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Donald McKinley Allen obituary, Binghamton, NY

Donald Allen Obituary

Allen, Donald McKinley

Binghamton: Donald McKinley Allen died unexpectedly on October 7, 2012 at the age of 67. He was predeceased by his parents, Hank and Edna Appleman; his brother, William Appleman and a special friend, Irwin Gooen. He is survived by his loving and beloved family, wife Heidi Kaufmann; daughter, Rachel Allen, and Heidi's extended family, who Donald continued to love, even when he realized they were not the Waltons, Leslie and Don, Jeff and Linda, Gary and Connie, Greg and Nancy, Hilary, Craig. He is also survived by his special nieces and nephews, Dana and Spencer, Erin and Mark, Crystal and Shana, Wiley and Sydney, Ryan, Avalon, Bella, and Marcus; his closest, dearest, oldest friend Alan Steinberg; his goddaughters, Maresa and Sarah Strano; his daughter, Rachel's many friends; his cousin, Debbie Barcan, NJ; his Bible/Torah group Mike Ashman and Doug Beattie and his adopted family, Debbie and Joe Strano. He also leaves many other dear friends. Donald was a graduate of Stuyvesant High School in New York City and Brooklyn College. Donald was a devoted father and husband. He was a man of many talents and interests, including a house designer/builder, craft-show promoter/maestro, set designer, jeweler, cook/baker, photographer and sailor/navigator. Donald was a crackpot inventor, writer and poet, philosopher, musicologist, film and art aficionado, teacher of everything and lover of history. He was intellectually curious, a storyteller, a political commentator, a leader and a fixer of everything. He loved travel and adventure. After his retirement, Donald's new commitment became his involvement with Binghamton University's radio station WHRW, where he was able to express his love for music and his opinions on politics. His dedication to the station and their staff knew no bounds. Donald was committed to the study of Judaism, as well as the practice of meditation. He was a work-in-progress toward self-realization and a devotee of Paramahansa Yogananda. He was grateful for the spiritual guidance given by Edna, Roger, and Nina. Donald lived his life his own way, with passion and courage. He wanted to know about everything and now he does. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be sent to the Binghamton Foundation, P.O. Box 6005, Binghamton, NY 13902, ATTN: WHRW or to NYRAD.ORG. The family wishes to thank the City of Binghamton Fire Dept., the ER staff and their minister at Lourdes Hospital as well as Dr. Kashou, Social Worker Victor Jenks and the surgical staff at the Cardiac Catherization Unit at UHS Wilson Hospital for all their efforts on Donald's behalf. A Memorial Service will be held at the J.A. McCormack Sons Funeral Home, 141 Main Street, Binghamton, Friday at 1 p.m. Rabbi Barbara Goldman-Wartell, Spiritual Leader at Temple Concord, Binghamton will officiate. The family will receive friends at the McCormack Funeral Home, Friday from 12 noon until 1 p.m.

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Oct. 10 to Oct. 12, 2012.

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April 1, 2013

Dear Heidi and Rachel...I just stumbled upon this sadly to learn of Donald's passing. My heart goes out to you both and pray that you are fine. I knew Donald in Brooklyn College...we had a speech class together and later became close friends. I had just put up the song "Ne me quite pas" from "The Umbrellas of Cherbourg" and thought of Donald or Don as I knew him then, for we had seen that movie and everyone at that time loved the song...and started to look for him to say hi and sadly found this. I spoke with Donald maybe once or twice after college, and the last time we spoke he told me he was so happy to have had a beautiful daughter. I know he loved you. May he rest in peace. I remember him as an amazing photographer. Although we did not keep in touch for many years I have always had kind thoughts of him and am saddened to learn of his passing.

Debby Barcan

December 5, 2012

Dear Heidi and Rachel,
I was shocked to read of Donald's passing which I happened upon just by chance. As his only cousin on Edna's side of the family, I knew him since the first week of his life. Although I wasn't in contact too often, I thought about him many times and what a beautiful and smart boy he was, and how much everyone in the family loved him.

Craig Smith

October 13, 2012

Heidi,Rachel
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Donald's passing. My prayers and love go out to both of you during this difficult time. Donald was the most interesting person I've ever met. Incredible memory, true talent, great cook, quick wit and not afraid to speak his mind. Over 25 years that I knew Donald, his kindness was evident in all he did. Donald will be missed in human form, but he will always be in our hearts and memories.
Love you both,
Craig

October 12, 2012

As you gather to remember Donald, I can only say I wish I had known him. He sounds exactly the kind of person to inspire and warm the hearts of those around him. Deepest sympathy, cousin Roberta

Michael and Susan Randolph

October 12, 2012

Heidi,
Sue and I are both shocked and saddened to receive the news of Donald's passing and grieve for you both. We cannot, however, help but recall with great happiness and warmth, all of the memories we have of you and your family back on Eastwood Drive, especially with Rachel at BAT and the Downtown Singers performances when you and her mom sang the Messiah, and Don and Rachel helped out with the bake sales. Our hearts, prayers and our love go out to you both.

October 12, 2012

Don's sense of humor and his enthusiasm and energy will live on in all of us,
Lew Sellinger

October 11, 2012

My condolences to your family, during this difficult time may you draw close to god and he will draw closer to you(james 4:8)

Victor Furman

October 11, 2012

My Prayers go out to the extended family & Friends of Mr. Allen. In death comes new life a new begining may Donald Find everlasting peace

McCall Foster

October 11, 2012

Heidi and Rachel,
Words cannot express my sympathy. I enjoyed spending time with the three of you last winter. I wish you the best in this time and send my greatest respects to Donald. With Love.

Michele Marsh

October 10, 2012

Donald was a loving, spirited friend and a marvelous addition, with his dear wife Heidi, to many of our family occasions with Debbie Greenberg-Strano and our cousin Joe Strano. His vitality, curiosity, strong intellect and wonderful sense of humor will be greatly missed. Donald was a lover of life and will always be missed by those of us lucky to share wonderful times with him.
With much love for Donald, Heidi and Rachel,
Michele Marsh and Mike Graziano

October 10, 2012

Isaac and Jessica Fromm will miss a good friend, a good sailor, and good companion.

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