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Patricia Pedroia Obituary

Patricia (Trisha) Martin Pedroia, 58, of Occidental, CA, died unexpectedly on her ranch, Tuesday, November 23, 2010. She will be greatly missed by family and friends. Trisha was preceded in death by her husband Vince Pedroia and her parents Leo and Pauline Martin. She is survived by her stepdaughter Joelle Prather (Richard); and granddaughter Fiona; by her stepson Jason Pedroia and grandson Victor; her Chihuahua Sassy, horses Red and Andy; and a colorful tapestry of family and friends from around the world. Each of us a thread, captured by her smile, her laughter and unconditional love. Trisha was born December 15, 1951 in Highland Park, Michigan. In the 1970's she and a girlfriend loaded up her car with a few belongings and headed west to California. She worked for the University of California, Davis for 25 years, with her last 18 at Bodega Marine Laboratory as the Human Resources Manager. She retired April Fools Day 2006 with a friend and co-worker. They celebrated "graduation" with a two week trip to Hawaii and never looked back. Trisha and Vince "The Hat" Pedroia were married August 23, 1980 and celebrated their 26th anniversary shortly before his death May 29, 2007. Together they built their hill top home on Vince's family ranch; including a barn and a riding arena for Trisha's beloved horses. In 1996 they planted a small vineyard from which award-winning Sonoma County wines are produced. They shared a love of cowboy music and poetry, dancing and riding both horses and the rails. Trisha kept Vince's legacy of poems, cartoons and stories alive by publishing a collection in 2006 called "A Mano". Trisha's interests were varied and passionate. She was a gifted equestrienne, and after 15 years of high-level show jumping competition, she left the ring for the pleasures of trail riding in western Sonoma County with her friends. She was the consummate music enthusiast, who thought nothing of driving many miles to attend live shows by singer-songwriters. She supported emerging artists and was a vocal advocate for those she admired. This passion took her on some of her greatest adventures riding music trains in Canada, Mexico and the Southwest, and backpacking on horseback deep into national parks with the artists, poets, musicians, and fellow fans who became an extension of her family. Trisha was a gifted photographer with a keen and sensitive eye. Her photographs of nature and family celebrations are part of her legacy. She won several ribbons at the Sonoma County Fair. She loved to dance and met Vince in a dance class, where they were first students and then assistant instructors of California swing and ballroom. For the past three years, she enjoyed contemporary line dancing several times a week with close friends. Known by friends and family as a person of immense integrity and compassion, Trisha also had a glint of mischief in her eyes and a smile that lit up any room. She had a delightfully incongruent group of friends who got to know each other through the tales and music she shared from her adventures. Her story telling skills always left you feeling as though you'd been along for the ride. Trisha loved deeply and was deeply loved. Excerpt from Brethren by Vince Pedroia: Then we laugh. And go side-by-side. Blue sky as far as the horizon. Horizon as far as the sky. And roundness that lets us go on forever. Together. In lieu of flowers, please remember Trisha with a contribution to one of the organizations that was important to her: Sutter VNA & Hospice, 1110 N. Dutton Avenue, Santa Rosa, CA 95401 Humane Society of Sonoma County, PO Box 1296, Santa Rosa, CA 95402 Giant Steps Therapeutic Equestrian Center, P.O. Box 4855, Petaluma, CA 94955 Bravo! Common Men, Uncommon Valor, www.indiegogo.com/bravo!- common-men-uncommon-valor

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Published by Press Democrat from Nov. 30 to Dec. 2, 2010.

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Kathy Mullins Zenobi

November 27, 2020

She certainly will not be forgotten. Both she, and husband Vince will remain my friends.

Peter O'Brien

November 24, 2020

Trisha, it's hard to believe ten years have passes since you left us. You made a huge impact on all, like me, who met you through travelling on Roots on the Rails trips across Canada and the United States and attending Cowboy Poetry Festivals in Elko, Nevada. My life was enriched beyond measure for having met and shared so many adventures. Nothing I say can thank you enough for what you brought into my life and those memories will stay with me for ever.

Betty Plevney

December 23, 2010

She had no knee caps and a scar that ran through her eyebrows. Years ago, she learned how to walk again then dance. He spun her around the tiny floor of the mobile home on top of the mountain. The dining room table pushed to the wall. The music swung with laughter. Years passed. The house replaced the double wide and the dancing continued. The love. The laughter. The friends, the horses, the music, the rides, the wine. Today, the redwoods sough in the sinuous silence. High above the mountain a hawk calls. Goodbye, Trisha. Goodbye Vince.

Diane

December 4, 2010

Pedroia family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Be assured Vince met Trish with open arms when she stepped off the train for their first dance at heavens gate. I met Vince when we started scanning his clients pets and met Trish shortly after. They were soulmates thru thick and thin and thin. Keep their memories close to your hearts.

Kathy Mullins Zenobi

December 1, 2010

This world and I will be missing an amazing human being. So glad to have shared a part of Trisha's life.

Kathy Mullins Zenobi

Audrey Auld-Mezera

December 1, 2010

I was stopped in my tracks
When I heard you were gone
I always thought,
"There'll be another smile"
"There'll be another song"

And I suppose there will be
But everything is changed
For without you in our world
Nothing is the same.

See you on the heavenly train,
Audrey x

Rose Pedroia

December 1, 2010

Even though we were both married into the Pedroia family I didn't know Trish as well as I could have but I knew that she was loved and respected in her community and that she and Vince had a mutual love and respect for each other. She took Vince's death and continued to pursue the things that were important to both of them and I personally feel you honor your loved ones by living well. To the Pedroia family I am sorry for the loss of another loved one, I know you are still dealing with the loss of Vince and this is one less connection. My last visit to Vince he asked me to give a little wave in his direction on the new bridges I crossed in my life and each step I think of him. So, to Trish on your new journey I send a wave to you and Vince.
Always, Rose

Lauriejo Schaeffer

December 1, 2010

Trisha, a fellow live music enthusiast, a "can do" person, an absolute delight to be around, always so positive, happy and helpful. I miss you, TrishaJo.

November 30, 2010

Trisha, I am so very grateful to have had the chance to know you in this life. Your ability to live each moment to the fullest sets a beautiful example for the rest of us. I hope I find you again so we have a chance to ride the great horses in the sky. Blessed be my friend. You are sorely missed by us all.
Charlie R (Windsor VT)

Stephanie Erkeneff

November 30, 2010

Trisha:
I will miss you and your wonderful shared photos of train trips!
I am blessed to have known you

Tunny Pattison

November 30, 2010

Trish,
I hope the road I'm on will meet yours someday. For 35 years, you contributed so much to me and everyone you met. In various gatherings we all inquired about our latest experience with you. You were a part of so many people's lives - you were that special connection. You touched us in a gentle quiet way. You were the ultimate friend.

Sarah Ovenden

November 30, 2010

Trisha was one of the finest people who has ever dropped into my life -- radiating joy and enthusiasm to all those around her. She embraced every moment and every experience offered to her,even the tough ones, which is a lesson we should all take to heart. A woman of exquisite taste, I also recall her delight in being introduced to the best street vendor hot dog in Toronto -- such a grin, scarfing down a bun full of mystery meat!! Our "train family" has lost a vital member of the clan, and we all send our love and warm thoughts to her family and friends.

friends

BML Gang

November 30, 2010

George Douglas

November 30, 2010

Trisha,
On a clear night, when there's a billion stars, I'll look up and see your smile.

With camera in one hand and a glass of wine in the other, Trisha aboard the Ocean Nova, Atlantic Adventure, 09/2010 - photo by L. Feinstein

Lili Feinstein

November 30, 2010

Trisha,
I didn't know you well or for long, but I'm grateful for the short while that our lives intersected. I hope that during your lifetime you knew just how well loved you were by so many and how much you'll be missed by them.

Leanna Kielian-Barry

November 30, 2010

Trisha, Vince and Family,
I will always carry in my memory the image of You and Vince at the Sonoma County Fair on Farmer's Day together each wearing a well worn straw hat. That memory of you both has always stayed in my mind as the example of possibility...What a true relationship can be. Each fully realized individuals, both united as a couple. Peace to you both and your family at this time. May beautiful memories be the inspiration that lives on and guides others and perhaps softens the loss of you both, for those left behind too soon.

Bonnie Michel

November 30, 2010

Trisha, you were such a bright light in our family of train travel and music lovers and will be greatly missed. You enriched our lives and it was a joy to have known you.

November 30, 2010

Trisha, I will never forget the strength you carried when Vince passed away...it amazed me. I will always remember walking the track with you at Relay for Life. You will always be loved and remembered

November 30, 2010

I've been on nine of the Roots on the Rails Music trains in the US and Canada.Trisha was on every one and became a dear friend.

Lila Forro

November 30, 2010

Trisha, some of the happiest times of my life were spent in your company, against a backdrop of trains, polar bears, open sea, poetry and fabulous music. Thank you for the gift of your friendship. I will never forget you.

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