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2019
Monica Choperena Obituary
Monica Riley Choperena, formerly of Dunkirk, NY, died on January 21, 2019, in San Francisco, CA. She was born in Dunkirk on January 11, 1958, to the late Joseph D. and Ann "Nancy" Riley. She attended Cardinal Mindszenty High School and the SUNY-Fredonia. She earned a degree of Bachelor of Arts in Health Services Administration from Saint Mary's College of California. She married Jack Reilly, also formerly of Dunkirk, on November 27, 2010, in Fredonia, NY. Monica spent her career in nursing home administration in New York and California, most recently at Apple Valley Care & Rehabilitation in Sebastopol, CA.
Monica enjoyed traveling, visiting many places in the USA and Europe. She especially loved spending time in Spain, particularly the Basque Country, and at her house in the small mountain town of Goizueta, Navarre, a place close to her heart, where she brought many friends and relatives to visit over the years. Monica also twice made the long trek through northwestern Spain along the ancient pilgrimage route known as el Camino de Santiago, hiking from Roncesvalles to the shrine city of Santiago de Compostela.
She is survived by her husband, Jack, her step-daughters, Janna Reilly of Petaluma, CA, and Maggie Reilly of Brooklyn, NY, as well as her brothers Denis Riley of Merritt Island, FL, Bruce Riley of Garberville, CA, Brian Riley of Fredonia, NY, Thomas Riley of Alameda, CA, Brendan Riley of San Diego, CA, and her sister, Mary Riley McPherson of Fredonia, NY. Other survivors include dozens of nieces and nephews and several sisters- and brothers-in-law.
A memorial celebration will be held in Petaluma, CA, at a date to be determined.
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Memories and Condolences
for Monica Choperena
Ali Carter
February 1, 2019
Heaven received a gracious Angel. She was my Administrator at Golden Living in Petaluma. Her fairness and dedication cannot be duplicated. My prayers are with Jack and family.
BEVERLY DAVIES
February 1, 2019
I WORKED WITH MONICA FOR MANY YEARS SHE WILL SADLY MISSED RIP MONICA
January 29, 2019
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
January 29, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. May the scriptures bring you peace and comfort: Isaiah 61:1,2
January 29, 2019
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Mary Wilson
January 29, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
January 29, 2019
My condolences. May the thoughts at Hosea 13:14, where God promises to reverse deaths effects, bring a measure of comfort during this difficult time.*
SAS
January 29, 2019
Sincere condolences to the family of Monica, May Gods loving kindness comfort the family and give them peace.(1Cor.1:3)
January 29, 2019
Sorry for the loss of your loved one. May God give the family the comfort needed at this difficult time. God keeps in his memory those who have passed away in death because they are precious in his eyes. May you find comfort in his words at John 6:40
January 29, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn," strengthen you during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1, 2
K B
January 29, 2019
My Mom was born the same year, and I truly couldnt imagine losing her. So my heart goes to the family with my deepest condolences! Remember God is with the lowly and crushed in spirit. Rely on him during these hard times and he will help you. (Isaiah 57:15)
Earnie Ray
January 29, 2019
My condolences to the family . May you find comfort in your treasured memories and Gods promise to return your loved ones who passed away in death . 1 Thessalonians 4 : 13 , 14
January 29, 2019
To Monica's family and friends please accept my sincere sympathy during these challenging times. May you treasure fond memories of the good times you shared with her until Hosea 13:14 is fulfilled.
MURRAY
January 29, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn," strengthen you during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1, 2.
Virginia Cruz
January 29, 2019
My sympathy and condolences to family and friends of Monica. May your memories of Monica remain in your hearts and help you through difficult days.
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