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Charles Marr Obituary
Millbrook - Fred Marr grew up during the Depression in Greenwich, CT, served in the Navy, worked for IBM for 30 years, and, most important to him, married and raised a family in Yorktown, NY, before moving to Millbrook, NY.
He had a kind word for every stranger he came across and a knack for turning them into friends. He was Uncle Fred, the elder of the annual golf reunion. Poppy would envelop his dozen grandchildren with a hug so warm and gentle that it would stay with them. Having him as a father-in-law was a marital bonus for Jerry, Debbie, Mindy, Traci and Marissa. To his daughter Susan Crean and four sons Chuck, Doug, Scott and David, he was such a good Dad, a father who was always there, a source of strength and unconditional love and, boy, was he fun. He never missed a game, especially if a Marr was playing or coaching. And, what a husband. For 61 years, he was the world for his beloved wife Dorothy.
At any event, he always wanted to be the last to leave. So full of life and love, even at 86, his family feels he left far too soon. But he did leave behind wonderful memories to cherish and a role model and legacy of pure decency.
Viewing hours will be at the Allen Funeral Home in Millbrook on Friday. Services will be Saturday. In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Boys and Girls Club of America (bgca.org), a place where Fred felt fortunate to have spent many happy hours during his childhood.
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Nancy Geraghty
July 1, 2017
So sorry to hear of the loss of your dad, Scott. This obituary is a beautiful tribute to a really warm and kind man. I just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to the whole Marr Family...from a fellow Yorktowner ...
Barbara Moore
June 30, 2017
I knew Fred from our senior group. He was a fun fun guy. He liked playing cards with his friends. He always had a good thing to say on just about every subject. I will miss him he had a kind heart. My thoughts and prayers go to his family.
Terry Rae
June 30, 2017
Fred Marr was one of the sweetest men I ever knew. He loved his family as well as lacrosse.
Our condolences to all of his family, plus his extended family of lacrosse players. I just wish we were closer so that Bob and I could attend the service.
Love to Dorothy and all of his children and grandchildren. He will be missed more than words can express!
Susan Crean
June 29, 2017
Additional information: wake from 4-8pm on Friday, June 30 at Allen Funeral home. Funeral on July 1 at Lyall Federated Church (30 Maple Ave) Millbrook at 10am.
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