Dr. Gerald Benton Anderson, died Nov. 21, 2010, after a brief illness. Margaret Lee, a native of Portsmouth and lifelong resident of the city, was the daughter of Roland James Walke and Ellen Veronica Keil Walke. She was a lifelong member of St. Paul's Catholic Church in Portsmouth. She is survived by three children and their families: Bradford Lee Anderson of Smithfield, his wife Debra Sue Messenger Anderson and their son Benton Reed Anderson; Brice Tilden Anderson of Mechanicsville, his wife Cynthia Cary Anderson and their son James Benton Anderson; and Margaret Ellen Anderson Downs of Portsmouth, her husband Douglas Warren Downs and their children, Jennifer Lee Downs, Bradford Warren Downs and Anne Benton Downs. Margaret Lee loved Williamsburg, where she and Gerry courted on Sunday afternoons in the early 1950s. They were married April 11, 1953, at St. Paul's. She was proud of her Irish heritage, her Catholic faith, and of her five perfect grandchildren, whose names for her included Oma, Puttit and Grandma. Margaret Lee retired in 1988 from Portsmouth Psychiatric Center, where she worked 13 years as a ward clerk. She also worked for the Chesapeake & Potomac Telephone Co. in the 1940s and 1950s and taught preschool at St. Christophers Episcopal Church in Portsmouth in the 1970s. She was a 1942 graduate of St. Joseph's Academy in Portsmouth and attended Mary Washington College and The College of William and Mary. Margaret Lee was a longtime volunteer with the Portsmouth chapter of the March of Dimes in the 1960s and 1970s. Along with Louise Hall, Harriet Hart and "Tiny" Burke, she was one of the "founding mothers" of the March of Dimes' day camp for special-needs children. The camp operated for two weeks each summer from 1967 to 1976 under the shady trees of Portsmouth City Park. She also helped to coordinate the March of Dimes' annual Mothers March fundraising drive in the 1960s and helped to coordinate the organization's annual telethons on WAVY-TV in the 1960s and 1970s. Margaret Lee served on the Portsmouth Catholic School Board in the 1970s, when her children attended Portsmouth Catholic High School. A Rosary service for Margaret Lee will be held today, Nov. 23, at 7 p.m. at Foster Funeral Home, 1926 High St. in Portsmouth. Immediately after the Rosary, the family will receive friends at the funeral home. A Mass of the Resurrection will be said Wednesday, Nov. 24, at 11 a.m. at St. Paul's, 463 Washington St. in Portsmouth. Burial will follow in Olive Branch Cemetery in Portsmouth. The family wishes to offer special thanks to the second-floor and fourth-floor nursing staffs at Maryview Hospital for making our mother's final days safe, comfortable and dignified. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial gifts be made to St. Mary's Home for Disabled Children, 6171 Kempsville Circle, Norfolk, VA 23502.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 23, 2010.

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Patrice Nemetz-Gardner

December 23, 2010

Margee and families,
I just recently heard about your mom. I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom was a wonderful women who touched so many. Bray always enjoyed her interaction with "Puttit".

Rebecca Oates

December 10, 2010

Brice,

I am so sorry for your loss. As you know, my Mother died in 2004 and now all I remember are the good times, particulary at Christmas because she always made that holiday special for all of us.

Your acute grief will subside and you will have all the good, happy memories forever. It's true when they say that those we have lost live in our hearts forever.

Please be comforted by all the people who are thinking and praying for you and your family during this difficult time.

Rebecca P. Oates
12/10/10

November 28, 2010

Dear Margee and family,
I was so sorry to hear that your mother had passed away. She was a wonderful lady and I will always remember the good days in the PPC days. May God bless you and provide the comfort to get you through the tough days. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your families during this time of sorrow.

Diane Yeatts Gressett (formerly Diane Yeatts Campbell)

Donna Henry

November 26, 2010

Dear Margee, Brice and Brad,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. She was exemplary in this life. I pray for God to help those of us who remain to be a strong, loving and compassionate presence in our families and communities like her. You all were her heart. You made her proud indeed. May God bless you with comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Be assured of my love and prayers,
Donna Henry

James Spacek

November 25, 2010

Dear Brad, Margee & Brice,Your Mom was truly a gift from God that graced the earth. She was wonderful to Paul & I when we lost our parents and was quick to give me "parenting" advice when Paul lived with me. Know that your Mom was very proud of you three and your families and always took the time to update us about you and do some honest "bragging". She and your Dad will be with me always as I remember them!
Jimmy Spacek

Julie Lear

November 24, 2010

Dear Margee & Family,
I was very saddened when I found out about your mother. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your brothers as you work through this difficult time. Although I didn't know your mother long, I enjoyed her stories, whit, and humor. I will be praying for you!

Jane and Al Mason

November 24, 2010

Dear Margee and families,
I was so sorry to learn about your mom's passing. I have thought of her often over the years. Please know that I hold you all so very close in thought and prayer at this time. Sorry I can't be there to celebrate her wonderful life, but I will be thinking of you all.

Donna Tye Murphy

November 23, 2010

Dear Margee, I remember your mother so fondly. She was our "go-to" person for everything it seemed. I was fresh out of college working at PPC, she mothered all of us. We adored her. She would let us single girls try on her stunning diamond/sapphire engagement ring and just play pretend!

She sure loved her children, talked about all of you all the time, she was so incredibly proud of each one of you. Though I never met Brad or Brice I felt like I knew them. She was so much fun and someone I always enjoyed.

You are among the lucky to have had such a wonderful mom. With love and deepest sympathy for your loss.

Kelly Jobst

November 23, 2010

I wish that there were words that would provide some tangible comfort; however, the best that I can offer is the hope that you can feel the emotions and good intentions in the words of sympathy. So many people are praying to God to ease your pain and provide the comfort that only he can. Also know that many people close to your family are sharing their favorite memories of Mrs. Anderson and in this way are continuing to share her with others. God Bless, Kelly Cary Jobst

Linda "Bobbie" Lichovitz-Blake

November 23, 2010

Margee, Brad & Brice, I am terribly sorry for your loss and offer my thoughts and prayers. Your Mother had such presence in our community. Bobbie Lichovitz Blake

Don Gordon

November 23, 2010

Her Light Will Always Shine.

Frank Connelly

November 23, 2010

Brad, Brice and Margaret, I am very sorry for your loss. I do remember your mother from my days at PCHS. She was a lovely woman who was a great supporter your scholastic and athletic endeavors. I pray that God will comfort you during this time of great sorrow. - Frank Connelly

Leah Canady

November 23, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tenneil Peckens

November 23, 2010

May God bless your family in this time of need. It was an honor to meet your mother. She was a lady who possessed both strong will and inner grace. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jeanie Hand

November 23, 2010

Margee: I can see that your mother's values and charm are reflected in you, and that is the best tribute she could have. I offer you and your family my deepest sympathy on her passing. Jeanie Hand

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