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1929

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2015

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Robert Diesing Obituary

Robert M. Diesing

Wappingers Falls - On November 21, 1929 Otto Diesing and Ethel (Wright) Diesing, the parents of Robert Matthew Diesing celebrated his life's beginning. This week, our family will celebrate Bob's mortal life's end. In the quiet sanctuary of Vassar Brothers Medical Center, with his beloved family by his side, Robert Matthew Diesing entered into his final rest on May 17, 2015.

Left in the quiet void of his passing, is his wife Marilyn Jean Sutton whom he married December 4, 1960. A son Edward Diesing, and wife Wendy; a son Daniel Diesing and his companion Lisa Mc Guire and Marilyn's son Marshall Arthur Chilton. He is also survived by five granddaughters, Tiffany Lynn Chilton-Pacheco, Amanda Nichole Diesing, Ashley Marie de Baun, Mollie Danielle Diesing and Katie-Lynn Diesing. He is also survived by a sister-in-law Helen Sutton Parsons, a daughter-in-law, Colleen Howard Diesing, and a son-in-law, James W. de Baun.

Mr. Diesing was predeceased by his daughter. Marilyn Jean-Marie. Living on a farm we would be amiss if our pets and farm animals currently (and the 'Spirits' of all through the years) were not remembered. We must not forget Ginger and Buzz our latest two little dogs that can do no wrong and the goats that followed Bob when he was near them on the golf cart. When the goats broke away from their confines they never left the immediate area, they would stand near Bob's parked golf cart patiently waiting for the man who always fed them.

Mr. Diesing left his studies at Poughkeepsie High School to become the loving Guardian (owner) of what was to become Meadowbrook Farm Orchards and Farm Market that had not been a viable working farm for many years. Meadowbrook was named in the 1800s. This Farm was a weekend and summer family home purchased by Mr. Diesing's parents when he was fourteen. Mr. Diesing innately knew that his life's purpose was to love and care for this parcel of land for his lifetime. Twelve milking cows were purchased. Three hundred apple trees were rescued. The apples were picked, and sold wholesale. There was a small table in front of the house with garden produce. People paid on the honor system. In 1964, it was decided that we would sell the cows sell the hay outright. We started selling apples, tomatoes and sweet corn retail. There were so few customers that Mrs. Diesing rode her bicycle back and forth from the house to the barn to wait on the customers. With the love and guidance of our Creator, Mr. Diesing's full lifetime devotion and with the love and help of his wife Marilyn and son's Edward and Daniel along with our dedicated staff "Meadowbrook", has continued to grow and remain in the family.

TO THE WORLD BOB WAS JUST ONE, BUT HE WAS OUR WORLD. NO ONE WILL BE ABLE TO FILL BOB'S SHOES BUT HIS FAMILY ARE PROUD TO BE ABLE TO FOLLOW IN HIS FOOTSTEPS.

Funeral Services are under the direction of Mc Houl Funeral Home Hopewell Junction. Calling hours will be Tuesday May 19, 2015 from 4-7. Funeral services will be from the funeral home on Wednesday May 20th at 9:30am. The Memorial Service will be conducted by Pastor Elias Carrero (Milford PA) at the funeral home and immediately after at the cemetery. Mr. Diesing's final earthly resting place will be in the W. section at the Poughkeepsie Rural cemetery where there is a placement of memorial stones that give honor to his life, his love and dedication, as well as the lives of his and his wife's parents.

Feel free to honor "The Spirit of Bob" in your own personal way. Do something that inspires you and the universe in Bob's memory. Bob was partial to "THE WALKWAY OVER THE HUDSON" Scenic landmark and The Trevor Zoo, 131 Millbrook School Rd. Millbrook N.Y. 12545. We want to thank our caring dedicated Doctor, Edward K. Schneider and his devoted office staff for their medical expertise and compassion. We add a special mention of gratitude to Lorraine and Sue. Plus. "The angel in disguise" (nurse) at the Vassar E R Catherine (Cathy.) "ANYONE CAN COUNT THE SEEDS IN AN APPLE." "ONLY GOD CAN COUNT THE APPLES IN A SEED."

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Poughkeepsie Journal from May 18 to May 20, 2015.

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Edna Winters

June 1, 2015

Dear Marilyn and Family,
I just learned of Bob's death and send my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to you all.

Heidi Hoferichter

May 31, 2015

Sending lots of love to Mrs. Diesing and Family... You are all in my thoughts... Will miss hearing that laugh and seeing that smile of yours, Mr. Diesing.. You were one of a kind and I'll always have fond memories of and nostalgia for Meadowbrook Farm ... Rest in Peace.

Karin Enders (Brickwedel)

May 30, 2015

I had some of my best growing up adventures at the farm. Uncle Bob's sweet smile will stay in my heart forever. I'm so sorry for your loss, but so thankful to have had him as part of my life.

JoAnn Tucker

May 29, 2015

Sweet memories of Uncle Bob and the farm.

May 27, 2015

Marily&Family,we are so sorry to hear of Bobs passing,God bless you and your family. ~ The Mansfield Family~

May 26, 2015

I will always remember Bob,s warm ,welcoming,friendly smile from the times he use to plow our driveway thru seeing him scoop around on his golf cart. I will always see him lurking around at Meadow Brook and miss him. My heart goes out to ALL of you at this very sad time. Dawn F.

The PESSIA family

May 21, 2015

Thanks for the memories and so sorry for our loss.

East Fishkill Women's Softball League

May 21, 2015

Our sympathies are with you all.

Ron & Karen Corbin

May 20, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tim Nuhn

May 20, 2015

On behalf of the Nuhn family, I want to offer our deepest sympathies to Aunt Marilyn and the Diesings. Although we would see each other rarely, I have fond memories of the farm and Uncle Bob.

cathy

May 19, 2015

Thank you so much for the love you showed me...it was my honor to provide care to your loved one. Thank you for sharing the photo of him sleeping on his doggy. So glad that his last memories were beautiful Lovely family.

Amy & Patrick Towne

May 19, 2015

Our condolences to the entire Diesing family. Our prayers are with you!

May 19, 2015

Our deepest sympathies to the Diesing family. We are saying prayers for all of you
Tom and Sia Oepen, Poughquag NY

James Pittman

May 18, 2015

My condolences and prayers to Dan, Ed and the Diesing family.

The McGowan Family

May 18, 2015

Our Deepest sympathy's to the Diesing Family . Bob is in our prays . Always a firm welcoming hand shake & smile . Truly a man of men . He will be deeply missed . May he rest in peace .

May 18, 2015

Marilyn, Ed, Danny,
My thoughts are with you. Loosing people is hard, especially when they have the qualities that Bob had. He taught me a great deal. Even during a difficult work task, he had the the best attitude. He was the kind of person that was easily respected and admired. Many wonderful memories from my first job (ever) of picking up cider apples in the early 60's. He was very tolerant of working with young kids, I know. He will always be in my memories. The best ones.
My thoughts and prayers are are with you.
Bruce Witthans

Missy Kirwan-Mulligan

May 18, 2015

So very sorry for your loss. Though, I am just another face at the farm, certainly Bob "the farmer" was not just another face to my family and I. It was always a special place to go. A comforting place to be. I was raised in this area and Meadowbrook is an important part of my memories. May you all be blessed with wonderful memories.

May 18, 2015

So very sorry for your loss Dan.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
God Bless. Aprille Browne

Kathy Williams

May 18, 2015

Ed and family,
We are so saddened to hear about Bob's passing. He was truly blessed to have such a close, loving family. And you were all blessed to have shared a lifetime with a wonderful father, husband and grandfather. We hope that the fond memories you have of Bob, will give you comfort. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love, Cousin Kathy, Scott, Ashley and Rachel

Susan Hemroth

May 18, 2015

To a great man who loved his family and the whole community. Always been hard working and remembered the children's names and their children. Our thoughts are with your family. The Hemroths,Mortimers and Lagana families. Thank you

George HEMROTH

May 18, 2015

What a real loss of a legend of Meyers Corners, always willing to work for his community, my deepest regrets to the Diesing family and a man I admired.

Rich Badaracco

May 18, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have so many wonderful memories of Bob and the farm. His passing is a loss for the entire community.

May 18, 2015

To Mr. Diesing's beloved family,
I am so sorry to read of his passing.
My deepest sympathy.
Jenny Grossman-Lee

Tom Creighton

May 18, 2015

Danny and family I am very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Terri Ishii

May 18, 2015

You were always like a Father to me. You will be missed by many. All my Love!

C.Ronald Andersson

May 18, 2015

Marilynn,Ed,Dan and Diesing Family,
Sorry to hear of Bob's passing,you have many good memories that will help you through times like this......
Rest In Peace..

Suzanne Taurone

May 18, 2015

My condolences to the whole family :(

Christina Brickwedel, Nicholas

May 18, 2015

Every time I fill a potted plant I think of Bob and I chuckle. He would say don't fill it too much because the flowers are going to grow and fill out. That is just one small memory I have of him among many. He was a dear friend; he was God Father for my daughter Karin.

Heidi Boula

May 18, 2015

Rest In Peace, Mr. Diesing...May you be in peace in God's loving arms. It was an honor to have known you for most of my life and you will be missed

John Darcy

May 18, 2015

To the Diesing Family and Mrs. Parsons, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences.

Tim Terry

May 18, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Deepest sympathy to the entire family.

Angie Rivera

May 18, 2015

My deepest sympathy Marilyn & Family. Such a great loss to our area. RIP Bob, it was great meeting you.

Kevin,Bridget & Danielle Connolly

May 17, 2015

Our deepest & most heartfelt sympathy's to all the Diesing family, our thoughts & prayers are with you at this most difficult time. May you find peace in the wonderful memories that will always surround you & may he Rest in Peace.

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