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Nell Pankey Obituary

Nell C. Pankey VIRGINIA BEACH - Nell C. Pankey, 84, passed away Monday, Nov. 8, 2010. She was born March 22, 1926 in Princeton, W.Va. She was the only daughter of Harold Pine and Edna Rice Calfee. She was preceded in death by her parents, her only sibling, Howard Calfee of Bluefield, W.Va., and by her husband, Clarence E. Pankey. Nell was a graduate of Princeton High School and Concord College where she was a member of Alpha Sigma Tau sorority. She taught school in West Virginia before moving to Norfolk where she taught for 31 years, retiring in 1991. After retirement, Nell spent many hours as a volunteer at Sentara Virginia Beach General where she was a member of the hospital auxiliary. She was a very active member of Azalea Baptist Church for 53 years and a longtime member of the Brittany Points Garden Club. She is survived by her three children, Ronald Burgess (Linda) of Woodbridge, Va., Elizabeth Alice Burgess and Stephen Burgess (Kimberly) of Virginia Beach, five grandchildren and four great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. A graveside service will take place at Princess Anne Memorial Park at 10 a.m. Friday, Nov. 12, followed by a memorial service at 11:30 a.m. in Azalea Baptist Church, Norfolk. A viewing will be held today, Nov. 11 at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel, from 7 to 9 p.m. Memorial donations may be made to Azalea Baptist Church, Sentara Virginia Beach General Hospital Auxiliary or the Brittany Points Garden Club. Online condolences may be made to the family at hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Nov. 10 to Nov. 11, 2010.

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Janet Wykle

December 3, 2010

Alice I was so sorry to hear about your moms passing. She was a great friend to my mom and I know the loss you are feeling.You are in my thoughts and prayers

November 11, 2010

I had the pleasure of meeting Mrs. Pankey when she moved into the apartments I was managing. Mrs. Pankey had a special twinkle in her eye and a sweet smile everytime our paths crossed. My thoughts and prayers go out to Alice and the rest of the family at this sad time. Noel Simmons

Heather Bell-Clayton

November 10, 2010

I have many fond memories of Nell that go back a long long time. She made all the goodies for my wedding in 1979 and treated the Clayton family to some scrumptous dinners on some of the holidays. I wish her family many happy memories and prayers at this time.
Heather Bell-Clayton

November 10, 2010

Nell gave my name to the Pastor Selection Committee of Azalea Baptist Church where she was a member. I have always felt indebted to her for this! God bless you Nell.
Rev. Dr. C. Norman Bennett, Jr.
Pastor of Azalea from May 01,1965-October 01, 1970

Chris Brown

November 10, 2010

She was an amazing neighbor to our family, a true friend to my parents and part of our family

November 10, 2010

Truly an amazing woman who will be missed by all. Prayers for peace and comfort during this difficult time. The Graziano's

Brian Barnes

November 10, 2010

I know that Nell has gone home to a place we all want to be, I truly celebrate that. I love her and will miss her a great deal.

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