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Wendy Barnes Obituary

Wendy Bourne Barnes WILLIAMSBURG - Wendy Barnes, born March 24, 1960, passed away on July 5, 2010 after a 2½-year battle with cancer. She is the daughter of Sadie Ann Bourne of Hampton and the late William A. Bourne Jr. Wendy was preceded in death by her daughter, CC, and is survived by her loving husband of 21 years, retired Senior Chief Petty Officer Daniel Barnes; their two children, Chelsea and Ian; her four siblings and their spouses, Elizabeth Wickline and husband William, Mary Gaskins, William A. Bourne III and wife Jennifer; and Philip Bourne and wife Nancy; their families, and many beloved nieces and nephews. A private ceremony will be held for the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made "In Memory of Wendy Barnes" to the American Cancer Society, 11835 Canon Blvd., Ste. A102, Newport News, VA 23606. Arrangements are by Berceuse Funeral and Cremation Traditions in Hampton, (757) 825-8070.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 7, 2010.

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Lynda Land

July 12, 2010

We are so sad to hear of Wendy's passing. She carried herself with such grace and courage throughout her fight that we'd made up our minds she would win it. Now our hearts mourn for a wonderful woman gone too soon, such a great mother and friend. We mourn for her friends and most especially, her family. She left such a remarkable legacy in her children; she changed the world around her for the better. Chelsea, call us anytime. We are here for you.

David & Colleen Dymarcik

July 11, 2010

Dan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Ian and Chelsea this day. Colleen and i are saddened by your loss. Wendy's smile is what i remember most and your friendship is with us forever.

John and Liz Barrett

July 9, 2010

PD, Nancy, Katie and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.

Antonio&Vivian Frances

July 8, 2010

He's a friend to the lonely,A safe hiding place,We can always find shelter in God's loving embrace,He's the comforting presence we seek in the night,In life's darkest hour,He's an unfailing light,Be assured God is there,He will never forsake you nor leave you alone,For the shepherd is faithful to care for His own,your family is in our prayers and thoughts and your love one is with the Lord and in your heart!

Sandy Fisher (Cline)

July 7, 2010

To the Siblings of Wendy Barnes,

I was so sorry to read of Wendy's death in the paper. Wendy was a beautiful person and I remember her well. I am thinking of Wendy's family, especially Wendy's siblings. It has been a long time since I have seen any of you and I am sorry my message of sympathy has to come at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Karen Downing

July 7, 2010

Liz,
I was really saddened to hear that your sister passed away. I hope all of your fond memories of her will help you during this difficult time. I also hope you find comfort in the fact that others care about you and your family and are praying for all of you.

Fondly,
Karen Downing
Yorktown, Virginia

Karen Taylor

July 7, 2010

Dear, dear Chelsea, Ian, and your Dad,

Our thoughts and love are with you, especially during this time of mixed emotions. Having your Mom in Heaven without pain is wonderful, yet I know you will miss her on a daily basis. Please know we are here for you...anytime for an ear, a hug, and support! Much love and blessings!

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