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Stephen Stelmak Obituary
Stephen John Stelmak, 53, of Vestal passed away peacefully on Friday November 13, 2015 surrounded by his family and friends. He was predeceased by his grandparents, Richard W. and Camilla Green and stepfather-in-law, James O'Shea. He is survived by his wife, Karen M. Stelmak, Vestal; daughter, Julia Stelmak and fiancé, Tate Botting, Binghamton; parents, George and Joyce Stelmak, Vestal; mother-in-law, Joyce O'Shea, Chenango Bridge; sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Deborah Kish and fiancé, Rick Lachmanski, Endwell, James and Stephanie Blodgett, Endicott, Richard and Florence Blodgett, Endicott and Kathleen and Dennis Tweedie, Painted Post; many nieces, nephews and cousins. Stephen was a self-employed mason in the area most of his life and spent the past several years working closely with his long time friend Dan Dougherty. He loved Sandy Pond, boating, fishing, skiing and snowmobiling. He was a one-of-a-kind, generous, loving husband and father and was always there for his family and friends by doing whatever he could to help and continued to give by being an organ donor. A celebration of Stephen's life will be held at Barnaby's Pub 2101 E. Main Street, Endwell, Wednesday November 18, from 4-8 pm. Expressions of sympathy in Stephen's memory may be made to the family for Steve's Medical Fund on gofundme.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Stelmak
steve diefendorf
March 28, 2016
I sold Steve parts over the years and we became pretty good friends. When ever I saw him out anywhere he would always offer up a hand shake. Great guy. God Bless his family and friends.
Jennifer Doetzer
January 1, 2016
Karen, so sorry for your loss. With deepest sympathy. Thoughts and prayers.
Dr. Joseph T. Hogan
December 8, 2015
Please accept my condolences.
November 22, 2015
Love and prayers from your friends at Sandy Pond.
Ron & Nancy Myers
November 20, 2015
Karen & Julia, So sorry to learn of your loss. There is a big hole in the hearts of Steve's many friends. He was the guy we all thought would be around forever. We hope you find comfort in knowing how much he was liked.
Shari Cook
November 18, 2015
I'm so sorry for your loss. He will truly be missed, and my sympathies are with you at this difficult time.
November 18, 2015
Thinking of you Karen and Julia at this most difficult time. Steve will always be remembered for the exceptionally kind person that he was.
Ana Borrelli
November 17, 2015
Very, very sorry to hear of this loss. Karen and Julia, thinking of you both during this tough time <3
November 17, 2015
Spent many good times with Steve in the early years that I will always treasure. He was certainly one of the good guys and my heart is broken for your loss Karen. May you be blessed with strength and hold dear all the wonderful memories you have, for those you will have forever~
Andrea Gates
Tony Williams
November 17, 2015
My condolences to Steve ' s family and friends.Steve and I first met many years ago while attending summer school in Binghamton. We quickly became friends.Big guy with a gentle heart.
Carrie Machalek
November 17, 2015
Karen, Julia & family - so saddened by this news. Steve was a great guy and will be missed. Thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
November 17, 2015
Karen and Julia,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our hearts go out to you both during this difficult time. Sincerely, Kim, Scott, Lexie and Josh Avery
Colleen Gurn
November 17, 2015
Karen and Julia,
May God help you through this time of sudden loss. Steve was such a fun guy he will be missed by so many. You are in my prayers.
Vicky Nicholson
November 17, 2015
To Joyce, George and family, my heart is heavy for many reasons. I will always remember our sons going on vacation together and the fun we had. Keep joy in your hearts and wonderful memories.
Christine Blaha Pimentel
November 17, 2015
Karen , my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in friends and family.
Ann & Bob Scales
November 16, 2015
Karen,Julia & Family
So very sorry for your loss.With deepest sympathy
Steve & Pam Westcott
November 16, 2015
We are so sorry. He was a wonderful person and is going to be greatly missed.
November 16, 2015
Thoughts and prayers to Karen and Steve's family.We have lots of good memories of Steve as he was growing up in the Willow Point area.
!Our condolences... Ruth Moyle and Family
Pat Lachmanski Dohoney
November 16, 2015
Karen, Julia, and family,
Steve enriched so many lives in his 53 years. I never saw him without a smile. Saying good bye to such a young, great man is the hardest sorrow to bear. There are no answers to comfort your grief, only lasting love and memories. Our deepest sympathies are with you during this time.
Tim and Terri Smacher
November 16, 2015
Karen, Julia and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Steve will be missed by many but also remembered fondly by many. Hugs and prayers to all
Donna Butler
November 16, 2015
Thought and prayers are with you and your family at this time. so sorry for your loss. my you find strength amongst your friends and family at this hour of need. God Bless
November 16, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. May peace be with you.
Cassie Piscopo
anita portelli
November 16, 2015
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Steffie Roney
November 16, 2015
Joyce,George and Steve's Family. So sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers.
Gary Shuta
November 16, 2015
R. I. P. My Friend
November 16, 2015
Karen, Julia and family...I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to all.
Tina(Rector)Mathewson,Vestal
November 16, 2015
Karen, Julia and family...I am sorry sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to all.
Cindy and Philip Gottlieb
November 16, 2015
Dear Joyce and George (and Stephen's family),
We are so sorry to learn of Stephen's passing. We share in your sorrow and loss and pray for the strength to get you through this difficult time. May your cherished memories and the love of family and friends soften the pain of his loss.
Nick Angelo
November 15, 2015
My thoughts and prayers go out to Steve's wife, daughter and parents. He grew up next door to me and my family and was always friendly and helpful. He will be missed.
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