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Shirley Upton Obituary

Shirley H. Upton NORFOLK - Shirley Ruth Hammer Upton, 80, passed away quietly in her home in Norfolk Oct. 15, 2010. Born July 21, 1930 in Mount Vernon, Mo., she was the daughter of Nona Hammer and the late C. Emery Hammer. She was a graduate of Norview High School, a member of Cornerstone Baptist Church and a former day care owner. Mrs. Upton was the widow of Quinton C. Upton Jr. and is survived by her mother, Nona Hammer; her children: Roberta Upton of Norfolk; Mary Upton Zamora and husband, Joel Zamora of Hephzibah, Ga.; Kathy Upton and husband Curtis McBride of Azle, Texas; and David Upton of Winston-Salem, N.C. She is also survived by her grandchildren: Nicholas Zamora and wife, Moana of Georgia; Melissa Zamora of Georgia; Rebecca Evans of North Carolina; Susan Evans McDonnell and husband Chance of Texas; Nathanial and Geoffrey Upton of North Carolina. Mrs.Upton was predeceased by her sister, Carolyn H. Garris. Services will be private, for her immediate family only, and will be held at a later date. Condolences may be sent to [email protected]. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Medi Home Health & Hospice of Chesapeake, or to the donor's favorite charity. Arrangements are being handled by the Cremation & Burial Society of Hampton Roads.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Oct. 19, 2010.

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Melissa Zamora

October 20, 2010

I just want to thank everyone for their prayers during this difficult time. My grandmother will forever be a special person in my life. I will always and forever cherish my memories I have of my vacations in Va. I hope I can half the mother she was to my aunts, uncle, and mom to my daughter. I love you granny. Love Melissa and Isabella Marie

Melissa Zamora

October 20, 2010

I want to thank everyone for their prayers during this difficult time in our life. My grandmother was and will always be a special person in my life. I just hope i can be half the mother she was to my daughter. I will forever cherish my memories i have spending my vacations in Va with her. I love you forever granny. Love Melissa and Isabella.

RAY COLESON

October 19, 2010

TO THE UPTON FAMILY MAY GOD COMFORT YOU ALWAYS. IN CHRIST RAY COLESON AND FAMILY

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