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Mary Nied Obituary
On Sunday, January 6, 2008, of Forest Hills. Loving mother of Matthew C. Nied and his wife Nicole, Patrick J. Nied and Catherine M. Nied, all of Pgh.; loving grandmother of Jacob and Hannah; dear sister of Jack Molyneaux and his wife Mary and the late Jean Molyneaux; aunt of Jeanne Molyneaux and her sons, Brady and Ryan; and the late Jackie. After receiving a degree in History and Education from St. Francis College in Loretto, PA, Mary taught high school English and History at Sacred Heart High School in Shadyside. In 1964 she volunteered in the newly formed Peace Corps, and her journey took her to the Phillipines, where she taught for two years. Upon returning to the US, Mary again taught at Sacred Heart High School, while attending evening classes at Carnegie Mellon University where she earned her Masters Degree. She continued to teach part-time at Sacred Heart High School while raising her three children. Upon the closing of Sacred Heart High School, Mary took a position as a Research Specialist at the University of Pittsburgh with the Study of Early Childcare, where she remained until retirement last year. Friends received 2-4 & 6-8 pm Tuesday and Wednesday at the THOMAS L. NIED FUNERAL HOME, INC. 7441 Washington St., Swissvale. Mass of Christian Burial in the St. Anselm Roman Catholic Church on Thursday at 10 am. In lieu of flowers, please send memorial contributions in Mary's memory to the St. Joseph's House of Hospitality, 1635 Bedford Ave., Pgh., PA 15219 (412-471-0666). (The Nied Funeral Home is a Proud Member of the Good Grief Center.)
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Pat,Noreen,Sandy,Mary and Carol.. "The Girls"
July 20, 2008
Gramma,Jacob,and Hannah Sept. 2007
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Jacob and Gramma Summer 2006
July 20, 2008
Gramma and Jacob April 16th 2006
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Gramma and Hannah Aug.9th 2007
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Kevin Leary
February 21, 2008
I worked as one of Mary's student employees on the Child Care Study. She was one of the most kindhearted and wonderful people I have ever met. Her sarcastic wit was the greatest joy of going to work there each day and it helped me form a strong connection with her. In the short time I knew her, Mary helped me grow as a student and a psychologist. I can only offer my deepest condolences. I will miss her dearly.
Kathryn Petrie
February 1, 2008
Kate and family,
I just learned of your mother's passing and am so sorry I was not able to attend the funeral and come down to see you. She was a wonderful neighbor and friend. I will truly miss seeing her outside in her garden. May she be at peace and in a never-ending garden of light.
Dave, Debie, Sean, Megan and Ryan Remaley
January 17, 2008
We have been lucky enough to have Mary be a part of our lives for the past 16 years through the Child Care Study. We were sorry to see her retire but knew that she needed to have that time for you. Our hearts were saddened to learn of your loss - thank you for sharing Mary with us and please know that you and your families are in our thoughts and prayers
Karen Hart-Collins
January 11, 2008
To the Nied Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. My children were part of her study at the University of Pittsburgh. What an incredible person she was. I have no doubt that she is an angel in heaven. God Bless you all.
The Cappettas
January 9, 2008
Matt, Pat and Katie,
We were so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. We have many wonderful memories from our days on Schoyer Ave. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you during this time of sorrow.
Miriam Messick
January 9, 2008
Mary was a household name in our family. We met her through the child care study and for many years looked forward to her calls and visits. She soon became an active member on our invited list to dance recitals, graduations and treated like family. Always a happy and upbeat lady, you just loved her. She will be missed by many and loved by all. Our sympathies to her family and grandchildren with whom she cared and played with during her illness and retirement days.
The Messicks
John Connolly
January 9, 2008
Matthew, Patrick, and Katie,
My deepest sympathy on the passing of your mother. She was a caring and loving person to all that knew her. She was a true friend to my mother for many years and will be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dave Soltesz
January 8, 2008
Nied Family:
Friends and neighbors for so many years. Our families grew up together. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
The Soltesz Family
Camilla von Stauffenberg
January 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I feel lucky to have met Mary and had her in my life - I will miss her greatly.
Karen Clark
January 8, 2008
I bet it's impossible to calculate how many lives Mary touched and all the good she did for them. I met her through the child care study and was always impressed with how much she cared for and liked people. Her life is an example for all of us. I'll miss her.
Connie Anderson
January 8, 2008
'Miss Molyneaux' was one of many fabulous teachers at Sacred Heart! The 'heart' girls were so fortunate to have a dedicated faculty.
Patti Matestic
January 8, 2008
I wanted to send all of you my deepest sympathies. I was a graduate student who worked with your mother on the NICHD Study of Early Childcare and I only recently moved back to my hometown of Seattle. Mary's friendship meant the world to me and brightened my time in Pittsburgh. She talked frequently about how much she enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren and bird watching in her yard. She will be deeply missed!
Mary Carol Geddis
January 8, 2008
I was one of Miss Molyneaux's students at Sacred Heart High in 1963 when I was a sophomore. She was so glamorous, we thought,because she used Tabu cologne. My condolences to your family on the loss of Mary.
Mary Carol Kirchner Geddis
Melbourne, FL
Stephanie Zerwas
January 8, 2008
I am so saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. I also worked with Mary at the University of Pittsburgh and was glad to call her a friend. She had such a wonderful, spunky spirit. She could be wickedly funny and extremely kind. She was such a giving person and worked hard to care for those closest in her life. I would often admire the collection of the pictures of families from the child care study in her office. Beyond the data she worked tirelessly to collect, the Christmas cards, school pictures, and snapshots on her wall presented such a wonderful history. From visiting the families with her, it was obvious that they adored her and considered her a part of their family.
Mary also had such a love of literature. I enjoyed sharing books and New Yorkers with her and always appreciated her insight into a novel’s themes. I used to love to hear her tell her own stories of growing up in my adopted neighborhood of Swisshelm Park and her time in the Peace Corp. After my son was born, she became a surrogate office grandmother to him, and her baby-wisdom helped me immensely as a young mother. I know she was so very proud of her children and overjoyed at the birth of her grandchildren.
In true Mary form, she fought such a battle against a disease that claims too many of our loved ones. She has such a special place in my heart. I miss her greatly and my thoughts go to her family at this time. Peace be with you, Mary.
The Taylor Family
January 8, 2008
Patrick and family,
It is with deep regret that we send our condolences and pray that you and your family find the peace you seek. Recall and cherish the wonderful attributes that made your mother great and is carried on in all of you.
God Bless
Grace Smith
January 8, 2008
To the Nied Family,
My family had the pleasure of getting to know Mary over the many years associated with the early childhood study. She was a warm and wonderful person, who clearly had a passion for her work and a love of children. My entire family, especially my 17 year old son, offers their deepest sympathy.
Noreen Corcoran
January 7, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you at this time.
Nancy Longo
January 7, 2008
I am sorry to hear about your loss of your Mom.
With Deepest Sympathy.
Sissy Burkhart
January 7, 2008
I am sorry about your loss. May you and your family find comfort in your memories. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Linda Mueller
January 7, 2008
I worked with Mary on the Child Care Study. I can not even began to say how much I learned from her about enjoying people and making families feel welcome. She always treated them with kindness and respect, and they all loved her for it. She also showed the same kindness to staff and was always a good listener and friend.
She will truly be missed.
rick, sandy & brenda nebel
January 7, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Susan Lithgow
January 7, 2008
Matt:
I'm so sorry to hear of your Mother's death. She put up a valiant battle and is now at peace. I pray your sorrow will soon be replaced by happy memories. You, Nicole, Jacob and Hannah are in my thoughts.
Blessings,
Susan
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